Originally posted by: shahsb_26
Absolutely! Meri bhi yehi advice hai.... I am sooo fed up of this show and Anokhi's character... Most likely I am out of this show in next couple of weeks if they keep her in this heartbroken and self blaming mode... Its terrible! Kitna... 2 weeks kiya tha romance.. Aise mein yeh haal banakar baithi hai...
She seems much weaker than Anupama right now to be honest... I was happy seeing her on Monday and Tuesday with less rona dhona... It has gotten worse now...
I don't think she is being weak here. Even she said today she is disappointed and angry at Shaurya for standing up for them. Am I that easy to let go...bandi filhal iss wajah se dukhi hai. 2 hafte ho ya 2 saal, kitna hurt hoga ye to pyaar ka intensity pe depend karta hai. Upar se first love hai aur bohut pehle se hi Shaurya caught her special attention. Invasion of personal space by Shaurya and vice versa, being comfortable to his physical proximity were always okay with her. She doesn’t do this with ACP or other male. Be it valentine dance, post ragging incidents etc., she was somewhat attracted to him always.
She didn't believe Shagun's words completely, instantly thought about Shaurya's words. But those words were definitely a blow to her sapna. Hence, the bit rona, dhona she did. I didn’t feel it OTT, rather a person would actually believe like that. She is sure that he loves her but her birth day got spoilt by engagement announcement of her beloved, he didn't stand up for them, he got into an accident, his ex-fiance tells her about his regressive soch while he never indicated those. She is in a messed up condition right now.
About the self-blaming, she is just guilty of Shaurya's accident. She is thinking that she should have listened to Shaurya and maturely sorted the matter altogether on that very day. If she did that, Shaurya wouldn’t have to go through this pain. Many strong headed person bend a little in such situations, ig that's happening to her.
I think, here, by the word ladai, she means she can step down now, make distance with Shaurya, solely focus on her career and restrain herself from getting more heart breaks in future. But that would mean giving up on them, on whatever they share. Even if Shagun said the truth, Shaurya's words are giving her hope that he might have a hidden support towards her education and career somewhere clouded in his mind. As a student, he always gave her a boost. For that hope, she is ready to start in a dangerous path for him, for their love where she might need to fight against his family, her family and even his soch.