This was soooo needed!!!(link updated)

divine_16 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 180 Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 3 years ago
#1

Link to her live...


https://youtu.be/cvlEFT54ccg


Let her breathe!!!!


https://www.instagram.com/p/CUl5lmOBIXJ/?utm_medium=copy_link




I have loved the show to death...loved the chemistry of Shakhi....loved Devir for portraying the role of Shakhi with utmost dedication....loved their dazzling friendship...everyday looked forward to their Interviews or searched for their upcoming projects.Have jumped with joy seeing their achievements, laughed at their funny banters,wished their success and wished for their forever friendship....that's it.!! Is their anything more that we as fans of Devir and the show should do/want...NO!!! And certainly not invading into their personal space...shipping them by crossing limits or bashing their friends or texting their parents and then unabashedly tagging them!!


Today ....Deba came live for approx 5 mins ..and she was so angry with all the nonsense that is going on.The other wise sweet girl showed her frustration,her anger on all the nonsense that is making her life miserable.She ended the live abruptly.She clearly said I'm thankful to all of you but don't try to mould my life.Why should fans bash Vatsal for commenting on her post that he has to delete that comment???Why should fans text her mom fir some of their stupid shipping ,so that she has to make her a/c private???Are they really fans??It's not only Deba...but it goes for KV also.Why should that guy be bashed brutally for his personal life???They are friends and can't we respect that???Live and let them live peacefully!! They are doing so much for us...why are we taking them as granted??We say they are celebs and they know how to handle ...but really does that give us a free pass to go overboard with their personal life???Whatever happened...how much she is hurt but still Deba is reposting fans creations....why to hurt them by such stupid acts??


A long rant...but had to pen down!! I'm happy IF is free of such "so called" fans who are just hurting Devir.

Edited by divine_16 - 3 years ago

Created

Last reply

Replies

221

Views

10.1k

Users

24

Likes

472

Frequent Posters

nilmi thumbnail
Posted: 3 years ago
#2

I missed it....but for devir ship fans bash vatsal is really crazy thing...fans are crossing their limit...what a shame.....

But fans will take this wrong way and I've seen some tweets bashing deba....being public figure is not that easy...on that part kv handle them so nicely...

divine_16 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 180 Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 3 years ago
#3

Originally posted by: nilmi

I missed it....but for devir ship fans bash vatsal is really crazy thing...fans are crossing their limit...what a shame.....

But fans will take this wrong way and I've seen some tweets bashing deba....being public figure is not that easy...on that part kv handle them so nicely...

U know what...I did fear that also ...but saw may fans supporting her also...that shows they are sensible enough to understand what she is going thru.I saw comments which were nasty ...about making some indecent comment about a hoodie..when she was with Vatsal.The thing is.. some won't accept their mistake but will go charging the actor.They won't criticize their own action but will definetly try to find faults in the actors with a drop of the hat.It's definetly not easy to be public figure but their is certain tolerance level also...
Edited by divine_16 - 3 years ago
mallukumari thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 3 years ago
#4

Originally posted by: divine_16

Link to her live...


https://youtu.be/cvlEFT54ccg



I have loved the show to death...loved the chemistry of Shakhi....loved Devir for portraying the role of Shakhi with utmost dedication....loved their dazzling friendship...everyday looked forward to their Interviews or searched for their upcoming projects.Have jumped with joy seeing their achievements, laughed at their funny banters,wished their success and wished for their forever friendship....that's it.!! Is their anything more that we as fans of Devir and the show should do/want...NO!!! And certainly not invading into their personal space...shipping them by crossing limits or bashing their friends or texting their parents and then unabashedly tagging them!!


Today ....Deba came live for approx 5 mins ..and she was so angry with all the nonsense that is going on.The other wise sweet girl showed her frustration,her anger on all the nonsense that is making her life miserable.She ended the live abruptly.She clearly said I'm thankful to all of you but don't try to mould my life.Why should fans bash Vatsal for commenting on her post that he has to delete that comment???Why should fans text her mom fir some of their stupid shipping ,so that she has to make her a/c private???Are they really fans??It's not only Deba...but it goes for KV also.Why should that guy be bashed brutally for his personal life???They are friends and can't we respect that???Live and let them live peacefully!! They are doing so much for us...why are we taking them as granted??We say they are celebs and they know how to handle ...but really does that give us a free pass to go overboard with their personal life???Whatever happened...how much she is hurt but still Deba is reposting fans creations....why to hurt them by such stupid acts??


A long rant...but had to pen down!! I'm happy IF is free of such "so called" fans who are just hurting Devir.

Totally agree! Some fans are “hurt”. Screw them. They’re part of the reason she’s miserable if they think it was directed at them. Props to her for speaking up.

Edited by mallukumari - 3 years ago
divine_16 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 180 Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 3 years ago
#5

Originally posted by: mallukumari

Totally agree! Some fans are “hurt”. Screw them. They’re part of the reason she’s miserable if they think it was directed at them. Props to her for speaking up.

When they say I'm hurt...I say.. u have got your own medicine ..now deal with it!!
mamta22 thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 180 Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 3 years ago
#6

Hmmm everyone has their own way to react and deal with the situation. Though I am not her fan but glad she told this. Some obsessed fans really goes overboard. Targeting family and friends is not acceptable. You are just a fan be a fan don't try to become their parents. But some fans are upset because she generalised it. Because all fans are not at fault. For some stupid fans why the whole fandom or some genuine fans will be blamed. But it's okay it's matter of time upset fans will understand her situation. Afterall she is also a human being.

Edited by mamta22 - 3 years ago
mallukumari thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 3 years ago
#7

Originally posted by: divine_16

When they say I'm hurt...I say.. u have got your own medicine ..now deal with it!!

The only people who take things personally are the ones that know they did something wrong. And now they’re bashing her for the way she handled it and not the content. It’s victim blaming at it’s core.

mamta22 thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 180 Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 3 years ago
#8

Some fans are hurt because she generalised it. True there are some stupid fans but genuine fans are also there. But they will understand it.

-Snow-White- thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Networker 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 3 years ago
#9

Well if those fans are supporting SAAKK and then they can't support a woman voicing out her opinions and frustrations and pain....am sorry ... please .. u can't even be real fans of SAAKK..

DEBA shud have done this before...

KV might be tolerant but it's wrong comparing his and her approaches...

No one s texting KV s family members ... Or frnds.. kisiko to pata hi nahi hai..

Deba and her family r facing mental harasment .. and it shud stop...

Way to go girl

mishbir_7 thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 30 Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 3 years ago
#10

this was much needed, without even being a celebrity like her even I have / would've put out my frustration for ppl invading my personal space or disturbing my family.

Ppl in the name of shipping are just too much on TT.

I mean come on even Rrahul Sudhir can't comment on anything they are connection that to KV's jealousy ( so someone for the bdy wish has said don't do this to jeejaji) blah blah seriously. why cant fans just let the actors be nice friends, they don't even realise they are hampering their friendship or making things awkward between the two.

KV-Deba's camaraderie was too much for thz kind of obsessed shippers, they dunno the some fans dilemma/ agony where they die to see their show leads sharing this kind adorable thing. then thz ppl would've known.

No wonder KV maintained his private life this way coz at the end shippers don't let the family breathe ( some even doesn't let the small children).



Edited by mishbir_7 - 3 years ago

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".