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Posted: 7 years ago
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Kunal positive character nahi hai
Emotions ko control nahi kar sakte, but emotions bhi develop hote hi thinking se hai, jaise mai agar agar Kunal itna hi acha hai to wo Nandini ke bare me aisa sochega hi nahi, ye show bahut realistic hai, agar Kunal and Nandini ko happy ending milti hai to yahi to hota hai na world me, kitni women hai jinke husband unko chhodke dusri women ke pas chale gaye, sara pain to ek ko hi milta hai, Kunal to mujhe positive nahi lagta, usme aur Nandini ke husband me koi difference nahi hai
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I like this extramarital affair saga that is unfolding. I like the fact that the story is showing what is happening in this world. I like the fact that My favorite actress is acting with a beautiful man and they are going to have an affair. I like the fact that the wife is going to get hurt and will not trust her friend or husband.
I am watching this for entertainment and I will watch it as long as it is airing. I don't care if it is socially or morally responsible. I am not into extramarital affair and will never encourage anyone to do it. people who do it is their problem. I am pretty sure there were other shows and cinemas in the world that have been showing this theme for ages.
Speaking about Korean dramas and Movies. Have you seen Frozen flower(Jo In Sung is the one who has an affair with the queen), A man and a woman (Gong Yoo-My favorite star)? What is in your panties?(technically the girl has a boyfriend in this movie,but still). I think you have been watching all chaste Korean dramas and movies😆😆. There is a whole adult section of Korean dramas and movies that you need to watch.

Just because I watch this doesn't mean I am going to go after the first married man that comes my way. Let's say the drama stops airing, will the Extramarital affairs that are happening around the world go away? No.EMA has been there before the airing of this show and will be there after the airing of this show.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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and please don't judge serial by just seeing promo
in Windows scene he did not went there because he is falling in love with Nandini .it is storm came first he himself alone went to close window .and then he went to sleep
but after ward he see Windows has open again
so he get up again and want to close door again but he see Nandini there closing windows
when he see Nandini cannot. able to close alone so he help her and as soon door close he immediately went away from Nandini

he even did not like that mauli is not able to come at Sufi gazal program .he even get irritated when mauli say that too book tickets for Nandini .he even said that yeh tickets mains khaali mauli ke liye aur mere liye book karayi hai
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: madlal

<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">I like this extramarital affair saga that is unfolding. Ilike the fact that the story is showing what is happening in this world. I like the fact that My favorite actress is acting with a beautiful man and they are going to have an affair. I like thefact that the wife is going to get hurt and will not trust her friend or husband.</font>

<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">I am watching this for entertainment and I will watch it as long as it is airing. I don't care if it is socially or morally responsible. I am not into extramarital affair and will never encourage anyone to do it. people who do it is their problem. I am pretty sure there were other shows and cinemas in the world that have been showing this theme for ages.</font>
<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Speaking about Korean dramas and Movies. Have you seen Frozen flower(Jo InSung is the one who has an affair with the queen), A man and a woman (Gong Yoo-My favorite star)? What is in your panties?(technically the girl has a boyfriend in this movie,but still). I think you have been watching all chaste Korean dramas and movies😆😆. There is a wholeadult section of Korean dramas and movies that you need to watch.</font>

<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Just because I watch this doesn't mean I am going to go after the first married man that comes my way. Let's say the drama stops airing, will the Extramarital affairs that are happening around the world go away? No.EMA has been there before the airing of this show and will be there after the airing of this show.</font>



well said... I'm forced to say it ...when people say like it's promoting this and that , it remind me of those people who blame movie for increasing rape đŸ„± ( lets not go into more shitty reason )
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Patharsitara

I think you did not understand what I mean.getting attracted is one think but showing it in romantic light with romantic tune is another this.this show is trying to show adulterous emotions in Romantic light .and I have objection with it .and it's my opinion.i am not telling others to agree with mine .
This is just a show.ya this is just a show that I watched for my favourite actors but I find it disgusting so I wrote review of my pov.

You can very much share your views
This platform is made for that purpose ... to share views.

Romantic light with romantic tune ... are you kidding me???
What do you expect??? No background score at all?

If the show is about Kunal and Nandini ... won't there be romantic background/tune ???

Zazbaat zazbaat hote hai sahi galat nahi hote is theme dialogue of this show😆
Seriously what a bullshit line

Really??
FYI, that line is the catch of the show
which have intrigued many viewers to watch the episodes

Zazbaat Englsh is emotions right
Most of people act on emotions so if they do something right or wrong that totally depends on emotions so how can not a emotions wrong or right.when someone get a idea then it generate emotuemo related to that idea.if good idea and good emotions then people do good if bad idea and emotions then bad word.
Emotions are not only about love but it's also about hate,lust,ego,pride,faith and trust.
There is already research about how people emotions make them cruel,kind , suicidal , criminal ,terrorist.
People don't act on negative and positive emotions suddenly or I a day.when emotions continue to occupy their mind for long time they get deternind to work according to their emotions.

People who are rapist or cold blooded killer ,they don't kill or rape suddenly.in their mind they kill or rape multiple times before committing actual deed and get inspired by excitement and pleasure related emotions resulted from their mind visuals.
So how can it be said that emotions are not wrong or right.
There are definitely two types of emotions .negative and positive.
People need to control their unwanted emotions which may lead them on path of wrong deeds.
A adulturer don't commit adultery in one day.he continue to let emotions dictate his reasonable mind and moral values and one day when he or she can't control then commit deed actually.then they blame circumstances or other people for their own deed .

Don't you think you are taking a show too much seriously???
Tell me something, would you have reacted the say way if something similar happen in your society? Would you have questioned the person in fault???
Or is it just a computer thing???

All are criticizing Kunal because his feelings are projected on big screen
Every other person around us might be going through his phase;
we don't criticize them or call names

Actually the story that this show is showing so common.no matter how good your wife may be but husband get attracted to other woman.few remain in Their own limit ,few crossed the line and few are afraid of society and family reaction so leave the idea.
Thats why my problem with this show that dont try to romanticize the adulterous emotions in this show.dont play romantic music and don't justify such kind of affairs.

Husband or Wife ... is a gender differentiation needed here?
I would have watched this show even if it was shown Mauli getting attracted to anyone else

This show is for entertainment ... an imagination/work of fiction of the Writer
If you don't like it ... don't watch it, as simple as that.

I would have understood if you have problem with a scene
but you have problem with whole concept as such

Why are you wasting your time for a show you find disgusting??
I am sure there are many other show which you will find interesting; invest your time in that
and keep your mind happy.

Loyalty , honesty ,faith is traits of decent human being.if these are overruled by Lust and betrayal then how man is different from animal.getting tempted and feeling attracted is natural but because of this overlooking and throwing your marriage , partner,vows ,loyalty , character and trust is like creating Villain in one which will hurt nearest and dearest and oneself too.

Lust and Betrayal ??? Where does this words come from?
Lust ... like really? What Kunal is feeling towards Nandini is Lust??? I don't think so.

And betrayal?? again, like really??

At this stage itself if Kunal have betrayed Mauli ... aage aage dekho hota kya hai

My problem with this show that they are presenting hero heroine emotions as romantic .if show had showed hero and heroine as grey leads who are dictated by lust and affairs it would be ok.but no ,they are making adulterous emotions as romantic ,pure and ideal.and I think they will try to justify it in future.its really disgusting for me to watch it

Is zazbaat of hero and heroine only matter.are not zazbaat of wife too matter.
How can a week man can be projected as hero who fall in love with another woman despite being married.i dont know how drasti character will act in future.but if both are future pair then that means they will both definitely fall in love.
Hero is someone who protect his family and be firm in his values.
If leads projected as ideal good hero heroine and the their adulterous emotions as ideal romance then it's definitely disgusting for me.
Better than this web seties lust stories where adulterous couple don't project themselves as good and ideal people'.they know they are selfish and greedy.
If this show want to show adultery or ema then show it in true light ,grey shade.dont try to make it good by showing it in romantic and beautiful shade.

I repeat myself "Gone are days where movies / shows are telecast-ed to convey social values and messages. In today's world, it all about entertainment."

I am not justifying/supporting what is shown in this show
but i am practical enough to take it openhearted ... and watch it for pure entertainment purpose.

Today we have so many option
watch shows/read books which will keeps your mind at peace;
don't unnecessarily waste your time for shows/book which boils your blood

#Peace out

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Posted: 7 years ago
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For now I see nothing which I can say is wrong...the emotions kunal feeling for nandini isn't love but attraction...attraction is a just a feelings till it's only with you and abt kunal he is trying his best to fight against it...I don't think show tagline have anything to do with promoting EMA...Even I feel after marriage too people get attracted towards good things and it's normal until it's just a emotions and you know it's wrong and don't act upon it...till kunal fighting against it I can't blame him bcs anger ,attraction, love this emotions are beyond humans control..Sometimes people able to control it sometimes emotions overpower it and we work upon it which can be call wrong...This show is very much close to reality..And no where they claimed to give a social massage out of it...There is shows like bhabiji ghar pe Hain and people shipping vibhuti with bhabhiji and alternate couple...it not mean in real they support it...those people are mature enough to take entertainment as entertainment...there are shows like Kya haal mr panchal where a guy happily living with 5 wife's together...there is web series like woh humsafar they highly successful and well accepted by audience..almost all Indian shows promote EMA in a twisted way...I don't understand what's the big deal if they make it a main subject and focus about the complexity of the emotions?It's really easy to blame a third person for anything wrong in a couple life... this show focused how there can be another side of the story too..Sometimes it's not people but situation which went wrong...how will people react that time ? what happen when a loyal doctor who is well known for his ethics start feeling attractions unintentionally...his struggle to keep those thoughts our from his head but they come in his mind with double force...I agree not everyone can accept something as real as this...It's good for them not to watch but plz don't question writer channel or viewers mentality just bcs they think different than you...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Okay I don't know and care about other things. I am watching this show for DD as you say and my love for complex relation. Call me sadist but I love to watch complex relation and story where character suffers emotionally and love to suffer emotionally with them too😆 . I am mature enough not to get inspired by tv shows. Maybe some people will but in real world too no one is perfect and everyone has flaws and in silsila too no one is perfect(Only mouli seems perfect till now) all has flaws. Kunal is also not perfect. He gets attracts toward other woman when he loves his wife so much and who is so perfect and kunal is aware of that too and he keep asking himself why this is happening with him? Why he is thinking about other girl when he loves his wife so much and girl like mouli(who is such a perfect wife) is his wife. He doesn't wanted to feel that way. He also knows that what he is feeling right now is not right. What makers wanted to show us is not that EMA in good light but wanted to show us that what we feel for whom is not in our hand or mind. Being a good man his mind he is fighting against it but his heart is not listening to him. The theme which says jaazbaat sahi aur galat nahi hote iska yeh matalb hai ke feeling tho feeling hoti hai, woh kisi ka bhi hota hai, usme kisi ka bas nahi hota but act me hote hai. I don't understand the examples of criminal like Murder ke bhi jaazbaat hote hai and rajdeet ke bhi jaazbaat hote the, dude woh log ka bas jaazbaat nahi the woh log ne act kiya and crime kiya hai. Murder isle murder nahi hota kyu ki usko kisika murder karne ka man kiya but isliye hote hai ke woh log ne murder kiya. kisi bhi insaan ko isliye saaza nahi de shakte na ke usne kuch feel kiya. yese tho mujhe kabhi kabhi kisi ka murder karne ka man karta hai tho kya main murder hogyi?? Feeling kuch bhi and kisi ke bhi ho shakte hai but woh isaan par depend karta hai ke woh apne feeling par act karta hai ke nahi. Abhi tak tho kunal fight kar raha hai tho I don't thing woh galat hai but I agree his feeling is wrong. Jaazbaat tab tak sahi galat nahi hote jab tak woh kisi aur ko affect nahi karta.
And lust?? Sorry but I don't think what kunal feel for nandini kyu ki woh wet sari me thi agar yesa hota tho usko phale baar me nandini ke taraf attract hona chahiye tha jab usne nandini ko accident se bachaya tab bhi barish ho rahi thi ya fir jab pool me se bachya tha jab bhi usne sari pheli thi woh wet bhi thi and ise sexy sari thi😆

I feel attracted to many celebs who are handsome or who plays certain types of roles which attracts me. I love kunal like no end, and he is engaged. I am falling for many korean actors who are married and I am not guilty about it at all attracting kisi ko bhi kisi se bhi ho shakta hai.

and about BGM, yeh romantic BGM isle thi ke woh kunal ke dil me baj rahi thi I guess😆 BGM tho character ke mood and feeling ke according play hota hai na show me jaha tak mujhe pata hai. Jab koyi character ka revenge mood hota hai uske liye different type ka BGM play hota hai, woh time tho romantic BGM play suit nahi karga na.

P.S. I am not justifying EMA but ha I don't have any problem see these type of shows. I will defend, I will cruse but I will watch. I was always attracted toward these type of shows. Mene YHM ka Roshni, Adi, Aaliya track bhi dekha tha😆

P.P.S. It is too early to judge the show ke yeh EMA ko justified karta hai ke nahi abhi tak tho nahi kara hai. Just wanted to say don't judge the show by watching only promo and if you are watching than please watch it with open mind without being judgmental.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: HeartBeat321

Okay I don't know and care about other things. I am watching this show for DD as you say and my love for complex relation. Call me sadist but I love to watch complex relation and story where character suffers emotionally and love to suffer emotionally with them too😆 . I am mature enough not to get inspired by tv shows. Maybe some people will but in real world too no one is perfect and everyone has flaws and in silsila too no one is perfect(Only mouli seems perfect till now) all has flaws. Kunal is also not perfect. He gets attracts toward other woman when he loves his wife so much and who is so perfect and kunal is aware of that too and he keep asking himself why this is happening with him? Why he is thinking about other girl when he loves his wife so much and girl like mouli(who is such a perfect wife) is his wife. He doesn't wanted to feel that way. He also knows that what he is feeling right now is not right. What makers wanted to show us is not that EMA in good light but wanted to show us that what we feel for whom is not in our hand or mind. Being a good man his mind he is fighting against it but his heart is not listening to him. The theme which says jaazbaat sahi aur galat nahi hote iska yeh matalb hai ke feeling tho feeling hoti hai, woh kisi ka bhi hota hai, usme kisi ka bas nahi hota but act me hote hai. I don't understand the examples of criminal like Murder ke bhi jaazbaat hote hai and rajdeet ke bhi jaazbaat hote the, dude woh log ka bas jaazbaat nahi the woh log ne act kiya and crime kiya hai. Murder isle murder nahi hota kyu ki usko kisika murder karne ka man kiya but isliye hote hai ke woh log ne murder kiya. kisi bhi insaan ko isliye saaza nahi de shakte na ke usne kuch feel kiya. yese tho mujhe kabhi kabhi kisi ka murder karne ka man karta hai tho kya main murder hogyi?? Feeling kuch bhi and kisi ke bhi ho shakte hai but woh isaan par depend karta hai ke woh apne feeling par act karta hai ke nahi. Abhi tak tho kunal fight kar raha hai tho I don't thing woh galat hai but I agree his feeling is wrong. Jaazbaat tab tak sahi galat nahi hote jab tak woh kisi aur ko affect nahi karta.

And lust?? Sorry but I don't think what kunal feel for nandini kyu ki woh wet sari me thi agar yesa hota tho usko phale baar me nandini ke taraf attract hona chahiye tha jab usne nandini ko accident se bachaya tab bhi barish ho rahi thi ya fir jab pool me se bachya tha jab bhi usne sari pheli thi woh wet bhi thi and ise sexy sari thi😆

I feel attracted to many celebs who are handsome or who plays certain types of roles which attracts me. I love kunal like no end, and he is engaged. I am falling for many korean actors who are married and I am not guilty about it at all attracting kisi ko bhi kisi se bhi ho shakta hai.

and about BGM, yeh romantic BGM isle thi ke woh kunal ke dil me baj rahi thi I guess😆 BGM tho character ke mood and feeling ke according play hota hai na show me jaha tak mujhe pata hai. Jab koyi character ka revenge mood hota hai uske liye different type ka BGM play hota hai, woh time tho romantic BGM play suit nahi karga na.

P.S. I am not justifying EMA but ha I don't have any problem see these type of shows. I will defend, I will cruse but I will watch. I was always attracted toward these type of shows. Mene YHM ka Roshni, Adi, Aaliya track bhi dekha tha😆

P.P.S. It is too early to judge the show ke yeh EMA ko justified karta hai ke nahi abhi tak tho nahi kara hai. Just wanted to say don't judge the show by watching only promo and if you are watching than please watch it with open mind without being judgmental.

Very good points dear.I am also watching for dd😊.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Let me ask you what your problem by making personal comments and rude advices on me if I don't think like .did I condemn viewers of this show.i find personally this show theme disgusting then tell my perspective.is expressing my opinion here is crime??why you are getting so offensive on me personally?i waste my time or not its my business.i expressed my view on theme and dialogue of this show.
This is the forum of show which is open to all.why attacking me personally.you said I am talking this show seriously.isnt you are taking this show and my comments so seriously that personally attacking me , advising me rudely.
I already said these are my views about show and o don't ask anyone to agree .its not my view will gonna change other viewers opinion and show then why rudely comment on me.did I condemn people who like this show or questioned their opinion.
Why people here condemning me personally for expressing my pov.just because my views does not match with others that means other can get offensive on me directly and indirectly and questioning my thinking , opinion and attitude.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: madlal

I like this extramarital affair saga that is unfolding. I like the fact that the story is showing what is happening in this world. I like the fact that My favorite actress is acting with a beautiful man and they are going to have an affair. I like the fact that the wife is going to get hurt and will not trust her friend or husband.

I am watching this for entertainment and I will watch it as long as it is airing. I don't care if it is socially or morally responsible. I am not into extramarital affair and will never encourage anyone to do it. people who do it is their problem. I am pretty sure there were other shows and cinemas in the world that have been showing this theme for ages.
Speaking about Korean dramas and Movies. Have you seen Frozen flower(Jo In Sung is the one who has an affair with the queen), A man and a woman (Gong Yoo-My favorite star)? What is in your panties?(technically the girl has a boyfriend in this movie,but still). I think you have been watching all chaste Korean dramas and movies😆😆. There is a whole adult section of Korean dramas and movies that you need to watch.

Just because I watch this doesn't mean I am going to go after the first married man that comes my way. Let's say the drama stops airing, will the Extramarital affairs that are happening around the world go away? No.EMA has been there before the airing of this show and will be there after the airing of this show.

See I have already told that this is my personal opinion and thinking and I don't ask others to agree.about watching chaste show its right I am not in to adult and po*n so may be I am not comfortable with all kind of complex relationship and bold themes.
I watch this show for drasti as this show airing on family time and so I was uncomfortable by watching this kind of content of romanticization of adultry so I am not personally comfortable with content .I wrote my pov.if anyone like this show that is good .but if I don't like show why few are questioning my mentality.
You like it as entertainment then good.my opinion is for me as I value kind of content .I have watched grey shaded character and dark shows so it's not like I am in all kind of goody shows.its just this show concept and theme is not comfortable for me.


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