KT is passing through a trauma ! 😓

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I think KT is passing through a trauma as its very normal for any person to face such trauma if he / she have such a dark and disturbing past. The person whom you loved left you ages ago and one day suddenly came back in your life and started claiming every back. How will you control your mental state right. Its just like how we pass through a sudden trauma when we see something shocking happening in front of our eyes. If the matter is serious then all i wish to see is Preeti taking KT to visit a psychiatrist, realistically KT is in his 45 so its something tough for him. People are highlighting the sindoor thingy but not KT's state of mind, no sympathies for KT who is facing so much uncalled troubles. The marriage was totally mutual as both were agreed to it after the sindoor thingy. IMO, Preeti did the right thing by getting married to him to support him otherwise he may would have tried to self harm himself. Like in the precap its visible how he tore the necklace which not only harmed Preeti but himself too. Right now i want Preeti to support KT just like how till now KT had supported her then their partnership will be proved infront of the world. 😒

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neonholic

I think KT is passing through a trauma as its very normal for any person to face such trauma if he / she have such a dark and disturbing past. The person whom you loved left you ages ago and one day suddenly came back in your life and started claiming every back. How will you control your mental state right. If just like how we passed through a sudden trauma when we see something shocking happening in front of our eyes. If the matter is serious then all i wish to see is Preeti taking KT to visit a psychiatrist, realistically KT is in his 45 so its something tough for him. People are highlighting the sindoor thingy but not KT's state of mind, no sympathies for KT who is facing so much uncalled troubles. The marriage was totally mutual as both were agreed to it after the sindoor thingy. IMO, Preeti did the right thing by getting married to him to support him otherwise he may would have tried to self harm himself. Like in the precap its visible how he tore the necklace which not only harmed Preeti but himself too. Right now i want Preeti to support KT just like how till now KT had supported her then their partnership will be proved infront of the world. 😒


Yeah I completely understand your point. But it's not right that If you're drowning, that you drag someone else down with you. That's not right either. Preeti supported him, it's good. He is going through trauma and does need to see a doctor for his mental state, however that does not give him the right to play with Preeti's emotions and life.

He knows how much his Mum dislikes Preeti, yet he still left her alone at such a delicate time. Preeti entered that house alone with zero support. It's not just Preeti's responsibility to give out the support. Marrying her was his idea, the least he could have done is honour his decision and stand by her during a really difficult time. He could have let out his steam after. But at that time, Preeti should have been his priority, not getting drunk and knocking on Nandini's hotel room door. Preeti prioritized KT by agreeing to marry him... this was the least he could have done.


I'm sorry, but no. He was drunk after. He wasn't drunk before he made the decision to get drunk was he? I feel he was wrong. Preeti needed him a lot more than he needed to tell Nandini that he took his revenge. He made the wrong call.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Davina95


Yeah I completely understand your point. But it's not right that If you're drowning, that you drag someone else down with you. That's not right either. Preeti supported him, it's good. He is going through trauma and does need to see a doctor for his mental state, however that does not give him the right to play with Preeti's emotions and life.

He knows how much his Mum dislikes Preeti, yet he still left her alone at such a delicate time. Preeti entered that house alone with zero support. It's not just Preeti's responsibility to give out the support. Marrying her was his idea, the least he could have done is honour his decision and stand by her during a really difficult time. He could have let out his steam after. But at that time, Preeti should have been his priority, not getting drunk and knocking on Nandini's hotel room door. Preeti prioritized KT by agreeing to marry him... this was the least he could have done.


I'm sorry, but no. He was drunk after. He wasn't drunk before he made the decision to get drunk was he? I feel he was wrong. Preeti needed him a lot more than he needed to tell Nandini that he took his revenge. He made the wrong call.


Yeah i completely agree with your point. All i am tryna say is KT needs help. Like you see that Sindoor thingy wasn't normal. 😗 I am not saying KT become mental 😂 i am just saying he should visit a psychiatrist once. 😯


By the way i totally agree with your every point. Even i dont support that Sindoor thingy and wont even support it. Also he ofcourse should have been there like it would be so embarrasing for a bride to enter in law's house without groom. Hopefully KT apologizes to Preeti quickly and we see some KeerTi moments. ❤️

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I do understand what makers are trying to show him as. He's got a troubled past and he's made some hasty decisions when he faced his past again.

I would say he's just lucky that Preeti is his life partner now, who's ready to accept this loveless marriage for his sake and wants him to get better

I'm not supporting KT in any way. But he's a realistic character to some extent. People do become selfish at times not realising that to heal from their hurt they're hurting others. Unfortunately here, Preeti is being taken advantage of

KT's problem is that he didn't want Preeti to go also and he doesn't know how to treat her as his wife as of now. Just give him some time, he'll realise his mistakes soon.

Our Preeti partner will make him forget Nandini n all her clones with time😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neonholic


Yeah i completely agree with your point. All i am tryna say is KT needs help. Like you see that Sindoor thingy wasn't normal. 😗 I am not saying KT become mental 😂 i am just saying he should visit a psychiatrist once. 😯


By the way i totally agree with your every point. Even i dont support that Sindoor thingy and wont even support it. Also he ofcourse should have been there like it would be so embarrasing for a bride to enter in law's house without groom. Hopefully KT apologizes to Preeti quickly and we see some KeerTi moments. ❤️


LOL 🤣🤣🤣

KT got a bit mental tho. I personally found the whole sindoor thing kinda hot. I thought it was sexy that he sprinted towards her and put sindoor on her. Although is was wrong. But it was still hot. LOL. He SHOULD NOT have said that he loves her if he doesn't. That's what I don't agree with. He left the decision in her hands on whether to marry him or not. However at the same time, he kinda emotionally blackmailed her into making that decision by stating all the things that will happen if she walks away. That was wrong too. He shouldn't have influenced her decision. He was asking for way too much from her. He did go a little crazy to be honest. He deffo needs a check up. Or maybe even sectioning... 🤣🤣🤣


Embarrassment is just a fraction of what she would have felt, walking into the Tibrewal house alone. For me, that would honestly be enough for me to walk away from that man. Can't even walk with the decision he made. I hope the writers bring this up in a confrontation between them two. Because it really needs to be said.


And I personally don't think an apology is enough here. He needs to do a lot more to make up to Preeti with what he has done.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: rdrp17

I do understand what makers are trying to show him as. He's got a troubled past and he's made some hasty decisions when he faced his past again.

I would say he's just lucky that Preeti is his life partner now, who's ready to accept this loveless marriage for his sake and wants him to get better

I'm not supporting KT in any way. But he's a realistic character to some extent. People do become selfish at times not realising that to heal from their hurt they're hurting others. Unfortunately here, Preeti is being taken advantage of

KT's problem is that he didn't want Preeti to go also and he doesn't know how to treat her as his wife as of now. Just give him some time, he'll realise his mistakes soon.

Our Preeti partner will make him forget Nandini n all her clones with time😆


Exactly, high in emotions, you do become selfish and make mistakes. But to make someone give up their whole life just so that you can prove a point and take revenge on someone who wronged you 17 years ago is a bit too much in my eyes. I'm not against KT either. I'm just against his decisions and judgments. These mistakes are expected from someone young and immature. This guy is middle aged. His betrayal happened 17 years prior. I get the wounds are still sore, but that's because he had no closure. But he could have been the bigger and stronger person in this and put his foot down. He didn't need to go to that level for revenge. He has had enough time to come to terms with what Nandini did to him. He should have stayed calm. And he did calm down. But then why did his brain not switch back on and start thinking again?? When he went to talk to Preeti alone, he seemed pretty calm. Whilst the wedding was happening he was calm. Yeah he had a mini tantrum in between on the mandap but that is down to his childishness. And for that, I ultimately blame his mother. She could have helped him come out of his trauma, but she made the biggest mistake in all this by doing nothing. She has no right to question Preeti and her intentions in this, because if anyone has done KT wrong, it's Nandini and Kaushala. Why did she not get him to see a therapist? Why did she not try to convince him to remarry and that not all women are the same? Why did she not allow him to mature and grow up? He acted this way, because his mother taught him no different. He always threw tantrums, and she gave him what he wanted. That's the worst thing a parent can do to their child.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Davina95


Exactly, high in emotions, you do become selfish and make mistakes. But to make someone give up their whole life just so that you can prove a point and take revenge on someone who wronged you 17 years ago is a bit too much in my eyes. I'm not against KT either. I'm just against his decisions and judgments. These mistakes are expected from someone young and immature. This guy is middle aged. His betrayal happened 17 years prior. I get the wounds are still sore, but that's because he had no closure. But he could have been the bigger and stronger person in this and put his foot down. He didn't need to go to that level for revenge. He has had enough time to come to terms with what Nandini did to him. He should have stayed calm. And he did calm down. But then why did his brain not switch back on and start thinking again?? When he went to talk to Preeti alone, he seemed pretty calm. Whilst the wedding was happening he was calm. Yeah he had a mini tantrum in between on the mandap but that is down to his childishness. And for that, I ultimately blame his mother. She could have helped him come out of his trauma, but she made the biggest mistake in all this by doing nothing. She has no right to question Preeti and her intentions in this, because if anyone has done KT wrong, it's Nandini and Kaushala. Why did she not get him to see a therapist? Why did she not try to convince him to remarry and that not all women are the same? Why did she not allow him to mature and grow up? He acted this way, because his mother taught him no different. He always threw tantrums, and she gave him what he wanted. That's the worst thing a parent can do to their child.


I think you have a rather low IQ. You are not observant enough. You cannot distance yourself from the proceedings.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neonholic


Yeah i completely agree with your point. All i am tryna say is KT needs help. Like you see that Sindoor thingy wasn't normal. 😗 I am not saying KT become mental 😂 i am just saying he should visit a psychiatrist once. 😯


By the way i totally agree with your every point. Even i dont support that Sindoor thingy and wont even support it. Also he ofcourse should have been there like it would be so embarrasing for a bride to enter in law's house without groom. Hopefully KT apologizes to Preeti quickly and we see some KeerTi moments. ❤️

i am not offending you dear,its like our societys cheap mindset that men will have all their hell issues and venting their anger their wife is a normal thing. if the wife does the same,they will say woman is torturing her husband. hypocritic society.. when meri saas aur meraey pati hurts me,mera dard diktha nahi hey unko,lekin jab yeh harkath unkaey beti kaey saath hoti tho ,bas poora duniyo ko gaali detaen hein.

.🤣😡

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Davina95


LOL 🤣🤣🤣

KT got a bit mental tho. I personally found the whole sindoor thing kinda hot. I thought it was sexy that he sprinted towards her and put sindoor on her. Although is was wrong. But it was still hot. LOL. He SHOULD NOT have said that he loves her if he doesn't. That's what I don't agree with. He left the decision in her hands on whether to marry him or not. However at the same time, he kinda emotionally blackmailed her into making that decision by stating all the things that will happen if she walks away. That was wrong too. He shouldn't have influenced her decision. He was asking for way too much from her. He did go a little crazy to be honest. He deffo needs a check up. Or maybe even sectioning... 🤣🤣🤣


Embarrassment is just a fraction of what she would have felt, walking into the Tibrewal house alone. For me, that would honestly be enough for me to walk away from that man. Can't even walk with the decision he made. I hope the writers bring this up in a confrontation between them two. Because it really needs to be said.


And I personally don't think an apology is enough here. He needs to do a lot more to make up to Preeti with what he has done.

hope they dont turn him into a abusive husband. i think tarun can give the correct treatment to set KT right. he should tell that his baap was less abusive thaan KT, atleast then KT will come out his lala land ,i mean nandhini world..🤢

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Davina95


Exactly, high in emotions, you do become selfish and make mistakes. But to make someone give up their whole life just so that you can prove a point and take revenge on someone who wronged you 17 years ago is a bit too much in my eyes. I'm not against KT either. I'm just against his decisions and judgments. These mistakes are expected from someone young and immature. This guy is middle aged. His betrayal happened 17 years prior. I get the wounds are still sore, but that's because he had no closure. But he could have been the bigger and stronger person in this and put his foot down. He didn't need to go to that level for revenge. He has had enough time to come to terms with what Nandini did to him. He should have stayed calm. And he did calm down. But then why did his brain not switch back on and start thinking again?? When he went to talk to Preeti alone, he seemed pretty calm. Whilst the wedding was happening he was calm. Yeah he had a mini tantrum in between on the mandap but that is down to his childishness. And for that, I ultimately blame his mother. She could have helped him come out of his trauma, but she made the biggest mistake in all this by doing nothing. She has no right to question Preeti and her intentions in this, because if anyone has done KT wrong, it's Nandini and Kaushala. Why did she not get him to see a therapist? Why did she not try to convince him to remarry and that not all women are the same? Why did she not allow him to mature and grow up? He acted this way, because his mother taught him no different. He always threw tantrums, and she gave him what he wanted. That's the worst thing a parent can do to their child.

I completely agree with your views. The thing is KT has always been a pampered child and hence this childishness and immaturity.

His reason for marriage itself is a huge disrespect to their friendship. Atleast he could have been honest about his reason to marry her. And this is an Indian show, otherwise I don't think anyone in Preeti's place would have taken this decision to marry him to support him. Even if someone would, she would so not suddenly but after a lot of thought

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