Will you accept shaurya as a man of your life?🤓 - Page 7

Originally posted by: prs_725

See the thing is, there are men like Shaurya out there and certain woman can handle them. They can tame them and mold them. It's not that those men's aggressiveness or behavior evaporates suddenly bc of love, it takes time. Point being, certain woman WOULD LIKE to have those men in their life, maybe bc they understand them or maybe bc they have their own preferences.

I have had an experience of being w someone as aggressive as Shaurya and the answer is NO. I cannot and will not handle such a man. That's my personal preference. With the way I am, mujse hoga hi nahi. To give you an example, a friend of mine wanted to introduce me to her cousin w the same qualities as Shaurya but decided not to bc she was like Pooja se aisa handle hi nahi hoga, she's not the type to actually even entertain him LOL

Shaurya has bad qualities that will change over time BUT the way he is now and the road to that, never ever 🤣

So I do understand when some woman are like i wont mind him bc everyone is diff and they know how much they can handle someone...but this is a story...in real life you have to see whether he is willing to meet you half way or not. If he never changes his behavior and keeps treating you and controlling you...that man is not worth it.

Such a mature opinion❤️💕

Originally posted by: AK_2010

TBH, I would be more inclined towards Ahir if I had a real bonding time with him. Not this 2-min-instant dosti that Anokhi and Ahir have.

But if I had someone like Shaurya, I would be happy with him as well. We might clash at times, but Shaurya is understanding when he calms down and personally, I am not impulsive either. So I would have made sure that Shaurya would feel safe in the relationship and half the issues would resolve there.

Basically, I feel all people are flawed. I know I am. And at some point every relationship goes through tough phases... Its about how the pair overcomes it.

What do you think Rimi?

Yes Akshu... I agree with you. Ahir is a sweet guy and he has helped Anokhi a lot. Shaurya and Ahir both are inclined to Anokhi for similar reasons.

They adore her for the girl she is. It's just that their ways of handling situation is different 😆

Actually, I am certain of the fact that had I known a person like Shaurya for the person he is and not what he shows to the world, I would have loved him with all heart and not once would I feel ashamed to have him in my life. As you said, I'll be frustrated at times, have quarrels etc. etc. but trust me, no relationship is complete without differences. We cannot say that if we go with a guy like Ahir, we will have no issues and live happily ever after 🤣🤪 Nope! not possible.

So even if I had a Shaurya in my life, I would be happy because in the end, it is LOVE that counts. Shaurya is flawed and so is Ahir. No matter whom we chose, Love will eventually correct many of the flaws on both ends.

I am in love with a person who acts like a patient, happy-go-lucky and humorous person from the outside like Ahir, but has a history similar to Shaurya which makes him a person having a lot of hidden turmoils and emotions, which mostly only I can understand. And let me tell you, he loves me back because I fell for the Shaurya in him, not Ahir 😆 It's because he could be honest with me, I am the one who can pin point the flaws and tell him how to correct it instead of judging him for the same.

Okay... IDK why I have given this gyaan to you again 🤣 I just want to say that every person has flaws and there is a Ahir and Shaurya in every guy you meet, so ultimately instead of judging a man purely by his actions, you must spend some time with him and understand how he is as a person first. 👍🏼

It is really not about who has more flaws and who has less flaws, it is about which person is ready to correct themselves for your love. I repeat, correct themselves, NOT change completely, because love is all about acceptance ❤️

Originally posted by: ..RiMi..

Yes Akshu... I agree with you. Ahir is a sweet guy and he has helped Anokhi a lot. Shaurya and Ahir both are inclined to Anokhi for similar reasons.

They adore her for the girl she is. It's just that their ways of handling situation is different 😆

Actually, I am certain of the fact that had I known a person like Shaurya for the person he is and not what he shows to the world, I would have loved him with all heart and not once would I feel ashamed to have him in my life. As you said, I'll be frustrated at times, have quarrels etc. etc. but trust me, no relationship is complete without differences. We cannot say that if we go with a guy like Ahir, we will have no issues and live happily ever after 🤣🤪 Nope! not possible.

So even if I had a Shaurya in my life, I would be happy because in the end, it is LOVE that counts. Shaurya is flawed and so is Ahir. No matter whom we chose, Love will eventually correct many of the flaws on both ends.

I am in love with a person who acts like a patient, happy-go-lucky and humorous person from the outside like Ahir, but has a history similar to Shaurya which makes him a person having a lot of hidden turmoils and emotions, which mostly only I can understand. And let me tell you, he loves me back because I fell for the Shaurya in him, not Ahir 😆 It's because he could be honest with me, I am the one who can pin point the flaws and tell him how to correct it instead of judging him for the same.

Okay... IDK why I have given this gyaan to you again 🤣 I just want to say that every person has flaws and there is a Ahir and Shaurya in every guy you meet, so ultimately instead of judging a man purely by his actions, you must spend some time with him and understand how he is as a person first. 👍🏼

It is really not about who has more flaws and who has less flaws, it is about which person is ready to correct themselves for your love. I repeat, correct themselves, NOT change completely, because love is all about acceptance ❤️

Yeh itna acha gyaan kahan s aya❤️🥺

I think protein bar k use s hua hai yeh😂

* Sorry*🙈

Originally posted by: attiya1.3

Yeh itna acha gyaan kahan s aya❤️🥺

I think protein bar k use s hua hai yeh😂

* Sorry*🙈

Haan nature vature Chhodo yaar asli baat ye hai ki kiska protein bar me damm hai 👍🏼 going by the looks, pakka ill go with Shaurya for that matter 😎🤣

I’d accept him. I don’t really interact enough with guys (or maybe I just avoid talking to them altogether) so that kind of aggressive nature wouldn’t ever come out. Also, I don’t care about the baggage he has. I know we’ll figure it out and get out of the mess. He’s caring, educated, has a perspective and stand of his own and I’m pretty sure that perspectives change when someone enters your life. His care is something to die for. His love and the way he is concerned, I can’t unsee it. Love and care is important.
But yeah, the only turn down for me is his shouting. I’d cry the very moment he shouts. I can’t take that. I get scared when people shout honestly. I prefer things to be talked of and issues to be discussed than shout and blame or character assassinate. The respect vanishes at that point chahe aap Shaurya Sabherwal ho yaa koi bhi..!
However, People have flaws. Shaurya has too and that doesn’t mean he doesn’t have a good side. There are guys worse. Shaurya’s still so better because he’s not bad at heart. He’s all about Anokhi and wants the same from her. He needs to mellow down his insecurity and cut through his jealousy and love unconditionally. Depends highly on people’s preferences and nature too about the whole acceptance thing. I’d want Shaurya to change some things about himself and he’s good to go😆

Also, KV and Shaurya are world apart so I keep them separate. KV is a very down to earth human yet a prankster. He loves his fans and respects them. I admire the kind of person he is and the dedication he has towards his work that most people often think of reel and real as one. But this isn’t that I’m seeing for thr first time. We had Barun Sobti (people still think of him as ASR) in the same situation so I completely understand when people fumble between reel and real😆

Originally posted by: attiya1.3

I will get back to each reply after meetings!

And quite happy that women in general ,have their own perspective these days!

Till then, will all answers can change if you add LOVE for shaurya in the equation?

I truly believe, love is a very strong emotion !

Hehe yeh pehle se hi tha.. there were great women thinkers, philosophers, leaders and doers all thru out history but unfortunately ignored or looked down upon. It doesn’t take much to realize that we are all first self-respecting human beings with our own hopes, dreams and desires. If we normalize this, to love someone, irrespective of its outcome, becomes easy, no!? 😊

Originally posted by: ..RiMi..

Yes Akshu... I agree with you. Ahir is a sweet guy and he has helped Anokhi a lot. Shaurya and Ahir both are inclined to Anokhi for similar reasons.

They adore her for the girl she is. It's just that their ways of handling situation is different 😆

Actually, I am certain of the fact that had I known a person like Shaurya for the person he is and not what he shows to the world, I would have loved him with all heart and not once would I feel ashamed to have him in my life. As you said, I'll be frustrated at times, have quarrels etc. etc. but trust me, no relationship is complete without differences. We cannot say that if we go with a guy like Ahir, we will have no issues and live happily ever after 🤣🤪 Nope! not possible.

So even if I had a Shaurya in my life, I would be happy because in the end, it is LOVE that counts. Shaurya is flawed and so is Ahir. No matter whom we chose, Love will eventually correct many of the flaws on both ends.

I am in love with a person who acts like a patient, happy-go-lucky and humorous person from the outside like Ahir, but has a history similar to Shaurya which makes him a person having a lot of hidden turmoils and emotions, which mostly only I can understand. And let me tell you, he loves me back because I fell for the Shaurya in him, not Ahir 😆 It's because he could be honest with me, I am the one who can pin point the flaws and tell him how to correct it instead of judging him for the same.

Okay... IDK why I have given this gyaan to you again 🤣 I just want to say that every person has flaws and there is a Ahir and Shaurya in every guy you meet, so ultimately instead of judging a man purely by his actions, you must spend some time with him and understand how he is as a person first. 👍🏼

It is really not about who has more flaws and who has less flaws, it is about which person is ready to correct themselves for your love. I repeat, correct themselves, NOT change completely, because love is all about acceptance ❤️

Exactly! When it comes to living with a person for life, we are actually living with a person who is there on the inside of the show we all put up in front of people.

I think expecting a person to CHANGE is not only foolish but also very cruel. They have been that way for their entire life, changing is painful and unsatisfactory for themselves. Relationship are about mutual compromise for both partners. 👍🏼

Originally posted by: rumi_dee

Hehe yeh pehle se hi tha.. there were great women thinkers, philosophers, leaders and doers all thru out history but unfortunately ignored or looked down upon. It doesn’t take much to realize that we are all first self-respecting human beings with our own hopes, dreams and desires. If we normalize this, to love someone, irrespective of its outcome, becomes easy, no!? 😊

Talking about women in general.

As i wont count my naani or mother thinking this way and having a concrete perspective as maybe i have!

Bold...that means you accept shaurya?🧐

Originally posted by: attiya1.3

Becoz she never directly involve herself in all mess!

Mummy ka munna woh hota jo har kam, kadam unke kehne par karta ..here ,he had done many things behind and even lied! Ulta devi defend him in front of everyone nor he asked!

Ek din aayega..jab ye bhram bhi toot jayega..till then never mind 😆

Well...mumbai might go into lockdown soon so ..we might have to wait for new epis for as long as a month. Toh wo din door hai 😆

Originally posted by: _charu_

Ek din aayega..jab ye bhram bhi toot jayega..till then never mind 😆

Well...mumbai might go into lockdown soon so ..we might have to wait for new epis for as long as a month. Toh wo din door hai 😆

Its itv...yahan trp par bharam base karta hai😂

I dont think ab itna severe lockdowns ayngay !