Will you accept shaurya as a man of your life?🤓 - Page 6

Originally posted by: attiya1.3

Shaurya is no way near to this level😂

And i never watched gul/ ekta show, but who do admits k yes, they did like those toxic mens but not anymore!

Shaurya is still mystery for most of us and we all want the progression graph becoz he was marketed the wrong from start😂.

Gul/ ekta to ideals bna kar bechti hain😂

We all had those moments watching mahiiiii or mitwaaa aur asr arm twisting/hurting her with glass to khushi then going aww he still cares. 😆 I guess growing up is acknowledging yep I saw that, it was shit and even if I like stories like this it's fine to talk about the bad part. Just because shaurya as a character is supposed to be jerk due to deep rooted issue doesn't mean we can't criticise him or brush those aside cause oh poor him. Not talking about this topic, but some pov in general.

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

haa maybe not the arm twisting level (but he did get physical) and maybe against the wall sex (as desi tv🤣) but his possessiveness is like that. Maybe audience appropriate and toned down but its there.

We all had those moments watching mahiiiii or mitwaaa aur asr arm twisting/hurting her with glass to khushi then going aww he still cares. 😆 I guess growing up is acknowledging yep I saw that, it was shit and even if I like stories like this it's fine to talk about the bad part. Just because shaurya as a character is supposed to be jerk due to deep rooted issue doesn't mean we can't criticise him or brush those aside cause oh poor him. Not talking about this topic, but some pov in general.

I think dramas you mention, i am not sure i watched those...!didnt heard them!

On first para...no yar...he is not on pining wall sex or hand maroorna level as yet😂

On physical points, even i didnt like it!

Off course, childhood issue can not be used as scapegoat! But can be used as reasoning( not justification) of his actions.

Originally posted by: attiya1.3

I think dramas you mention, i am not sure i watched those...!didnt heard them!

On first para...no yar...he is not on pining wall sex or hand maroorna level as yet😂

On physical points, even i didnt like it!

Off course, childhood issue can not be used as scapegoat! But can be used as reasoning( not justification) of his actions.

@bold cause nhi hoga...neither in agression not in romance 😂😂😭

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

don't take it in a wrong way- but maybe I am talking to someone younger or maybe someone who's not as Into desi tv as others 😆 cause those shows r gul staple😆 what other shows u have followed till now?

@bold cause nhi hoga...neither in agression not in romance 😂😂😭

Yar arsa hogya itv dekhay huay😂...

But know gul/ ekta staples.

Gul ka famous hero asr tha itna pata who was a terrible example of how love is😂

Is liye nhi hoga becoz i dont feel k ss will be ekta/ gul hero😂

Just watched the episode.

Answer is NO!!!

And today solidifies it.

He is a diamond I don't want to buy; period.

TBH, I would be more inclined towards Ahir if I had a real bonding time with him. Not this 2-min-instant dosti that Anokhi and Ahir have.

But if I had someone like Shaurya, I would be happy with him as well. We might clash at times, but Shaurya is understanding when he calms down and personally, I am not impulsive either. So I would have made sure that Shaurya would feel safe in the relationship and half the issues would resolve there.

Basically, I feel all people are flawed. I know I am. And at some point every relationship goes through tough phases... Its about how the pair overcomes it.

What do you think Rimi?

See the thing is, there are men like Shaurya out there and certain woman can handle them. They can tame them and mold them. It's not that those men's aggressiveness or behavior evaporates suddenly bc of love, it takes time. Point being, certain woman WOULD LIKE to have those men in their life, maybe bc they understand them or maybe bc they have their own preferences.

I have had an experience of being w someone as aggressive as Shaurya and the answer is NO. I cannot and will not handle such a man. That's my personal preference. With the way I am, mujse hoga hi nahi. To give you an example, a friend of mine wanted to introduce me to her cousin w the same qualities as Shaurya but decided not to bc she was like Pooja se aisa handle hi nahi hoga, she's not the type to actually even entertain him LOL

Shaurya has bad qualities that will change over time BUT the way he is now and the road to that, never ever 🤣

So I do understand when some woman are like i wont mind him bc everyone is diff and they know how much they can handle someone...but this is a story...in real life you have to see whether he is willing to meet you half way or not. If he never changes his behavior and keeps treating you and controlling you...that man is not worth it.

Originally posted by: attiya1.3

First thing i want to clear- i dont believe in love😂..not making fun who do becoz, thats most beautiful thing

I am a practical person....so i totally relate what you are saying.

But i do feel, who chose love over practicality, they sometimes lead better lives then me.. becoz practicality and reality mn ghus kar, we tend to ignore aesthetic part of it!

P.s: quoting about myself!

Then wait till you fall in love dear 😆 I am not against love.. infact it gives power to the relationship , at the same time it's like a double edged sword....bec then expectations also arise n when they fail , life seems to fall apart.....its about finding the middle ground ..that's what negotiable means. Accepting the other person as they are , and in case of conflict, find a middle ground. Practical or not , relationships without love can never survive. If they r only based on needs , wo toh superficial hote hain.

It's.not like shaurya is eligible to be married or not. It's just that his partner should have certain qualities to adjust with him, and whether anokhi will have those or not will decide whether they will be happy....its with everyone , kaun kiske liye ache hai , it all depends on that. Ahir isn't a bad choice for anokhi . Shaurya isn't either ..but expectations with shaurya will be more , bec his family won't accept anokhi.

Anokhi riled him up.. forced him to see things which he was avoiding for long..shaurya aag hai anokhi paani hai. They r a good match if family is kept away.

Originally posted by: prs_725

See the thing is, there are men like Shaurya out there and certain woman can handle them. They can tame them and mold them. It's not that those men's aggressiveness or behavior evaporates suddenly bc of love, it takes time. Point being, certain woman WOULD LIKE to have those men in their life, maybe bc they understand them or maybe bc they have their own preferences.

I have had an experience of being w someone as aggressive as Shaurya and the answer is NO. I cannot and will not handle such a man. That's my personal preference. With the way I am, mujse hoga hi nahi. To give you an example, a friend of mine wanted to introduce me to her cousin w the same qualities as Shaurya but decided not to bc she was like Pooja se aisa handle hi nahi hoga, she's not the type to actually even entertain him LOL

Shaurya has bad qualities that will change over time BUT the way he is now and the road to that, never ever 🤣

So I do understand when some woman are like i wont mind him bc everyone is diff and they know how much they can handle someone...but this is a story...in real life you have to see whether he is willing to meet you half way or not. If he never changes his behavior and keeps treating you and controlling you...that man is not worth it.

💯 nothing more to say.

Originally posted by: AK_2010

TBH, I would be more inclined towards Ahir if I had a real bonding time with him. Not this 2-min-instant dosti that Anokhi and Ahir have.

But if I had someone like Shaurya, I would be happy with him as well. We might clash at times, but Shaurya is understanding when he calms down and personally, I am not impulsive either. So I would have made sure that Shaurya would feel safe in the relationship and half the issues would resolve there.

Basically, I feel all people are flawed. I know I am. And at some point every relationship goes through tough phases... Its about how the pair overcomes it.

What do you think Rimi?

Ahhh...thats such a satisfying answer😂

Dil khush kardya 😂