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Posted: 7 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: S.Stephy

Nandini is not just doing disservice to another woman but to a friend; and not just any friend but that friend who went out of the way to help her out of the mess she was in. Not just helped her out but took her into her home, emotionally supported her, encouraged her to work, helped her to have her own place to stay, etc.

What is unfortunate is that there were many people who warned Mauli not to go this extent for a friend; that this will come back to bite her and that friendship isn't worth the risk. Mauli, of course, never paid heed to the naysayers but stood by her friendship and did all that she could for her friend. But Nandini, by giving into her desires, has unfortunately proved those people right. This is sad because in a way, this story is trying to say that one should be cautious of giving importance to friendship and with helping a friend or just any woman in need.

yes that is the saddest part of this story.
They are telling you should not help.
Especially someone who betrayed you once.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Of course friendship isn't weak, but love has a power to conquer/destroy anything, and I think that's the reason they say LOVE IS BLIND. They wouldn't say it just like that! It has strong history and stories behind it! And honestly when it comes to this emotion I think every thing else takes a back seat and only few people have control on such emotions! That's why there is something called as society to put barriers, but love knows no bounds and some people walk beyond it! But it doesn't mean friendship is weak, but love is beyond all the relationship even if someone agrees to it or not! Of course Nandini and Kunal are wrong, that's the reason they are guilty the moment they witness Mauli and they will do everything to hide it, so she isn't hurt and don't want to face the guilt! But once out in open, never know who will chose whom
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Posted: 7 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Preetieee

Everyone is saying apne bff ko cheat karna galat hai par agar nandini n mauli friends naa hoti wo ek dusre ko jante bhi nahi to kya tab bhi married man ke saath affair karna thik hota?

it wud still be wrong. but here it is more wrong as mauli is her friend. she has already backstabbed her once for rajdeep. this time she is taking her husband.
ok kunal loves you and has already cheated mauli. what is she doing why dosent she reject kunals advances saying i dont want to ruin my friendship

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Posted: 7 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: S.Stephy

Nandini is not just doing disservice to another woman but to a friend; and not just any friend but that friend who went out of the way to help her out of the mess she was in. Not just helped her out but took her into her home, emotionally supported her, encouraged her to work, helped her to have her own place to stay, etc.

What is unfortunate is that there were many people who warned Mauli not to go this extent for a friend; that this will come back to bite her and that friendship isn't worth the risk. Mauli, of course, never paid heed to the naysayers but stood by her friendship and did all that she could for her friend. But Nandini, by giving into her desires, has unfortunately proved those people right. This is sad because in a way, this story is trying to say that one should be cautious of giving importance to friendship and with helping a friend or just any woman in need.


true. giving a wrong message.
but actually when nandani broke trust of mauli 1st time she should have been careful not to trust her again so much
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: naq5

it wud still be wrong. but here it is more wrong as mauli is her friend. she has already backstabbed her once for rajdeep. this time she is taking her husband.
ok kunal loves you and has already cheated mauli. what is she doing why dosent she reject kunals advances saying i dont want to ruin my friendship


When did Nandini backstab Mauli for Rajdeep? why chosing one relationship over another becomes backstabbing? Everyone has their importance in life and so did Nandini have Rajdeep as her importance, it's definitely not necessary for everyone to equally respond to the relationship the same way, one does to another, it depends on individual, if I feel my friend is important and my fianc or my hubby isn't, that would be stupidity! How many in real life, chose friend over their fianc? yes Nandini is wrong now, but to say that Nandini backstabbed Mauli in the past is definitely not agreed
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Posted: 7 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

yes that is the saddest part of this story.
They are telling you should not help.
Especially someone who betrayed you once.


When did Nandini betray Mauli? why chosing one relationship over another becomes betraying? Everyone has their importance in life and so did Nandini have Rajdeep as her importance, it's definitely not necessary for everyone to equally respond to the relationship the same way, one does to another, it depends on individual, if I feel my friend is important and my fianc or my hubby isn't, that would be stupidity! How many in real life, chose friend over their fianc? yes Nandini is wrong now, and now she is betraying her friend, but earlier if she chose another person over her is not betrayel, it's one's personal decision, she didn't go and cheat her! She just trusted one person over another
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Relationship is a hypothetical bond, the strength resides in the person who's forming these bonds not on the type of bond, because we have seen mothers killing their baby, kids leaving their parents in old age home, spouses cheating on each other

Like kunal is a weak man who took everything from Mauli when there was nothing left or so he feels, he moved on to next woman, demanding to eat Kheer, his relationship with Mauli wasn't weak, he's a weak man, Mauli is in the same relationship but she's fulfilling every aspect of the relationship because she has the strength to work with it.

Same goes for Mauli and Nandini's friendship, the bond is not weak because Mauli fought not only Nandini's husband but her mother, she slapped Makhija for Nandini's self respect but Nandini gave into that craving of a man, not even contemplating that if a man can cheat on Mauli, he can cheat on her too
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Posted: 7 years ago
#38
Nandini proving herself a woman who has no backbone, she want ladoo on both d hands she want Kunal on one hand , so Mauli also on other hand.
I never disliked Nandini , thou I was liking her growth , I thought something major will happen which will make Nandini 4 Kunal but in this serial , a Baba's prediction made Nandini fall 4 kunal

Same goes 4 Kunal he had best of both d worlds
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Posted: 7 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: aashyagh


When did Nandini betray Mauli? why chosing one relationship over another becomes betraying? Everyone has their importance in life and so did Nandini have Rajdeep as her importance, it's definitely not necessary for everyone to equally respond to the relationship the same way, one does to another, it depends on individual, if I feel my friend is important and my fianc or my hubby isn't, that would be stupidity! How many in real life, chose friend over their fianc? yes Nandini is wrong now, and now she is betraying her friend, but earlier if she chose another person over her is not betrayel, it's one's personal decision, she didn't go and cheat her! She just trusted one person over another

There was no matter of choosing.
Everyone will choose fiance or husband above frienship.
Here mauli was telling nandini that rajdeep tried to molest her.
Rajderp on other hand was blaming that mauli is jealous of you and making stories...i dont remember exactly what he said.

Nandini believed rajdeep.

Is mauli a liar ?
does mauli throw herself at men ?
Will she be jealous of N ?
will mauli make story of molestation ?
N knew msuli since childhood.
N believed in the allegations of rdeep against mauli.
I wonder how a woman feels when she is blamed for making up a molestation story.

it wasnt about choice

There are endless reason to dislike N
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Posted: 7 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: aashyagh


When did Nandini backstab Mauli for Rajdeep? why chosing one relationship over another becomes backstabbing? Everyone has their importance in life and so did Nandini have Rajdeep as her importance, it's definitely not necessary for everyone to equally respond to the relationship the same way, one does to another, it depends on individual, if I feel my friend is important and my fianc or my hubby isn't, that would be stupidity! How many in real life, chose friend over their fianc? yes Nandini is wrong now, but to say that Nandini backstabbed Mauli in the past is definitely not agreed


you imagine you best friends fiancee trying to molest you. and your best friend not supporting you or believing thinking you are jealous of her. is it not back stabbing

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