its easy to cheat - Page 2

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

I feel all it takes to cheat is a moment of weakness or vulnerability. It takes everything to fight those desires and then one is left to face consequences of the actions they took in those moments.

But guilt is a very strong emotion in my opinion. It literally takes you to certain level of insanity. Nandini not feeling that makes it very disturbing.

Originally posted by: DracarysTrio

I agree with the crying part, crying helpless women are not my cup of tea and Nandini used to be a character who started crying telling people about some diya she brought, like dude give the diya, you don't have to open your fountain

Thanks for sharing your story, I have always believed that emotional cheating is worse than physical cheating, you can be weak in the heat of the moment but emotions are concrete.

I was dating this guy, in my hostel days when I came back for summer vacation I met my Ex, he invited me for his birthday party and I went, we got to talking and we made out, next morning I called the guy I was dating and told him about it, I felt so bad, I just can't describe the feeling of being that person who crossed the line, I was like "I am going to hell anyway so why not give into the moment", it was difficult but I wanted to do it, so he and I broke up and I started dating my ex-boyfriend and now he's my boyfriend, it has been 5-6 years but that guilt won't go away, it's not like that I regret being with my boyfriend, I can never regret that because I do love him but I do regret that I shouldn't have cheated on him, I shouldn't have done that, I should have approached the situation in a more sensible manner

That incident taught me to be a more secure person, I don't hold on to my boyfriend anymore, if he wants to be with me he can and if he finds someone better all he has to do is tell me and same goes for me, we don't hound each other, we have the space we need, I won't say cheating is easy but I don't have a problem with accepting that if it comes to me VS someone else. I am selfish enough to choose myself and as a human I will try hard not to hurt other people