What do you think is Manmeet's reason? - Page 2

I really think that manmeet didn’t simply reject him. She insulted him and exposed him, pulling down years of hard work, self-worth, and emotions with her. I do admit her reasons are valid but her actions were very harsh objectively. But for her, there was no other way to get raj to stop loving her. And now, he does hate her. So checkmark there. At least for now. Manmeet, on one hand, has valid reasons. Raj is too passive for which I DONT BLAME HIM FOR. His dad has instilled such cowardice in him and finding the easy way out because it makes him easier to control. That is why that he could have success for a long time in comedy is very threatening for Bhairav. He could actually succeed out there. But it doesn’t change the fact that he hadn’t dared to confront his dad. If manmeet gave into her feelings, and married him, even she would be compromised when she has kids with him. To maintain peace, raj may first agree for anmol to stay with her parents and they would have weekly visits. Mind you, raj does this because he does like the boy. There would be quarrels at home when he wants to accompany her and she might find times she is going alone. Of course, raj won’t forget to send gifts to him and would video call on his birthday. But what if when they do have kids? It would be ‘Anmol should consider his younger siblings.’ It may be ‘Can’t we just send money to mom and dad at Shimla? Yuvraj needs you here, too.’ Her in-laws will tell her that she should focus on their own blood and they don’t care for the one outside. Her parents may even be complicit, in order to not cause issues between rajmeet, and simplify cases that anmol may need parental attention. And again, his step-siblings would have things he wouldn’t have. Raj may never hate or dislike his stepson over time, because he is good really, he might just be micro aggressive that his wife doesn’t consider that his family is upset with him because she wants to run over to anmol’s side and so, she shouldn’t run over so frequently. They can just send money monthly. And manmeet’s fears are also realized this way, that her fears would come through in form of her - she would be complicit in this because of raj’s affections and over time may think like them too for the sake of the ‘younger children’. After all, anmol is only one of her four or five kids right? He is the eldest and should understand right? Does he want to hurt her marriage to this wonderful man? Sometimes, parents who change after remarriage doesn’t do so because they don’t love their kids. It may even be out of protection. But Manmeet understands this and recognizes that this is selfish because unlike her other kids, Anmol has no father or any other parent apart from her. There is no troublesome ex-husband or remarried partner even that she can call just incase he might help Anmol in a spurt of paternal love. There is no one but her. So I understand her reasons, and in a way, I can understand why she aimed to crush all raj’s feelings and foster hate. But I don’t think she realizes because of that, it would be harder for raj to just walk away without trying to hurt her back.As for the position, it is realistic because it shows how society today caters to those that have the money and power to make it cater to their whims. So, if raj or any person in his home wants to buy a company today, or destroy another, or become MD, it’s possible with their money. The only thing I want to see is a realistic reason for how this is possible, like that show has only maintained. It must make sense and I believe at the end of the episode, we would see the logic of raj actually being a beneficiary of nepotism. It happens, so why the disappointment? It’s only a reckoning of what is happening outside our Tv. I cannot wait for the office angsty romance lol.

Originally posted by: mistofshadows

It's quite plain actually.

Manmeet's priority is Anmol.

And I may be in a minority but I liked what she did. It wasn't fair but necessary.

Till date, Raj is a person who always bounces back. He has been given a suffocated treatment in his home and is barely able to voice out his thoughts. He is suppressed and made to play a role. With Manmeet he got to see a different phase of life. She too was hated for her choices by her father but she struggled forth alone, got her goal and then reconciled too. Manmeet inspired him and it is no wonder that his heart sang for her. He wanted to be a part of her small family.

That's why he was so hurt when she denied him any connection after the drama was over. He was upset and wanted to make her speak out that he mattered to her. He brought in Anisha but realized it was of no use. He saw Manmeet being character assassinated and yet went on to think that getting the DNA test done will solve everything. But then the goons episode happened and Manmeet's slap and her disgust for the first time fuelled him to stand against his father. He did and he Succeeded which empowered him. He soared for some time and after getting drunk spoke out his truth to Manmeet. That he loved her and that she was it for him. Next morning he repeated it, even talking of names of their children. He loves her after all.

It is easy to say yes to such a proposal. But Manmeet is not a teen girl gushing about. She is a single mother through an IVF; someone who has carved her own place in the society. And for her, her focus is Anmol. Raj being in her life will affect Anmol. With Raj's placating nature it is obvious that if they get together, Manmeet will have to bear the brunt of forever struggling to get Anmol accepted by his family. The Yadav's are weird sort and Mr Yadav specifically will always have a bone to chew. Choti too will create problems so that Anmol is never accepted. Already they sent goons for a child. Imagine what else can happen; specifically when Raj is not yet ready and mature enough to shoulder the responsibility of a step child. He is in his rosy world of Manmeet and his love but he isn't figuring out that despite his love for Anmol, the baby boy won't be easily accepted by his family members. Raj hasn't been able to fight for his own dreams, how can he successfully fight for Anmol? Just him taking a stand against kidnapping Anmol isn't enough to mature his character. He needs time to mature.

Also, Manmeet could have simply said no and not exposed him. But then Raj being what he is, he would have kept coming back. He would have badgered her. And one day she would have melted. She understands how he affects her. And so she took precaution. The only way to permanently stop him from coming to her is to burn the bridge. And she burnt it well.

She is a selfish mother who chose her child over the world. And being someone who has been contemplating IVF myself; I cannot bring myself to condemn her choices. I know it's a show and they will end up together but in real life if such a choice comes up, I feel burning the bridge is better. Romance cannot be enough to endure toxic environment.

I had written earlier the reason as to why Manmeet herself might not be sure of her future with Raj.

She knows who is Raj and what is his lifestyle.Her future mate might be a Billionaire but he's not a committed guy Manmeet from her outlook would like some Committed Guy in her life.

Raj might be an easy going Guy but he's a Casanova too.Forget Raj's Parents even Manmeet's Parents won't approve his relationship with her if they come to know about his Casanova past though Manmeet had not revealed this perhaps to her own parents.

Raj says that he loves Manmeet but has he given up on his past Girlfriends? Also if he loved Manmeet then why did he give a go ahead to his earlier engagement with another girl don't know her name in the first place?

Raj is not a self made man and he has some big dreams of going and perhaps settling down in Sydney.He has been doing Comedy Gigs but is even that enough to support his current financial future with Manmeet?

Manmeet's world revolves around Anmol and its but natural for any mother to prioritize her child's well being whether the child is through IVF or Natural-Born.Has Raj ever given a serious thought that with the woman he claims to love so much comes the child too? Is Raj willing to be a doting Father for Anmol?

Forget about loving Manmeet will Raj's Parents accept the Baby of Manmeet if at all Raj gets married to her by some quirk turn of fate? Even Manmeet's past is not yet clear to the viewers.

Even the Society itself would not approve their Union.Raj has to not only go against the wishes of his own parents but has to face the Society too though it might have opened up yet it retains a traditional outlook.

And Raj's Father Mr.Yadav has not been very accepting of Anmol's perceived closeness with his son Raj though with time he might perhaps come to accept Manmeet as his Bahu,

Even Manmeet's parents won't approve their relationship.And why did Raj want to become the MD of the company started by Manmeet? He loved her right and yet he showed some sort of Resignation Letter to Manmeet why?

If Raj really loves Manmeet then he has to prove his love for her.Manmeet is a self-made entrepreneur who has made it big in the Corporate World through her sheer intelligence and hardwork.On what basis did Raj become the MD in the first place?

Raj has to stand on his own feet first.As I have said before Manmeet's future mate is a Billionaire but he has to prove himself that he can survive and succeed on his own merits.

Had Anmol not been born then perhaps Manmeet would or could have said Yes to his proposal but Anmol is her top priority and rightly so.Anmol would be the reason for Manmeet and Raj ending up together.

And now Raj thinks that by becoming the MD he would get Manmeet in his life by hook or by crook.If he's really serious about her then he needs to show that through his actions.

Veer did not end up with Bani by being just a rich guy.Bani was not successful like Manmeet but she was an independent girl just like Manmeet.Veer proved his love for her through his actions by standing up for her even going to the extent of going against his own family members.She saw that Veer was willing to go to any extent for her naturally she chose Veer over Jay.

Raj who is not even serious about his own big time dreams wants Manmeet in his life.Well he can start by standing up for her in difficult situations and by not taking any revenge on her just for her refusal.

As far as Manmeet is concerned perhaps she could have refused Raj's love privately rather than making a show of itself in front of the world.Her reasons might be justified but if there is even one percent chance that Raj's feelings for her are true after all then perhaps she has not handled this delicate situation correctly.

Manmeet herself refused Raj's love in front of the Yadav family so tomorrow even if they somehow end up being together the Yadav family won't accept their Union willingly.Also Manmeet herself confessed that she loves him too so she needs to draw the line somewhere regarding this current budding relationship.

Manmeet cannot go on hiding her true feelings behind her current toughness.Coming back to Raj the only way he can end up with her is by making her as Mrs. Yadav.Love might be okay but the wedding would put a legal stamp on their relationship.

I really don’t think society is a big factor here. It’s not a stressor for manmeet as she is daredevil in society’s face and raj knows perfectly who is marrying. Besides, manmeet is not some joke anyone can mock like some weak ITV FLs. It’s raj’s passivity that bothers her. He can’t stand up until he is really triggered. And she doesn’t need that for anmol. His family will clarify they want him away and she should focus on yuvraj (lol). Raj would decide to pacify her by maybe having weekly visits to Shimla or something that won’t defy his dad directly. And she doesn’t want that kind of life for anmol. Even worse, she might become complicit because of raj’s affections and due to having other children too. She knows anmol has no other parent except her and doesn’t want him to feel trivialized. Why start what she thinks would have a scary ending? When raj matures and is able to have his place and something solid in case his vampire dad and sister act crazy, she can consider. But on the other hand, she went a bit overboard with hurting him. But if you consider that she wants him to hate her crazily, it makes sense she would do her worst.