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Leelalore

@Leelalore

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

The writers of this show have been realistic in showing Shastriji's reaction

after Minty's insults towards Anu and shockingly even Anu's dead Mother.

However they are not portraying clearly Anu's situation- it

looks as though she is leaving Rajat to satisfy her own whims /her papa's fancies.

In fact Anu 's character is faced with terrible options to choose from:

1. Plead with her Papa and not marry anyone else. This would lead to Rajat's

continued pursuit of her - spoiling his career, his relations with his Mother

and probably his health.

2. Consummate her marriage with Rajat - ignore everyone else and care a damn if

Minty gives Shastriji another heart attack ( By saying that Shastriji trapped her son

by telling his daughter to do XYZ with her son)😭

3. Go with Rajat,become a Mahaan Bahu and say that she now belongs to

her sasural and it is upto her Saas to treat her and her family as she pleases.🤢

Realistically speaking Anu's character faces really hard choices- what she is

doing in the show isn't too bad actually.

Edited by LoneSoldier - 11 years ago

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dwija

@dwija

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Posted: 11 years ago

She is right but at the same time feel bad for Rajat...

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Leelalore

@Leelalore

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

She is right but at the same time feel bad for Rajat...[/QUOTE]

Exactly . Unfortunate are the children with such self -centred, self-obsessed mothers.😭

Edited by LoneSoldier - 11 years ago

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Sandysprings

@Sandysprings

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

Anu is really in very tough situation but one can't leave the relationship like that ...she has no rights to take decisions about her relationship with Rajat alone ...she is forcing her decision on him ... no need to get involve into any relationship without asking dad and family first if u gonna do like this with other person who (also) truly loves u ..

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Shyama

@Shyamlu

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

NO way what she is doing can be justified. She can take her life decisions alone, but making Rajat promise for her decisions is NOT RIGHT, I mean just not right. She never tries to listen what he has to say or what he wants her to do, atleast trying to talk to her pappa wont hurt, right Shastri uncle 's health is better now. I started hating to hear her say, i will keep on loving you Rajat and all...

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maine

@maine

Beginner

Posted: 11 years ago

Anu always listens to elders and hides her own emotions.

Minty will never accept her and she will never go against her dad.

Minty forced her to stay away from Rajat with her filthy words and Shashtri is always blackmailing Anu as he knows Anu will always listen to him.

Yes Anu loves Rajat dearly that's why she cannot see him in so much pain and so wants to get out of his life thinking that he will forget about her.

But Rajat is not as strong as she is.

Being still Mrs Sareen, she should have clarified many things with Rajat before getting engaged with somebody else.

It doesn't seem she is sacrificing her life for Rajat but ditching Rajat into hell.

She thinks she is taking a wise decision but no. There are only villains around her and Rajat (all the good characters are hiding) so nobody is there to advise Anu what's the best to do.

But we know in the end Anuraj will be together (not like in real life).

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Ashakalyani

@Ashakalyani

Dazzler

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Posted: 11 years ago

i know anu is facing a tough situation...k samch mein aa raha hai ki woh annulment papers sign kardi,rajat se dhoor ja rahi hai,rajat ki connsumation idea reject kar diya for her papa and minty aunty...yeh sab teek hai..samach mein athi hai ki usne kyun kiya...bt shaadi ke liye ha bolna woh bhi itni jaldi...its something unacceptable...koi bhi ladki itna jaldi apne pyar ko bhool kar kis aur ke saath apne zindagi shuru nahi kar sakthi...kuch time maang sakthi thi woh apne papa se...she coud have told her father dat she cant marry some one else...woh kuch nahi kar rahi hai...thats the reason i am hating anu...agar usne gussa mein aakar shaadi ke liye ha kiya hai woh mujhe bilkul samach nahi aa rahi hai...rajat has the right to be angry...bcoz even if any other person was at rajat's place he woud have reacted the same way after connecting all the dots... he will surely feel anu is cheating him...

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Poorva Chakraborty

@Cinnamon_Kisses

Inactive

+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

what i feel is anu's sense have actually gone numb for now she want's to be with rajat but minty shastri against it rajat desperately wants her because both have strggled very much and now her patience tolerance and strength have come to a saturation point and she is leaving everything shankarji k bharose coz as she struggled so she has become habituate to it and in all this mess even rajat; emotional strength is being tested, she very well knows that if she stayys close to rajat then one moment or the other her heart will give in which the family members are very much against so she is rying to run away from rajat and ryt now anu herself is not realisng that she is spoiling her lyf! that's my take what say frnds?

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awida

@awida

Trailblazer

+ 8

Posted: 11 years ago

Nice post.

I enjoyed reading your point of view which makes lot of sense.

Now coming to Anu's dilemma . First of all she chose to get married to Rajat without asking her papa's or in laws approval. She made a decision ..to marry someone is a commitment for life. Marriage comes first. It ends your past relations. Husband becomes the one who have full rights on you. (This is at least what I know from my society and religion ).

Minty is Anu's MIL. She is horrible we know it. But if each wife escapes from such a MIL there'll be few marriages remaining. In fact most MILs are like this and worse. I am telling you as a married woman .

Anu's Papa let her chose to marry Veer or not. This is her golden chance to say no..to a marriage which doesn't make sense ..coz reasons for this marriage aren't justified. If Papa is dying why should he worry about Anu only..she's the elder now. She has a job. He need to feel worry about Devyani and Peeya who don't know how to take care of themselves.

If Papa wants a SIL there is Rohan. Isn't he enough?

I think Anu just chose the easy way..and this is escaping from her responsibilities. She doesn't want to fight for her life and happiness. She's very afraid from losing her papa..and facing Minty. She came out as weak person. And that is what I hate about her.

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shashi05

@shashi05

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: v_ani_patel
Anu is really in very tough situation but one can't leave the relationship like that ...she has no rights to take decisions about her relationship with Rajat alone ...she is forcing her decision on him ... no need to get involve into any relationship without asking dad and family first if u gonna do like this with other person who (also) truly loves u ..

Exactly my point...I understand that situation is very tough for her...but she has to understand now itz not her alone decision..watever decision she wil make will affect rajats life too...wen she did sat pheras witj rajat..she gave 7promises...few of them are very imp..that is...to keep her husband happy n always share his problem n her problem with him..well reality is not wat cvs are showing in show..I mean just look aroung..kisi b family me divorce naam sunte hi hungama mach jata..just to avoid societies gossip parents avoid divorce of their children moreover that for their childs happiness they avoid divorce..idhar to khud shastriji ji divorce karwane utare hai..I have seen almost divorce case very closely of one of my close frnd..their parents put lot of efforts to save their relationship n they succeed..second nonsense thing is a divorcees wedding with a qualified bachelor..society me kiske parents divorcee se shadi k liye ready hote h jaldi..m sure there will be few exceptional case..but no one agree so soon..In and all my pov is track is illogical..It doesnt make sense at all..

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