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Alohomora_

@Alohomora_

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Posted: 7 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: sailuja

@Bold disagree that for me that place i will never fall for him.. what the hell is.. ? but can fall love for him if he is single& if he is not married but i can agree that kunial is really good saviour.. but onething we have reminded that he is another girl husband.. how can she fall for him ? we can see him AS good friend and welfisher the way kunal protecting nandini .. as well as why kunal want to feel for her ? allreday he has good & loving wife.. that's way i hating kunal charater .. 🤢

Okay please don't say such things so lightly. You haven't been in Nandini's place and you don't know what she has been through. It is easy to say I won't do this and I won't do that in the comfort of a nice home and nice people around you but when you are in the shoes of a serially abused person things arent as simple as that. She is also dealing with psychological trauma along with the physical injuries. It is a very psychological thing for such victims to feel a certain draw towards the first person that shows them the kind of love and respect they always craved for and ached for in their abusive partner. Feelings are a very complex thing. We cannot predict how we will react to something unless we ourselves are subjected to such extreme conditions and I really don't wish such extremities for anyone ,not even in my dreams.Also you contradict yourself in your statement.First you say you will never fall for someone and then you say you will see if he is single or married and then decide to fall for him.Sorry but that sounds funny to me. This isn't a calculation ki itna soch samajhke kundali check karke fir kiye jaaye. It is natural human feelings that we are talking about that are not calculated moves .Soch samajhke nahi kia jaata. bas ho jata hai. Though sometimes I wish I could calculate who to fall for you know 😛😆 Would solve so many problems and heartbreaks.

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Anjali

@arshi_asya

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: sailuja

@Bold disagree that for me that place i will never fall for him.. what the hell is.. ? but can fall love for him if he is single& if he is not married but i can agree that kunial is really good saviour.. but onething we have reminded that he is another girl husband.. how can she fall for him ? we can see him AS good friend and welfisher the way kunal protecting nandini .. as well as why kunal want to feel for her ? allreday he has good & loving wife.. that's way i hating kunal charater .. 🤢

@bold in second quote.

This is an immature statement. You heart doesn't do that much processing when it falls for someone. This processing happens afterwards which is called fighting with your emotions if you feel you are wrong.

I don't think that you choose to fall for somebody. People are different. Sometimes you just fall for them because of their nature unknowingly and you can't help falling. You can fall for anyone but what you choose to do with your feelings is something that defines you in the long run. There are so many times people fall for guys/girls in a relationship but then they chose to leave them alone to make sure that their relationship isn't spoiled. People fight with their feelings to avoid hurting people they care about. You don't fall for somebody knowingly. It's you unconscious self that falls for them & affects your conscious actions. Same is happening with Kunal. In order to gain control he has to control his conscious self for which he will have to fight every moment with his feelings & that will happen only if makers want.

I used to have a huge crush on a guy back in school & then he got in relationship with one of my best friend. Then there was another single guy & again he got into relationship with another of my friend (This one was really heart-breaking). And this happened third time too. All I have done till date is to make sure that my head doesn't let my emotions ruin things for people. It's been so many years & my feelings have faded for each of them except for one on whom my crush was mighty strong. A part of me still can't stop thinking about him occasionally.

I think that's why their tagline is "Juzzbat sahi ya galat nahi hote", which is true. But I would add that juzzbat affect your decisions which are definitely right and wrong. And juzzbat with wrong people are going to be disastrous only.

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Kajal Ghosh

@ExpectoPatronu

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Posted: 7 years ago

#13

Mauli se jyada Nandini ko ek aisi life chahiye jisme wo bina kisi problem ke rah sake, jaise society wale hai aur Kunal ke family members bhi upar se Nandini ki support system Mauli sab uske against honge, boys ko koi kuch nahi kahega, ye sab log Nandini ko hi blame karenge, Mauli ek strong woman hai thoda pain hoga usko par wo Kunal pe itna dependent nahi hai

Jaha tak baat hai ki agar is scene ke baad Nandini ka Kunal ko pasand karna uske control me nahi hai to mera views is se thoda alag hai, Nandini aur Mauli ka relationship sisters Wala hai, kya sirf love interest hi protect karta hai girls ko, brothers protect nahi karte, to strictly kyonki Nandini ka relationship Mauli se hai to wo Kunal ko as a brother bhi to dekh hi sakti hai aur dekhegi bhi, kyonki Nandini ke liye important factor Mauli hoga

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Alohomora_

@Alohomora_

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: ExpectoPatronu
Har koi apni life me struggle karta hai, strongest women ko bhi kisi ek point par aisa lagta hai ki kash koi hota jo unki help karta, human ek social animal hai, help ya support sabhi ko chahiye, aur Nandini bahut hi weak hai jab baat Rajdeep ki ati hai, bhale hi wo upar uth rahi hai Rajdeep se par kahi na kahi wo sense of paranoia to rahta hai hai. Ye Mera point hai sirf aur sirf promo ke liye.
Episode me Nandini ne fight kiya tha, wo jo boys use tease kar rahe the unse, par ek bat samajh me nahi ayi ki us picture me aisa tha hi kya jo Nandini ya koi aur us par react karega, jab spoilers aye the mms ke mujhe laga mms release kiya hoga Rajdeep ne par Nandini to sirf ek dress me thi aur aisa nahi hai ki wo ya koi aur western clothes nahi pahnata is show me, ek scene tha jisme Nandini ne kaha Tha ki wo monkey lagti hai western clothes pahen ke, to pahli bat mujhe to is picture me kuch aisa dikha hi nahi, jabardasti ka plot daal diya, ye dikhane ke liye ki Nandini to sirf sari hi pahnanti hai aur western clothes se usko shame wali feeling hoti hai, waha par Kunal ka reaction mujhe acha laga.

Jaha tak baat hai ki agar is scene ke baad Nandini ka Kunal ko pasand karna uske control me nahi hai to mera views is se thoda alag hai, Nandini aur Mauli ka relationship sisters Wala hai, kya sirf love interest hi protect karta hai girls ko, brothers protect nahi karte, to strictly kyonki Nandini ka relationship Mauli se hai to wo Kunal ko as a brother bhi to dekh hi sakti hai aur dekhegi bhi, kyonki Nandini ke liye important factor Mauli hoga

Like I mentioned in my previous post love ek calculated move nahi hota ki sab soch samajhke analyse karke fir karo Ye humare haath me nahi hota how we feel for some people and why we feel that way despite not wishing to feel it for the person at all. Like I have seen people having feelings and being drawn to their own cousin brothers and some even getting married to them.It is like how much ever they tried to see them as brothers and kin they ended up just feeling the opposite and being attracted to them despite belonging to the same family tree and supposedly sharing a bond of siblings. It all boils down to the fact that you can't really tell yourself what to feel for who and can't control your emotions and thoughts. Feelings are very complex and unpredictable. If we could tell ourselves to look at someone only a certain way and not feel anything for them the world would be such a simple place to live in but in reality we live in a very complicated unpredictable world where feelings dominate who you fall for over rationale and logic.

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sailuja

@sailuja

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Posted: 7 years ago

#15

Guys iam 😛not coming to argue with anyone i talked about true love.. but this really got disappointed me. are u kidding me? . that's my wish and my opinion.. if u don't like whover people are here.. just leave it stay away from statement.. here iam not come to listen ur personal story and advises 😭🤣as well as don't teach me about world and arounding people who should be like something blah blah...😆. i know what is happening in the world.. but this is a story.. i can tell whatever my wishes like ur opinion.s ... as well as if u like & characters & story.. that's depending u.. because i am watching this story only for mauli character..iam in canada... i am seeing so many relation ship peoples.. 🤔

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Kajal Ghosh

@ExpectoPatronu

Navigator

Posted: 7 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: Alohomora_

Like I mentioned in my previous post love ek calculated move nahi hota ki sab soch samajhke analyse karke fir karo Ye humare haath me nahi hota how we feel for some people and why we feel that way despite not wishing to feel it for the person at all. Like I have seen people having feelings and being drawn to their own cousin brothers and some even getting married to them.It is like how much ever they tried to see them as brothers and kin they ended up just feeling the opposite and being attracted to them despite belonging to the same family tree and supposedly sharing a bond of siblings. It all boils down to the fact that you can't really tell yourself what to feel for who and can't control your emotions and thoughts. Feelings are very complex and unpredictable. If we could tell ourselves to look at someone only a certain way and not feel anything for them the world would be such a simple place to live in but in reality we live in a very complicated unpredictable world where feelings dominate who you fall for over rationale and logic.

Yaha par 2 factors hai

Love ko control karna possible nahi ha, agreed par Kunal EK married man hai, aur uski marriage Nandini ke best friend se hui hai, mujhe lagta hai ki jab tak aap kisi ko as a candidate hi nahi dekhte tab tak you can't fall in love, agar Nandini jo ki Mauli ko friend hai wo Kunal ke bare me sochegi to wo Kunal ko as Mauli ka husband dekhegi, na ki ek potential candidate jiske sath wo marriage kar sake, agar wo karti hai to wo Mauli ke bare me soch hi nahi rahi

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Alohomora_

@Alohomora_

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: sailuja
Guys iam 😛not coming to argue with anyone i talked about true love.. but this really got disappointed me. are u kidding me? . that's my wish and my opinion.. if u don't like whover people are here.. just leave it stay away from statement.. here iam not come to listen ur personal story and advises 😭🤣as well as don't teach me about world and arounding people who should be like something blah blah...😆. i know what is happening in the world.. but this is a story.. i can tell whatever my wishes like ur opinion.s ... as well as if u like & characters & story.. that's depending u.. because i am watching this story only for mauli character..iam in canada... i am seeing so many relation ships peoples.. 🤔

If you don't want people to reply to you maybe you shouldn't reply to them too or post in a public forum because if you do then you are bound to get replies and rebuttals .If you aren't prepared for the replies then maybe you shouldnt be posting here in the first place .Nobody gave you any personal stories and advices,they just replied to your post with their POV and look at your reply to that. If you cannot have a civil conversation then it is better you don't initiate one with bizarre logic so that nobody will reply to you and then you can live happily and peacefully in Canada .You have your views and others have theirs. If you can't take it then don't comment only..simple!

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sailuja

@sailuja

Sparkler

Posted: 7 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: Alohomora_

If you don't want people to reply to you maybe you shouldn't reply to them too or post in a public forum because if you do then you are bound to get replies and rebuttals .If you aren't prepared for the replies then maybe you shouldnt be posting here in the first place .Nobody gave you any personal stories and advices,they just replied to your post with their POV and look at your reply to that. If you cannot have a civil conversation then it is better you don't initiate one with bizarre logic so that nobody will reply to you and then you can live happily and peacefully in Canada .You have your views and others have theirs. If you can't take it then don't comment only..simple!

@bold same to u 🤣

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Alohomora_

@Alohomora_

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: ExpectoPatronu

Yaha par 2 factors hai
Love ko control karna possible nahi ha, agreed par Kunal EK married man hai, aur uski marriage Nandini ke best friend se hui hai, mujhe lagta hai ki jab tak aap kisi ko as a candidate hi nahi dekhte tab tak you can't fall in love, agar Nandini jo ki Mauli ko friend hai wo Kunal ke bare me sochegi to wo Kunal ko as Mauli ka husband dekhegi, na ki ek potential candidate jiske sath wo marriage kar sake, agar wo karti hai to wo Mauli ke bare me soch hi nahi rahi

Your statement is contradictory actually and I completely disagree with this logic because firstly this still suggests that in a way you can control your mind and tell it that this is a possible candidate for love and this isnt a possible candidate and I cannot fall for him and thus having a control over your feelings. .For instance I have seen brothers and sisters getting married , father and daughter meeting for the first time ever in 30 years and getting married, a son developing romantic feelings for his mother (Oedus complex in medical terminology) and lots of similar things. As terrible as all of this may sound human psychology and emotions are unpredictable and unbound. It isnt because they all look for a potential candidate in their parents or siblings. It is because they experience feelings unknown and unaware to themselves and arent able to hold it back. Every human being is different and every person will react differently to a given situation. Psychology and experiences play a big part when it comes to abuse and rape victims such as Nandini. In such cases their experiences dominate logic and rationale. As much as you tell yourself this isnt the right person for you your mind doesnt listen and wants to rebel. Human feelings are very complex and unpredictable. It isnt as easy as telling it ki this is and this isnt a potential candidate. If it was so simple we wouldnt have such bizarre relationships in the world.

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Alohomora_

@Alohomora_

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Posted: 7 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: sailuja

@bold same to u 🤣

Oh but darling I am not crying here to you that I live in Canada and I don't want any personal viewpoints and telling everyone to stay away from my topic 😆 You are the one that came and posted here and when you got replies that didnt support your viewpoints you started saying don't give me replies,stay away from my posts,I want to live in Canada , I am a a Canadian citizen, I dont want any personal advice etc etc. 🤣 I have never replied this way to anyone 😳 I always counter people with logic not with "don't come to me,stay away from me, I lam Canadian" statements you see 😆

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