KT is passing through a trauma ! 😓 - Page 2

Originally posted by: Davina95

Exactly, high in emotions, you do become selfish and make mistakes. But to make someone give up their whole life just so that you can prove a point and take revenge on someone who wronged you 17 years ago is a bit too much in my eyes. I'm not against KT either. I'm just against his decisions and judgments. These mistakes are expected from someone young and immature. This guy is middle aged. His betrayal happened 17 years prior. I get the wounds are still sore, but that's because he had no closure. But he could have been the bigger and stronger person in this and put his foot down. He didn't need to go to that level for revenge. He has had enough time to come to terms with what Nandini did to him. He should have stayed calm. And he did calm down. But then why did his brain not switch back on and start thinking again?? When he went to talk to Preeti alone, he seemed pretty calm. Whilst the wedding was happening he was calm. Yeah he had a mini tantrum in between on the mandap but that is down to his childishness. And for that, I ultimately blame his mother. She could have helped him come out of his trauma, but she made the biggest mistake in all this by doing nothing. She has no right to question Preeti and her intentions in this, because if anyone has done KT wrong, it's Nandini and Kaushala. Why did she not get him to see a therapist? Why did she not try to convince him to remarry and that not all women are the same? Why did she not allow him to mature and grow up? He acted this way, because his mother taught him no different. He always threw tantrums, and she gave him what he wanted. That's the worst thing a parent can do to their child.

in tamil they say"40 vayasu aana nai gunam",mean when a guy touches age 40,he will start behaving like a dog. having extramarital affair,barking at wife and chuldren for every silly thing...they do all the mistakes and put the blame on others and dont even feel guilty for hurting others. i am not able to accept KT's behaviour. Indian television is howing a very bad.message to men out there..emotional blackmail and physical abuse is not a normal thing.

Originally posted by: summertummer

I think you have a rather low IQ. You are not observant enough. You cannot distance yourself from the proceedings.

Excuse me but what the f***!!! Who the hell do you think you are questioning my IQ. I am extremely observant thank you very much. And my point is very valid. What the hell are you are even talking about???!!! Don't you dare insult me for no damn reason. Your comment makes zero sense mate, I think it's you that has the low IQ... so stop being a dumbshit and maybe make a better point to your argument....

Originally posted by: summertummer

I think you have a rather low IQ. You are not observant enough. You cannot distance yourself from the proceedings.

And FYI, my IQ is quite high. Probably much more higher than yours. Atleast I make sense.

Originally posted by: rdrp17

I completely agree with your views. The thing is KT has always been a pampered child and hence this childishness and immaturity.

His reason for marriage itself is a huge disrespect to their friendship. Atleast he could have been honest about his reason to marry her. And this is an Indian show, otherwise I don't think anyone in Preeti's place would have taken this decision to marry him to support him. Even if someone would, she would so not suddenly but after a lot of thought

Thank you very much... I'm glad you're with the majority. Apart from that one dweeb. Who questioned my IQ. Ffs. I have a law degree for crying out loud. Don't question my IQ. What an *******!!!! Haha. I agree with your point fully sweety. He kinda did disrespect their friendship. It was the emotional blackmail that did it for me though. That just hurt. Lol

Originally posted by: Davina95

Excuse me but what the f***!!! Who the hell do you think you are questioning my IQ. I am extremely observant thank you very much. And my point is very valid. What the hell are you are even talking about???!!! Don't you dare insult me for no damn reason. Your comment makes zero sense mate, I think it's you that has the low IQ... so stop being a dumbshit and maybe make a better point to your argument....

Just ignore and report

Originally posted by: rdrp17

Just ignore and report

I second that.

Ignore them and report.

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

in tamil they say"40 vayasu aana nai gunam",mean when a guy touches age 40,he will start behaving like a dog. having extramarital affair,barking at wife and chuldren for every silly thing...they do all the mistakes and put the blame on others and dont even feel guilty for hurting others. i am not able to accept KT's behaviour. Indian television is howing a very bad.message to men out there..emotional blackmail and physical abuse is not a normal thing.

I think it would be fairly harsh to say that all men become like dogs once reaching the age of 40. I guess a lot of men do, but then again, so do a lot of women. And it's not just at age 40 either. It's at any age. I guess it's just down to that person's character, upbringing and personality. So I am sorry that I can't agree with your comment entirely. My views are rather objective in this matter. But KT's behaviour has shown immaturity, but not abuse. KT has not abused Preeti in anyway. Yet. I don't think he ever will though. His heart is in the right place, his mind has just gone tel lene at the moment... But I'm confident he will snap back and give his 100% to Preeti once he gets out of his grief. Not all men are dogs. Women can betray too. Both are equal after all.

I agree with you because I am telling the same, KT cannot switch his mood like some switch.. he is struggling to come out of hurt.

Preethi is right if she leave him he will be shattered and god knows what will he do without any anchor.

Good thing here is KT never kept Preethi in dark and Nandini words does not effect her.

But KT is in total confusion what to do next and how to behave with Preethi and in middle Nandini is not allowing him to think properly for few minutes also...

Just give him some time, he will be back and definitely he needs Preethi support..

Preethi who rejected to marry KT to save her character, gave in and married KT to save him out of their friendship...

Their relationship is based on friendship and respect not lies ...

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

hope they dont turn him into a abusive husband. i think tarun can give the correct treatment to set KT right. he should tell that his baap was less abusive thaan KT, atleast then KT will come out his lala land ,i mean nandhini world..🤢

I wouldn't want Tarun and Rati any where near KT and Preeti's relationship. Tarun needs to stay out of it because he agrees with his father and defends his father's abuse upon his mother. For that reason, Tarun is the worst. If anyone has a right to say anything, it's Kusum and Juhi...

Originally posted by: Davina95

I think it would be fairly harsh to say that all men become like dogs once reaching the age of 40. I guess a lot of men do, but then again, so do a lot of women. And it's not just at age 40 either. It's at any age. I guess it's just down to that person's character, upbringing and personality. So I am sorry that I can't agree with your comment entirely. My views are rather objective in this matter. But KT's behaviour has shown immaturity, but not abuse. KT has not abused Preeti in anyway. Yet. I don't think he ever will though. His heart is in the right place, his mind has just gone tel lene at the moment... But I'm confident he will snap back and give his 100% to Preeti once he gets out of his grief. Not all men are dogs. Women can betray too. Both are equal after all.