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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

Btw this show is not about adultery . this show is about how Kunal is disturb by Nandini thought .he does not want to think about Nandini .he does not want to get attract towards Nandini .so he he is avoiding Nandini .he even don't want to go Infront of mmNandini .he want to spend more and time alone with Maui .so that Nandini thought vanish from his mind


in order not to think about Nandini thought he even book tickets for Sufi gazal only for himself and mauli .he didn't not book tickets for Nandini ..it is mauli who told him to take Nandiniwith them . otherwise he want to spend time with mauli only and he even refuse Nandini to make cofee for him and he himself make coffee

yes he get attract towards Nandini but it is good he is trying his best efforts not to fall in love with Nandini And I hope he will.come out of such feeling

in order to not to fall in love with Nandini in coming episode Kunal will tell mauli that u should make arrangements for Nandini.somewhere else

Thanks for expressing your views about show and not attacking me personally for my views.
It's good that if this show take such kind of turn .I am already going to stop watching but I am putting my hope on Nandini reaction and action.i would like to see her strong and independent and not giving in feelings for Kunal as he is her best friend husband.the only thing I would like to see forward to Nandini action in show and Kunal decision .
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: kendra

Finally! Someone who is talking sense. I don't know why everyone is hell bent on justifying extra martial affairs. I am a big fan of Drashti since MB days but i didn't watch this serial cause of it's theme. I watched few bits and pieces of Mauli. She is so amazing on screen.

The theme of promos was ridiculous. Saying Jazbaat toh Jazbaat hote hain! Seriously!? I don't think people realise how big of a deal an extra marital affair is. I think most of the people are supporting the show because of Drashti. Same was the case when Jennifer Winget played negative role. People blindly follow their stars. If this was Aditi Sharma as Nandini,,people would have slayed her.
And no matter what we say, TV and media affects a lot of people and to a great extent. I don't know why so many serials justify women abuse, forced marriages and now cheating. I really hope this serial does not spread any wrong message.
No offence to all three actors, they are amazing.


Finally , thank you and hats off to you for saying this . A story is a story , good or bad , we can dissect it but mostly there are biased views because their favorite actor is playing g the role...So there is no use arguing ...If it was the opposite and aditi sharma played nandini, one might have seen long posts , distributing gyan on ema and morals. After madhubala, which happened to be one of my most fav shows, I am scared to watch the shows of famous actors ..Galti se dekh liya , now I am.repenting. not planning to watch any further . I really liked mauli and kunal and their perfect family..Nandini was awesome ..But ab dekho..It came crashing down


If ema (which has not happened but then what else is the theme? Jai veeru ke jaise nandini mauli friendship?) Is entertainment , then rape, drugs , savdhan india , must be entertainment too..i know for social message or real stories , tv is not the medium ..Nor films ...Tv shows are not a reflection of our society ..There is nothing to learn or ape..Infact they must educate the audience about it ...yet people do get affected by what they see and hear...like our family, school college have a great influence on our thoughts and mindset , likewise what we see around us and on digital medium, it affects us...Why are reality shows successful? They play with our emotions and naive people think it's the reality ! Can anyone feel good after watching savdhan india? A 2 mins advertisement also affects our mind...Anyhow, I am only interested in the serial which I watch...The initial episodes were good and if a sensitive matter is presented well, good enough, I loved it too...But the fact is ema cannot be justified under any circumstance or compulsion . We may be entertained with the story but there is no justification whatsoever.


But suddenly its not making any sense to me ..A guy who is so much in love with his wife , aise hi he started getting attracted to the other woman ? It's not been 2 days in silsila..That means the neighbour and mauli's mom was correct ? They will prove it ? Ultimately the woman who sacrifices her personal life to build a career, not just hers but her husband, she is valued only if she cooks well, wear saaree , make babies and look after the house? .I liked silsila because they showed the opposite with mauli kunal...If they will topple this idea in the future , kya progressive dikhaya? And so quick ? Either don't show kunal as the perfect guy .Sorry, but this is the message they are giving through the show , they may not..But common perception will be "dekha aise kisi dost ko apne ghar nahi rakhna chahiye " ...It's been a few weeks and kunal.is a failed man..Wow ! Arre characterless toh na dikhao bechare ko...That's what dadi said no" humara kunal fisal.jayega kya? ?" 1 day and he is out !
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Keepdreaming



well said... I'm forced to say it ...when people say like it's promoting this and that , it remind me of those people who blame movie for increasing rape 🥱 ( lets not go into more shitty reason )

I did not blaming this show for promoting adultery .i find difficult to watch this show because of showing ideal romantic adulterous theme.
I think I will find more disgusting that show if anyone make to justify , romanticize the rape.there were movies in past which showed rape of heroine by hero as romantic start.and there are novels who showed alpha hero torturing and abusing heroine .but those movies and novels are liked by masses.but personally me is not comfortable with such content and concept.so it is my personal opinion that I don't like adultery or other things and I am not blaming movies and show.i have written my comments according to review of this show and content and it's practical or realistic approach.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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@ Patharsitara

I would like to apologize if any of my statements hurt you
Trust me i have no such intention

Like you share your point of view, I too sharing my view point.

End of the day, i don't want anyone to have hard feelings on petty issues of a Television show

I am no one to advice you
I am just suggesting not to bring in negativity in you, watching shows that disgusts you

It is very easy to criticize a person or a situation;
equally difficult to understand and standby a person who is publicly declared wrong

Anyways, you find my views rude and offensive ... so no use in taking forward this conversation

# "Tell me something, would you have reacted the same way if something similar happen in your society? Would you have questioned the person in fault??? Or is it just a computer thing???"

This was not a personal attack. Just a rhetorical question
A question to know whether you have same view point on every happenings around you.

Anyways, drop it

Sorry again
Take care
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anysia

@ Patharsitara

I would like to apologize if any of my statements hurt you
Trust me i have no such intention

Like you share your point of view, I too sharing my view point.

End of the day, i don't want anyone to have hard feelings on petty issues of a Television show

I am no one to advice you
I am just suggesting not to bring in negativity in you, watching shows that disgusts you

It is very easy to criticize a person or a situation;
equally difficult to understand and standby a person who is publicly declared wrong

Anyways, you find my views rude and offensive ... so no use in taking forward this conversation

# "Tell me something, would you have reacted the same way if something similar happen in your society? Would you have questioned the person in fault??? Or is it just a computer thing???"

This was not a personal attack. Just a rhetorical question
A question to know whether you have same view point on every happenings around you.

Anyways, drop it

Sorry again
Take care

I have already questioned and blocked that person vistoinv my house.the thing that i find this show content disgusting because I have seen real disgusting affair that affected my neighbour. I have seen her sick , depressed ,suicidal crying all time .I and my family is supporting her and there are other people too.
And most disgusting fact was that it was her younger sister whom she cared as mother and she became her sautan .so I hope you understand that why I am disgusted with this show .may be I am biased because of my real time experience but I can't find this show entertaining and theme good.

Also I wanted to say one more thing that people seem to see me social messenger because I condemned theme of this show.is commenting on theme of show is eualized to dsocial services .did I say that I am condemning because I am upright person and condemn and protest every evil in society because I am expressing views on show.
I already said I personally disgust with theme of show.that does not make me krantikari in society.same thing as liking this show don't make anyone adulterer.
So I hope I m not judged personally again and again.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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It is not the duty of every piece of art to send a social message. A serial or movie is supposed to tell a story. PERIOD. If you don't like it, don't watch it. Especially because it looks like you have your share of "moral" shows to watch.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anysia

@ Patharsitara

I would like to apologize if any of my statements hurt you
Trust me i have no such intention

Like you share your point of view, I too sharing my view point.

End of the day, i don't want anyone to have hard feelings on petty issues of a Television show

I am no one to advice you
I am just suggesting not to bring in negativity in you, watching shows that disgusts you

It is very easy to criticize a person or a situation;
equally difficult to understand and standby a person who is publicly declared wrong

Anyways, you find my views rude and offensive ... so no use in taking forward this conversation

# "Tell me something, would you have reacted the same way if something similar happen in your society? Would you have questioned the person in fault??? Or is it just a computer thing???"

This was not a personal attack. Just a rhetorical question
A question to know whether you have same view point on every happenings around you.

Anyways, drop it

Sorry again
Take care


I don't think you should apologize, because personal, rude, and offensive attacks were made on you too. I guess life's realities have taught you and me to understand that some areas in life are grey, but there are some who still want to live in an ideal world that doesn't exist, and forcefully label things as black or white.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: iota

It is not the duty of every piece of art to send a social message. A serial or movie is supposed to tell a story. PERIOD. If you don't like it, don't watch it. Especially because it looks like you have your share of "moral" shows to watch.

Did I said that if I don't like this show then why other like this show ?did I said liking this show is wrong then why many here are asking my views.is this forum is for only fans and their supporting comments.what if someone don't like this show and try to tell viewpoint on this show.why condemning me personally for show and questioning my taste of " moral show ".
I can also say that if you don't like my comment then don't comment here on my post .but I will not because everyone is free to express his or her opinion.you should express your views about show not on my taste and mentality.shows are n not forsocial msg .ok it's your view but making personal rematk on me and telling me don't watch show and mocking me for moral share.
Why getting offensive on real person for fictional show .I find it hilarious that people who find my comments about fictional show as immature ,silly and telling me it's just only show getting offensive on me personally directly and indirectly and questioning my mentality.is different pov is crime?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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It actually depends on one's definition of adultery, as of yet I reckon the show hasn't shown anything as such. Because adultery in my books is illegitimate intimacy, same for EMA. As of yet Nandini feels nought forget kissing and making out behind Mauli.

Yes Kunal is attracted to Nandini maybe more physically than anything else, but can we call it lust? Yes he seems to be smitten but as of yet he is controlling whatever hormones that drive the male gender. So for me he is an adult with issues; whether he is wrong or right that is up to each individual? But the fact that he is fighting, shows he is a decent guy. Do I like it? NO of course I don't but it seems genuine, the actor playing Kunal is doing a fantastic job.

You mentioned the biggest problem you have is the music and the general romanticising of something that is wrong, more specifically the projection of EMA in a positive light. However I see it differently, it isn't stemmed into any light neither positive nor negative. It is simply projected differently then what we are accustomed too. The 3rd wheel isn't always the evil tart, or the psycho lover. With Silsila they are trying to show that.

I understand it isn't everyone's cup of tea, heck even I am watching it for the sake of DD however I do love how they are showcasing it, the story telling is really good.

And yes Bepannah is also along the same line so it may seem Colors is treading on the EMA path. But each to their own, while Silsila deals with human complications, Bepannah moans over the death of their cheated partners.

I understand shows like this come with complications, however Shows/Soaps are a means of entertainment and if you feel it derives an ill thought then it's best to ignore. Take it with a pinch of salt, because it is the reality whether they show it on TV or not, it is happening. I see it as Maleficent, the wicked witch was hated but then we saw her POV, here they are trying to show the POV of someone else that isn't the wife. I understand the repercussions EMA has on a woman, and believe me I so feel for Mauli but Nandini isn't to blame not yet anyway and from the promos, what I understood is both Kunal and Nandini do eventually fall for one another but they let it go, so isn't that saying something.

Anyway I reckon you should give it chance before forming of any conclusion or simply ignore it

That's it for now, SOS it is a bit too long lol

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I would like to know this forum is open to all persons and all kind of views or not .I am judging the show and people are judging me.i am expressing my views and questioning theme of show hoping people post different kind of views about this show .but few are questioning my right to post here .few are making remark indirectly and directly on me insulting me and my mentality and thinking.
I hoped to see variety of opinion but I saw offensive remarks on me personally mocking me.
Why it is like this?
I liked those comments which showed different pov .and I liked that person who said she like such shows not getting defensive about it .I don't like it .I give my pov .others like it so give their pov.dont target me because I don't match with other opinion.
Debate on this forum is for expressing all kind of views and like and dislike about show.why disliking member and rude with them for having different pov.

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