Difference in Preeto's Love And Beeji's Love

When I had first seen the confession episode, I had no words to describe what an awesome scene it was,so realistic.. preeto's and RB's love for each other depicted in a very clear and simple way. I was expecting a simple and a straightforward love from preeto's side, similar to beeji's role of love as an awesome companion... as preeto is beeji's blood, and she has the same qualities as Her, so it was very obvious, but the CVS made preeto's love the most complicated one, which I could never relate to, was quite shocked to see such a state, surprisingly they made RB's love constant... I felt preeto's love ki angle ki, us feeling ki total khichdi banaa di... Preeto kaa pyaar tho real life ki tharah hona chaahiye tha, very simple just like beeji's... why is there so much difference, why so much complication... no stability.. the first thing she does whenever any problem comes is break up with RB, kya beejI bhi aisa hi karthi hain jab bhi unke life mein problems aati hain 😕 , rather beeji has always supported her husband in all ups and downs of life, zaroori nahi hai ki family ki sacrifice ke liyey solution sirf break up ho, CVS have given such a wrong message for people who are like preeto in real life.. the CVS made preeto's love to look silly, on the other hand it should had been very serious, because preeto jaisi ladki pyaar kaa khel mazaak NAhi kar sakthi , reason chaahey kuch bhi ho. Jo insaan sacha pyaar kartha hai usko apney pyaar ki kadr hoti hai, and it always shows through actions.. beeji's actions itself have proved her love for her husband.. strictly speaking preeto ko bhi RB ke pyaar ki kadr honI chaahiye thi... what kind of message are the CVS passing out by showing preeto giving up her love every now and then, and RB following her everywhere 😕 , and the horrible weeks of EAs that the CVS are showing in this processes is just too much of torture, preeto can be a real example to her society of a true companion along with being a true daughter, but the CVS are not showing her to be one 😕

So why is there such a vast difference between beeji's and preeto's love CVS? We want practical answers

originally posted by host

Originally posted by: anasuya43

I do not agree with your theory.saying 'There is vast differences between beeji's and preeto's love." indeed they will be difference will be there</font>[/DIV]

<font color="#0000cc">first you have analysed there is lot of difference between mother and daughter.The way mother look at it in her angle is different from daughter.You have written beeji supported her husband in ups and downs.Do not forgot Beeji is married woman she has to support her husband</font>

<font color="#0000cc">where as in preeto's case it is not.She is young unmarried what experience she will have,she was brought in close knit family,first time in her life preeto has to take hard decision with no experience in her life.Any sensible girl in that situation will do same thing what preeto did?</font>

<font color="#0000cc">when the family in difficulties pyar comes last option.where is the time for her to think?.preeto has express it so many time .that her family comes first.</font>

<font color="#0000cc">what a tough situation she has faced,one side taking care of the family,love from rajbeer,blackmail from NA.how she will handle the situation with no experiences.i feel she taken a bold decison to face it.that itself is a plus point for her.</font>

<font color="#0000cc">It is not a wrong message she is sending.Everybody will appreciate her at this young age she stood like a rock to help her loving family.</font>

<font color="#0000cc">please do not compare preeto with beeji.though she her true daughter</font>

<font color="#0000cc">This is what i feel from the mother 's point of view.Being a mother of a daughter</font>

It was nice to see a mother's point of view, I agree that experience teaches a lot, even I have made mistakes in my life out of lack of experience, but later my elders taught me, gave me ideas out of their experience, but there is something called value of relationships which a girl already has even before marriage, she does not need experience for it, and the degree of value of relationships depends upon how much the parents have built in on her, preeto does come from a close knit family and from a family who hold high values about relationship, so she is someone who values relationships a lot, koi rishta todney se pehley hazaar baar socheygi. I totally understand that for her family comes first and it is difficult for her to manage between love and family, but for that is breakup the only solution ? schools mein hamko tough exams ho they ha in, to kya ham exam hi likhna chod dengey... is that the solution? Problem sey door bhaag jaana to problem kaa solution NAhI hotha.

Kisi bhi ladki ko shaadi se pehley koi special training NAhi milthi, saarey sanskaar usmein already ho they ha in, usko sirf apply karna padta hai, haan sirf maa ko kuch advises deny padtey ha in and that's it, later on experience teaches her, which only makes her relationship stronger, isiliyey tho kehthey hain Jo achi beti hotI hai wo aagey jaakar achi life partner banti hai... CVS to yahaan par preeto ki life kaa sirf ek pehloo dikhaa rahey hain, what about her value for relationships which she learnt from her mother, beeji ne bhi tho apney maa se ye sanskaar liyey ha in isiliyey tho she is a good wife, its highly indigestable to see a girl like preeto to break up not once but thrice from a person whom she had accepted as a life partner , totally undigestable from someone like preeto, so does that mean that girls like preeto should never get married as they can never give happiness, is this the message that CVS are passing.

Actually I agree with host here beause there was no strong reason for Preeto to break up during zimmedari track..If they showed before confession it would have atleast made some sense as she is in dilemma whether she will fulfill her responsibilities or not if she loved and married Rajbeer .. I think any Problem should be addressed and not avoided and to show a strong character like Preeto who preaches the values of relationship backing off her own love inspite of her parents liking Rajbeer and treating him as a son is not making any sense whatsoever and that too for a trivial issue like her father getting HIgh BP. Also , it was not like she has a physically handicapped sister who is dependent on her solely

Originally posted by: ankitaluv

Actually I agree with host here beause there was no strong reason for Preeto to break up during zimmedari track..If they showed before confession it would have atleast made some sense as she is in dilemma whether she will fulfill her responsibilities or not if she loved and married Rajbeer ..

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I think any Problem should be addressed and not avoided and toshow a strong character like Preeto who preaches the values of relationship backing off her own love inspite of her parents liking Rajbeer and treating him as a son is not making any sense whatsoever and that too for a trivial issue like her father getting HIgh BP. Also , it was not like she has a physically handicapped sister who is dependent on her solely
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Would Preeto accept the same if Ishmeet decided to backoff from Dhruv to take the responsibilities of home ? I don't think so .

I agree, there was no strong reason at all, that she had to choose between her love and family...

Originally posted by: host

I agree, there was no strong reason at all, that she had to choose between her love and family...

Firstly a biiig huggg to you for this post...🤗

This is very subtle...and this will be most difficult to understand...the moment we understand this we will get the whole story in perspective

And we will see her learning process and the whole thing will start making sense

All of you have pointed it correctly tht how could she break up? how could she not respect Rajbeer's love? trust his love? etc etcall the questions are totally valid...and in them are the answers...

Originally posted by: ankitaluv

Actually I agree with host here beause there was no strong reason for Preeto to break up during zimmedari track..If they showed before confession it would have atleast made some sense as she is in dilemma whether she will fulfill her responsibilities or not if she loved and married Rajbeer .. I think any Problem should be addressed and not avoided and to show a strong character like Preeto who preaches the values of relationship backing off her own love inspite of her parents liking Rajbeer and treating him as a son is not making any sense whatsoever and that too for a trivial issue like her father getting HIgh BP. Also , it was not like she has a physically handicapped sister who is dependent on her solely

Would Preeto accept the same if Ishmeet decided to backoff from Dhruv to take the responsibilities of home ? I don't think so .

Well I agree with all over the Zimmedari track because there was no solid reason at that point to break up. But this time while I dont like it and are skipping the episodes I can understand where she comes from. After all when it is a much loved sister s happiness at stake anybody will do whatever possible to help them. And am sure that id Ishu knew about NA s blackmail she would never want preeto do sacrifice her happiness. But preeto is so used to fending for herself and taking her own decisions that she does not even consult with her mom or rajbeer or anybody for this solution.