Originally posted by: oldcounty30
Bhabis behave like that does not mean roli behave like that.afterall sim is her sister.I dont agree sim deserved.She is suffering poor gal.Ofcourse both the sis are suffering.Regarding apologize sim did try to apologize but roli is not in a position to hear.Sim did acknowlege she did a mistake that is the reason she wanted to apalogize but roli did not give sim a chance.ofcourse the circumstances are created that way.So sim came up with an idea of givng her a gift laptap and apalogize but the college incident happened which made her crash the laptap.if roli continues behaving jethani sim will suffer more because of her own blood related sis than the bhabis.Sim touching rolis feet is not a small incident at all. Sim trying to patch up but roli is treating her like enemy
How hard is it to apologize if you mean to ? It takes just one sentence but what it also takes is a lot of guts to admit you were worng.
Simar b4 gifting her laptop - said to Sid - meri chhoti behen hai ye - I know her - ye thoda nakhra karti hai phir maan jaati hai...
How nasty is that ? Even with THIS senstence she has insulted Roli by calling her childish and young and by saying she does nakhra and that she is pleased pleased by gifts !!! How juvenile and how very patronising is that ???
Instead of that line if Simar had said - Sid ye mujhse isliye naraaj hai kyunki maine ispe bharosa nahi kiya aur maara bhi and that too SAKSE SAAMNE !! Roli has a right to be super angry at me..Roli - my dear can you ever forgive me - I am so sorry I was wrong in doubting you and doubly wrong in hitting you. And the biggest wrong I did is not having faith in you, and not giving you a chance to explain yourself...Can you please forgive me and love me back as your sis ?
Roli wud have turned around and hugged Simar and forgiven her. But Simar is such a coward and has an ego too and she just cud not bring herself to say "Roli I was wrong ".
Now, Roli is angry, upset and hurt that her own sister wud deliberatly ruin her whole year !
Oldcountry - you say Roli forced her to go for the dance competetion Right ?
Agreed - Roli wanted her to compete. But if her shadi was on the same day - should Simar have realized what was more important and what wasn't ? Her family reputation shud have the supreme deciding factor. Even there, Simar lacked courage.
Simar shud have confronted her dad and said - Sorry Papa - I have agreed to do a dance show and its at the same time as the shadi - what shud I do ?
Simar was scared of her dad's anger just as Simar is scared of everything in life and so she went without thinking of any consequences. This is why Simar must suffer - coz she is just a scared miserable, lying coward.
If you are sad, you shud admit it. If you r upset u shud admit it. If u r worried u shud admit it. Simar never does. She always says - with tears in her eyes - Nahi to ! Main to bilkul theek hoon !
Theek ho to phir bhugto. Hope Roli pushes Simar to such an extreme that finally Simar can decided enough is enough and learns to find her inner courage to stand up for herself. If u don't respect yourself, others certainly won't.
Currently, Roli feels insulted coz she respects herself. The day Simar feels insulted enuf to revolt against her tormentor - I will applaud her too.