My POV regarding background music - Page 2

Originally posted by: Up999

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Originally posted by: ...Nihara...

I agree with you the song represents his feeling towards Nandini.But that intense feeling towards another woman other than this wife is disgusting to me .Hearing those lyrics on a woman other than his wife while his wife was standing right infront of him is not appealing to me.If he didnt act on his feelings still i can understand,but he is acting on his feelings.I hope he doesn't involve with Mauli physically when he have feelings for Nandini,if he do so he will be a two timer and i don't support or relate with Nandini if she will not understand in future that he is a two timer after all these incidents.Lets hope Nandini realise Kunal is not a faithful person otherwise he wouldn't feel Mauli is a "Puraana rishtha".I have hopes only on Nandini now.She should come out of this asap as it is not good for both Mauli and Nandini.

Originally posted by: moumita.madhuk

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Originally posted by: pamk06

Well, as the show is about the other woman and feelings for the other woman then the music should be for the feeling for the other woman, correct? Having said that, don't you think it is too soon to call him a two timer and unfaithful as he is not done anything to justify it. I mean they haven't even verbalize them to each other. How can having feelings be wrong, they are just there. If having feelings is wrong, then as someone said on the forum, is having feelings or thinking about an actor, crushing on a character or a book hero wrong? Does that mean we are being unfaithful to our other half? In my opinion no, but everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

Originally posted by: Up999

HELLO; Nihara . I respect your POV but I don't agree with you completely. A married man should never have feelings for another woman. I agree on that part. But sometimes some things are not in our hands. If he and Nandini consciously act on their feelings behind Mauli's back, then that will be disgusting. But here whenever they are together they are trying their best of control their feelings, they are discussing that these feelings are not right. Lol if they really have strong intention to not cheat Mauli even in their heart and if they realise they shouldn't become a problem in each others lives they shouldn't even discuss or express openly that they have feelings for each other.I don't think they are controlling theor feelings.He is openly singing songs looking at her.She openly runs from there to other room 😆. It doesn't look like they are controlling their feelings in any angle😆. They are openly showing it,baaki family members looks like fools to me 😆as they have no clue what was happening and it almost seems like they are pretending to be too neive that they can't see Kunal singing song looking at Nandini😆They are planning to part away. In some extreme situations they are expressing their feelings, which they later are regretting. Kunal was with Nandini in a room locked whole day. They didn't do romance. If they would have done that, then that would be disgusting for me. But, when kunal lit the candle, then he was suddenly mesmerised by Nandini to such an extent that he momentarily forgot he is married. He momentarily forgot that he should never admire another woman like that, He just walked towards her in a trance and admired her. The background song then described his feelings. This feelings are not right. And they know it & they also know if they don't do something now, they might cross limits. they make me sad but not disgusted. They make me sad thinking why these change of emotions happened in their lives snatching their peace & happiness. They never planned for it, they never imagined it in their wildest dream but still that happened. They are doing whatever they can to correct the mess, but it's like a battle they were never prepared for as they never imagined that they would land ever in a situation like this. I believe in all these years of kunal's married life, of course kunal has seen prettier woman than Mauli, but his love didn't change. He has also seen Nandini in more beautiful appearance but he didn't get attracted. But something changed on that rainy day, something about Namdini attracted kunal on that rainy day,kunal suddenly saw Nandini in a different light on that rainy day causing a sudden intense attraction & leaving a permanent impact on his heart. NOW If kuNan decide they won't tell Mauli anything and will act on their feelings behind her back, then that would be disgusting to me. Have you heard of one sided love? For example, you fell in love with a wonderful perso but he considers you as friend. The person whose love was not resiprocated, he/she also get married to another person (not their love) someday. Does the feeling completely go away? I don't think so. But they mask it. But deep inside the feelings stay.

In the initial days when kunal's feelings were still on a superficial level, kunal used to stick to Mauli more with the hope that Mauli's closeness will erase Nandini from his mind. But that didn't happen. Rather feelings for Nandini erased his romantic love for Mauli. Noe he loves Mauli but is not in love with her a romantic way. We are shown that he is not thinking of being intimate with Mauli . Rather Mauli's romantic touches are making him uncomfortable.

Yes, of course he must tell Mauli that he is no longer in love with Mauli but he loves Mauli as a person and doesn't want to hurt her. He fears Mauli's heartbreak. Where as a viewer I am fearing Mauli's heartbreak, I am sad & upset thinking about her future heart break, here, we are talking about kunal who has spent many years with Mauli being in love with her & still loving her as a person. Of course it is very painful and difficult for him to tell the truth to mauli. Though it is the right thing to do. Kunal's emotions are so messed up now that it's clouding his judgement power & ability to do the right thing

Originally posted by: ...Nihara...

Regarding they dint romance in the locked room,LOL so until they don't romance,they can do all other stuffs?like getting feels when in the hug with each other by closing eyes and getting feels by the touch😆.If what they did is not wrong why was all acting like nothing happened when Mauli entered😆.Why so much tension on their faces😆.

Regarding your example.Don't you think you are comparing two false equivalencies?😆.If some person fell in love and when it is one sided,when that person got married to other person and still having feelings for first love.Lol how it is example in this scenerio.you are comparing two different scenarios.In your example person deveoped feelings before committed to any other person and after marriage i dont think anyone still give a hoot about their first love if particularly it is one sided😆.If they still have feelings after marriage for their first love even after knowing it is onesided ,i call it "obsession" not "love😆"

Here the scenerio is quite different from your example lol😆.Here the man is already committed(i mean married),i still can understand if he have feelings of attraction towards other woman but any loyal person doesn't try to give mixed signals or mixed signals to other woman if it really brings problem in t he lives of both the woman😆.He should not reveal to nandini about his feelings if at all he wanted happiness of both the woman😆.He looks selfish and a looser to me.He is a lost case now😆.Regarding Nandini i am not able to relate with her any more from their hug scene in the locked room lol😆.so i am refraining from commenting on N due to safety of your thread lol.Dont want to turn this thread into fanwar😆.To each his own😆