Nandini's changing colours - Page 2

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

True
Sex workers are doing it to make a living
They are not cheaters
They just do what they are paid for
Unlike N , who betrays without any gulit
Look at her carrying ganapaty bappa and going to Mauli's house m
I am out of words what to call her !
For that kind of guiltyless behaviour?
Kunal he wants to keep both !
Utterly shameless creatures

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

If you look at this from psychology perspective it makes total sense - Nandini craves male approval. I think or am assuming that majority of this forum members come from a happy home where they were cared for and nurtured and given the confidence that it is okay to be alone. Nandini never had that. From what I gathered and please correct me if I am wrong her dad was never complimentary towards her and her mum was a mousy woman. She never got any male approval and latched on to Mauli whose family life was perfect.

Then Nandini married Rajdeep and thought she would get approval there but it was a fail too. She never had any confidence and that's why she was in awe of Mauli who is very confident. When kunal started showing attention she finally got that male approval that she was craving. I am looking at this clinically - in normal cases I guarantee every single person here would maintain their distance when a married man starts showing attention but she gravitated towards him. Then he said few more dialogues and that was it.

Her only thing I am not able to understand is that sexual abuse victims never crave sex - however, to please their partner they will give in. I didn't not see hesitation in Nandini as she appears to enjoy it too and that's the horrible execution of the scene.

I am blaming Nandini for breaking her only friends trust but if I were to put my Psychiatrist hat then her behaviour makes total sense. Do I approve that? NO AND NO but I can understand that. Here the only person to blame is kunal who as a doctor should know that. If he has gone to medical school and completed his papers then this is so f****g obvious.

Nandini needs therapy badly - I would even recommend hypnosis to treat her past trauma.

She is not human.She does not feel the normal human emotions.I have reached to this conclusion and will watch the episodes keeping this is mind so that it can be less frustrating for me.

Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

Does hypnosis really takes place...does it work ?

Can you explain or Pm

It depends on the level of abuse and if other therapy is positive for the patient. It is on a case by case basis and mutual consent of the psychiatrist and the client.

In past I have had my clients mention that it helped them overcome repressed trauma and move on. My last client I used this therapy didn't like it so we moved on to other options so unless I know the case and level of trauma I cannot recommend with complete certainty.

Hope this helps?

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

If you look at this from psychology perspective it makes total sense - Nandini craves male approval. I think or am assuming that majority of this forum members come from a happy home where they were cared for and nurtured and given the confidence that it is okay to be alone. Nandini never had that. From what I gathered and please correct me if I am wrong her dad was never complimentary towards her and her mum was a mousy woman. She never got any male approval and latched on to Mauli whose family life was perfect.

Then Nandini married Rajdeep and thought she would get approval there but it was a fail too. She never had any confidence and that's why she was in awe of Mauli who is very confident. When kunal started showing attention she finally got that male approval that she was craving. I am looking at this clinically - in normal cases I guarantee every single person here would maintain their distance when a married man starts showing attention but she gravitated towards him. Then he said few more dialogues and that was it.

Her only thing I am not able to understand is that sexual abuse victims never crave sex - however, to please their partner they will give in. I didn't not see hesitation in Nandini as she appears to enjoy it too and that's the horrible execution of the scene.

I am blaming Nandini for breaking her only friends trust but if I were to put my Psychiatrist hat then her behaviour makes total sense. Do I approve that? NO AND NO but I can understand that. Here the only person to blame is kunal who as a doctor should know that. If he has gone to medical school and completed his papers then this is so f****g obvious.

Nandini needs therapy badly - I would even recommend hypnosis to treat her past trauma.

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

Mauli should have sent her to psychiatrist first ..and kunal he sucks ..being a doctor taking advantage if a abuse victim ..for his needs of lust

Exactly!!!! As a doctor I find that this is an absolute mockery of a humble profession.

I have had many clients say to me that they have fallen in love with me - it is perfectly natural because I am the one they discuss their innermost thoughts, but that's when you have to be clinical and decide if they really mean that - if they do then you move them to other doctor and if they don't then you address that too and empower them.

That's why I have never liked kunal- from day one I have said he is the culprit more so than Nandini.

Her character is just like kumud of chokher Bali.
She craves for what Mauli has. And sees the single opportunity her values fall behind.
Greed overrules and she turns negative.
She had kunal and she has been able to get him from Mauli.
Her next greed is getting a place in th family
It is like Kunal loves me and I have taken his wife s place in bed so why not I become a part of the family
She wants all that Mauli has value virtue is all crap.
Problem is she is being portrayed as helpless and Mata Anna epitom of a perfect woman and divine love.
In West Bengal in a tribe a lady had an affair with a married man.
The villagers beat the lady so badly she died and the man was also beaten and thrown on the railway track he lost his leg.
The wife suffered a lot for this lady but still she said villagers were wrong in beating her to death.
But if we say some thing bad about N then we are in bad taste

Originally posted by: IDO20

Her character is just like kumud of chokher Bali.
She craves for what Mauli has. And sees the single opportunity her values fall behind.
Greed overrules and she turns negative.
She had kunal and she has been able to get him from Mauli.
Her next greed is getting a place in th family
It is like Kunal loves me and I have taken his wife s place in bed so why not I become a part of the family
She wants all that Mauli has value virtue is all crap.
Problem is she is being portrayed as helpless and Mata Anna epitom of a perfect woman and divine love.
In West Bengal in a tribe a lady had an affair with a married man.
The villagers beat the lady so badly she died and the man was also beaten and thrown on the railway track he lost his leg.
The wife suffered a lot for this lady but still she said villagers were wrong in beating her to death.
But if we say some thing bad about N then we are in bad taste

I never like to ask anyone to change their opinion as I am a firm believer that everyone is entitled to their opinion- some educated some not. No opinion is wrong for the individual whom is linked to it but it depends on how ones opinions affect others.

A paedophile may say his love is pure and his victim reciprocates it too but we know and it's a law that kids cannot and have no idea of consent. Here Nandini is to be blamed but in my opinion for breaking her friends trust. I honestly don't think she wants what Mauli has - I think she just wants love and approval from a male. Till now I think kunal is the only man who showed her some happiness. That monis doesn't count he was too young when he liked her and regardless never pursued further.

I am not trying to change your views but trying to make you understand that at times people do things which are truly bizarre. Btw, it is really interesting to hear your take too.

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

I never like to ask anyone to change their opinion as I am a firm believer that everyone is entitled to their opinion- some educated some not. No opinion is wrong for the individual whom is linked to it but it depends on how ones opinions affect others.

A paedophile may say his love is pure and his victim reciprocates it too but we know and it's a law that kids cannot and have no idea of consent. Here Nandini is to be blamed but in my opinion for breaking her friends trust. I honestly don't think she wants what Mauli has - I think she just wants love and approval from a male. Till now I think kunal is the only man who showed her some happiness. That monis doesn't count he was too young when he liked her and regardless never pursued further.

I am not trying to change your views but trying to make you understand that at times people do things which are truly bizarre. Btw, it is really interesting to hear your take too.

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

Even commuting adultery is crime and kunal can face prison up to 5 years

I personally think it's archaic to make adultery a crime when it's with mutual consent but if it's Indian law then laws needs to be adhered unless they are repealed.

I have given up on this show but I love to read different take on this forum.