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Posted: 6 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: oldanurprernfan

She is a emotional manipulator. She had eyes on her target and she manipulated him in such a way he felt hard for her. Surely kunal's fault to break the vows but nandini is someone who knows how to target his soft spots. She targeted weak points of kunal's mouli's relation. Smart woman but for a wrong cause!


Totally agree about the emotional manipulation. I noticed this more, the subtle way of
her classic manipulation in yesterday's episode. When her new found love K was about to leave,
she stands right there with her usual sad poker face & he walks back in...that was classic.
Again was it intentional or not, I am not sure, but more of a subconscious manipulation.
She knows his weakness very well.
About the smartness, she should have used this against her first husband & gotten out
of that hell. Instead she's making hell for her best friend, who gave her so much.
And I read elsewhere in a different post that N might stop K from coming out n the open
about their reln.ship in order to protect her friend ( what friend?? )
At this point, anything she does will not suffice, because IMO, that friendship is over
& done with. Gone for a toss

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jiggy7



Iske liye pehle Kunal ko Nandini ke saath jabardasti karna padega jo kahin hota hua to nahi dikh raha hai.. Sab kuch to mutual hai...😆😆

Or did the show air some scenes where Kunal was violating Nandini and Nandini asked for Mauli's help, so now Mauli has to start choosing????

Mauli has always choosen Nandini whenever the situation demanded... The whole world was slandering her character, Mauli chose to believe Nandini!!!

Ab agar Nandini khud Kunal ke saath relationship mai rahegi apne marzi se, if both Kunal and Nandini chose each other, EVERYTHING BETWEEN THEM IS MUTUAL, THERE HAS BEEN NO VIOLATION OF NANDINI, WHAT EXACTLY SHOULD MAULI CHOOSE?????


what an answer👏
Loved it🤣
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I find Nandini someone who badly needs another to be herself. Generally if a very close friend says your fianc tried to molest her you will take your friends side - especially when you know how the friend is. Nandini chose Rajdeep.

Then she sadly went through horrific abuse and realised this was not what she thought life would be like. She again meets her friend and with her support she knows that even if she doesn't have a life partner she will have someone.

Now she is with Kunal - I have not seen her say she wants to be slone( if it's in past episodes I may have missed) and if she did say well she is not very decisive and adhering to her plan.

I always give abused women advise that first find yourself, you have gone through so much seek your identity and see what you like, and want. Then if life permits find another but don't depend on that new person to the point of madness. Nandini never got that - she jumps from boat to boat be that Rajdeep, Mauli, and now Kunal.

Abuse no way justifies cheating and that too where your guy runs and hides? I would have thought she would have texted him that what next? Husband sleeps with wife and you too on the side? Mauli looked fine so I doubt he is staying away from her but where to from here?

Nandini unfortunately has no idea how to handle that.
Edited by evenjleena28 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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If we talk about psychology of the Nandini character based on her circumstances she faced throughtout her life. My take:

As she is orphan she always craves for companionship whether they love or torture but she needs companionship who stay with her forever.Eventhough Rajdeep tortured her but she knew he wouldn't leave her .So whoever the person it is whe ther they loves her or not,she just needs companionship.

When Mauli helped her she knew Mauli would be there forever.So she got the courage and got rid of all the torture.But when Nandini decided and insisted to leave their home in the initial episodes when she overheard Kunal's words with Mauli.Mauli thought she want to be independent and so agreed for Nandini leaving the home but she didn't force her and chase her to stop her from leaving like kunal so she thought Mauli may not be there for her like a companion forever.

But when Kunal stopped and chased her from leaving promised her on holy books😆 that he loves her,she thought Kunal will be there forever with her.So she choosed Kunal over Mauli😆.So her ultimate goal is to have companionship for lifetime.

Some may ask why not she choose other man.I think she also developed some kind of inferiority complex after being in abusive relationship that she thinks someone cant love her.But when she saw Kunal admiring her,having feelings for her,She being a woman with inferiority complex might be thinking she may not find anyone who likes her the way she is.And also she thinks Kunal is the only guy which loves her and be with her forever😆.

Yeah in all this she comes across as a selfish person .But she thinks there is no other way to survive.

But i am curious to know her thoughts now regarding next step.What's her next plan? or thoughts?I mean whether she is ok if Kunal wants both the women as she is not thinking or introspecting it further or She will ask kunal divorce Mouli?or She is just going with the flow?I can't able to understand her thoughts now

Finally small question.Is Nandini orphan from childhood?or Her parents died recently(i mean after she grown up)??

What's her educational qualification??
Edited by ...Nihara... - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: mamta-salian

First of all your besty will never ask you to choose between your finace/spouse/ boyfriend/girlfriend. They know you in and out.

Instead of taking it to her Ego she should have exposed rajdeep and saved nandini's life.
Just a doubt agar nandini Mauli ko bolti ki choose between me and Kunal toh Mauli kisse chunti?



My best friends boyfriend tried to act smart with me in college, I told her immediately. She and I met with that puke worthy sorry excuse of a human and he tried to spin that on me saying I came onto him!!! I had a serious boyfriend back then but my bestie and I knew each other since childhood. My friend did not even dignify that losers accusation with her response but broke up with him then and there. She is still my best friend after almost 15 years. That creep then told my then boyfriend that I was coming on to him and my guy told him to move on and don't waste his time. THATS HOW TRUE FRIENDS BEHAVE!!!

M had no reason to go find truth when the one person whom should have believed her, didn't. Mauli took Rajdeep on her own and won too - that's my kind of girl and I am sure if Nandini says Kunal did that she will kick Kunal to the kerb. Real friends don't make things up, and they don't back stab.
Edited by evenjleena28 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: ...Nihara...

If we talk about psychology of the Nandini character based on her circumstances she faced throughtout her life. My take:


As she is orphan she always craves for companionship whether they love or torture but she needs companionship who stay with her forever.Eventhough Rajdeep tortured her but she knew he wouldn't leave her .So whoever the person it is whe ther they loves her or not,she just needs companionship.

When Mauli helped her she knew Mauli would be there forever.So she got the courage and got rid of all the torture.But when Nandini decided and insisted to leave their home in the initial episodes when she overheard Kunal's words with Mauli.Mauli thought she want to be independent and so agreed for Nandini leaving the home but she didn't force her and chase her to stop her from leaving like kunal so she thought Mauli may not be there for her like a companion forever.

But when Kunal stopped and chased her from leaving promised her on holy books😆 that he loves her,she thought Kunal will be there forever with her.So she choosed Kunal over Mauli😆.So her ultimate goal is to have companionship for lifetime.

Some may ask why not she choose other man.I think she also developed some kind of inferiority complex after being in abusive relationship that she thinks someone cant love her.But when she saw Kunal admiring her,having feelings for her,She being a woman with inferiority complex might be thinking she may not find anyone who likes her the way she is.And also she thinks Kunal is the only guy which loves her and be with her forever😆.

Yeah in all this she comes across as a selfish person .But she thinks there is no other way to survive.

But i am curious to know her thoughts now regarding next step.What's her next plan? or thoughts?I mean whether she is ok if Kunal wants both the women as she is not thinking or introspecting it further or She will ask kunal divorce Mouli?or She is just going with the flow?I can't able to understand her thoughts now

Finally small question.Is Nandini orphan from childhood?or Her parents died recently(i mean after she grown up)??

What's her educational qualification??


No her parents died after marriage.. Makes me wonder sometimes whether she would have tried to take her parents'help to get rid of Rajdeep since the guy had started torturing her just some months after her marriage..

I think she failed the 12th board exam and at the same time Mauli cleared CPMT.. After that her parents married her to Rajdeep...

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