Astha - View as a Mother Vs. View as a Mentor - Page 2

Originally posted by: Jiggy7

Nahi wo to Shaurya ne bola..

I don't think Anokhi ne bola..

You are right That was Shaurya saying she thinks he manipulates her. She said he plays games with her or something to that effect.

Originally posted by: dramacrazy12

You are right That was Shaurya saying she thinks he manipulates her. She said he plays games with her or something to that effect.

Haan she said all that and revenge thing in hostel date where he was looking as if Anokhi has lost it..😆

Originally posted by: Soulfuldream

Well Astha has been a rock to Anokhi her sounding board perhaps..

But I have 1 issue.

Today Anokhi poured her heart to Astha, mentioning her fears.. her dreams her hopes..and Astha listened to all, but why did she not talk about the blunder She and Shaan committed in their yore days..

Why did she not have the courage to accept her mistake. Claims that his upbringing has made him what he is today was just not fair.It was a deciding factor but Shaan and Astha played an instrumental role in it.

What good did she see then that she left him when she very well knew how Devi Saberwal was?

And Anokhi, well sorry to say her mentioning that he doesn't respect women only stems from his equation from Aastha. How conveniently she has forgotten his stand for her rustication, her sister, her rights.

She comparing him with likes of her father and that mutton shop Vineet was appalling..she is confused and in total shock. I hope better sense prevails..

And Astha's claim that Anokhi and her love can change Shaurya is cruel. Please accept your flaw first, show her how weak you were.. these 2,,Shaan and Astha can't get away with what they did to their 4 year old...

And hopefully Anokhi might see things in a better light.

Shaurya and his demons need to be addressed but judging him like this makes Anokhi no better than him...she too is extremely judgmental like he is or was or will be...

Ditto.I am also thinking of same. Astha was not bold enought to tell her truth. But let her take her time.

Originally posted by: Jiggy7

Nahi wo to Shaurya ne bola..

I don't think Anokhi ne bola..

Haan... It wasn't Anokhi but she implied that he was manipulating her to fall for some revenge 😆 pagla gai thi...

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

I am kind of happy with the conversation they showed between Astha and Anokhi though I was little reluctant earlier about Anokhi deciding to get clarity from Astha over Shaurya...

But truth be told, she is right... Astha has been her mentor... Someone who has shown always helped her out and shown her way...

Astha as a mother sees hope to get his son back on track through this alliance of Shaurya and Anokhi but Astha as a mother of a girl who loves someone like Shaurya might be warned... Could see red alert... Just like she saw it even when Anokhi only spoke little nicer things about Monty earlier... She knew Anokhi was making compromise but at the same time few things, based on her experience, was actually red alert... Rich family, NRI rishta and now a girl who married there is not 'allowed' to move out...

Can Shaurya be as devilish... Absolutely not! But the core remains same - but as a Mother can or should Astha ignore it? Probably not, maybe this is an opportunity for her to help Shaurya... Guide HIM and give him his haq - her guidance...

One of the key episodes had shown that Shaurya was jealous of Anokhi because his mother saw those dreams for Anokhi which should have been his haqq.. His mother's concern and direction and love was his haqq... But Anokhi had gotten it all... Now it's about the time, that Astha could buckle up and give address Shaurya's issues.. Help him fight it...

Only if Shaurya let's her... Only if Shaurya gives her a chance... When Anokhi is in question, probably Shaurya would do anything... Maybe break the ice with Astha..

I think I am one of the very few who was not happy with the conversation. It was such an important conversation and Aastha should have taken some time and explained about Shaurya's childhood and why he is/was like that. Whatever maybe their personal problems both Shaan and Aastha have failed miserably as parents. Shaurya wanted love and care from his parents and sadly he could not get it. His Badima had poisoned his mind against his mother that she left him for her career. All these things Aastha should have told Anokhi. Then Anokhi would have understood Shaurya more. Now she has a bad opinion about him. And comparing him to her family members and Vineet. Is this what she has understood Shaurya? I hope she atleast has a proper conversation with Shaurya and listens to his side of explanation. Today I felt that she has given up on this relationship and maybe she will send Shaurya back when he comes to meet her. Yesterday she was so confident. I half expected her to do this today after speaking with Aastha

Babli has nicely brain washed Anokhi to compare SS with her papaji and Vineet🤢

What you call him mutton shop🤣

Originally posted by: Idiotboxer

Aastha has become completely blind in the love for her child. She disappointed me big time today. She blames his upbringing for his soch, but does not accept her own role in the process. Shaurya is not a kid, he is a grown up man whose entire thinking should not be product of his upbringing. Otherwise what is the use of all the education that he got?

She wants Anokhi to take the entire responsibility of changing his soch but she doesn't realise that she too will have to take a proactive role to change him. His thinking was mainly the result of her abandonment. So she has to make him understand why she had to leave.

All this while Aastha has maintained that she left him behind for his own good. We still don't know what good. Perhaps she didn't want to deprive him of his inheritance and the opportunities. Or perhaps she didn't want him to be caught in the crossfire between her and the Sabharwals. She has also time and again accepted it was a mistake on her part but today she did not. Today she kept quiet when Anokhi asked her would she push Anokhi into this relationship if she was her own daughter?

I don't mind her being biased towards Shaurya but atleast accept your own mistakes. And the precap she was telling she didn't have the himmat. What himmat was she talking about? I always thought Aastha and himmat went hand in hand. She fought with Anokhi's own family for her rights. She even fought with Shaurya, Alok and Vineet for Anokhi's admission. Now they want to show Aastha didn't have the himmat to fight for her own son? Perhaps I have misunderstood the character all along. Let's see how the precap plays out.

I was kind of looking forward for your thoughts on this whole episode and conversation ...

Astha is basically given the role of directing here and unlike reality, they will have Shaurya to have this soch only because of his upbringing and nothing else... It was indeed uncool for Astha to expect Anokhi to help her son... Again proper word... Anokhi isn't a rehab center to help 30 year old sort out their problems.... Wish makers to knew this... Now that Anokhi has stood her ground firm that Shaurya won't change with her love (not going to trust it... She said something else yesterday, something else today.. God knows.. What is held in future) but Astha still holds chance to clear up things and help him fight with his demons even if it's for Anokhi's sake..

Makers are clearly making this Devi vs. Astha at the moment... Devi had planned to tell the truth to Shaurya about Anokhi being here and Astha was the one to do the honours. Shaurya at the moment is indifferent to Astha.. Absolutely, not bothered by her presence and his obsession is only Anokhi! No other person or thing matter to him... (heights of madness.. But cool)... Hope Astha can help him calm down and see through future that Shaan is also concern about...

Originally posted by: anuprem

I think I am one of the very few who was not happy with the conversation. It was such an important conversation and Aastha should have taken some time and explained about Shaurya's childhood and why he is/was like that. Whatever maybe their personal problems both Shaan and Aastha have failed miserably as parents. Shaurya wanted love and care from his parents and sadly he could not get it. His Badima had poisoned his mind against his mother that she left him for her career. All these things Aastha should have told Anokhi. Then Anokhi would have understood Shaurya more. Now she has a bad opinion about him. And comparing him to her family members and Vineet. Is this what she has understood Shaurya? I hope she atleast has a proper conversation with Shaurya and listens to his side of explanation. Today I felt that she has given up on this relationship and maybe she will send Shaurya back when he comes to meet her. Yesterday she was so confident. I half expected her to do this today after speaking with Aastha

You aren't alone in the ship who wanted Astha to be clearer about Shaurya's upbringing... You can read posts by other members...

Most of us are feeling that Anokhi wasn't being reasonable when she said Shaurya ki soch cannot change.... Inspite of expressing exactly opposite last week...

But now makers seem to be certain that they will make Anokhi to step down from this love thing while Shaurya's madness will keep her reminded about their feelings for each other..

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

You aren't alone in the ship who wanted Astha to be clearer about Shaurya's upbringing... You can read posts by other members...

Most of us are feeling that Anokhi wasn't being reasonable when she said Shaurya ki soch cannot change.... Inspite of expressing exactly opposite last week...

But now makers seem to be certain that they will make Anokhi to step down from this love thing while Shaurya's madness will keep her reminded about their feelings for each other..

Ok good. In twitter I saw a lot of appreciation posts for Aastha Anokhi conversation. So I thought I was one of the few who did not like it. Sadly by telling half truth Aastha has created a bad image of Shaurya in Anokhi's mind. I still have some hopes that Anokhi and Shaurya will have a proper conversation and decide to take some time to think about their future and life together of course with the help of Shaan and Aastha.

Originally posted by: anuprem

Ok good. In twitter I saw a lot of appreciation posts for Aastha Anokhi conversation. So I thought I was one of the few who did not like it. Sadly by telling half truth Aastha has created a bad image of Shaurya in Anokhi's mind. I still have some hopes that Anokhi and Shaurya will have a proper conversation and decide to take some time to think about their future and life together of course with the help of Shaan and Aastha.

I kind of not agree that it is Astha who has created any negative image of Shaurya... Even if she would have told Anokhi whole truth.. To Anokhi it would have been that Saberwals are toxic.. Dur raho.. Issue was that they had shown Anokhi little blind earlier to build love story.

Shaurya never received love from anyone and now all he wants this love is from Anokhi! He cares about nothing else... And he has been given a demo of the heaven that how her loving him would really make him happiest...

But Anokhi and Shaurya will have to anyway unite sooner or later.. Specially with warnings from channel... It will be moving faster now..