BM is not wrong she is just being considerate!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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BM will never accept BP! She is just taking care of him bec of humanity and bec of her love for dada dadi! She has loved them as her own parents and with the return of BP she is thinking that why should Dada dadi (especially dadi) suffer because of what BP did to her and her kids! And her care and worry for dada dadi is making her remain quite and that is the reason she is being misunderstood.

Where as Dadaji is thinking that BM wants bp back and that is why he is tolerating BP. Dadi is a mother that is why she cant see her son suffering, and as a mother is willing to forgive him easily. But had dadi been BM's mother would she have forgiven BP then? Things would have been different.

The relationship equation has changed had dada dadi and bm been clear with each other without worrying abt hurting each other things would have been crystal clear, but now everyone is misunderstanding each other in the house and that creep bp is taking advantage of this!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with you 125% ... very well said.
That said, I sincerely hope that BP does not break everyone's heart again.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with you...but I wish she would stop being so ambiguous and just spit it out that she doesnt want Ishwar. Her silence in the only thing keeping Ishwar in the house...like you said that Dadaji is only suffering him because of Shailaja (sp?) but since Shailija herself is being quiet everyone tends to think the wrong way that she wants him back just like Inder did
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shmuupie

BM will never accept BP! She is just taking care of him bec of humanity and bec of her love for dada dadi! She has loved them as her own parents and with the return of BP she is thinking that why should Dada dadi (especially dadi) suffer because of what BP did to her and her kids! And her care and worry for dada dadi is making her remain quite and that is the reason she is being misunderstood.

Where as Dadaji is thinking that BM wants bp back and that is why he is tolerating BP. Dadi is a mother that is why she cant see her son suffering, and as a mother is willing to forgive him easily. But had dadi been BM's mother would she have forgiven BP then? Things would have been different.

The relationship equation has changed had dada dadi and bm been clear with each other without worrying abt hurting each other things would have been crystal clear, but now everyone is misunderstanding each other in the house and that creep bp is taking advantage of this!

Exactly the sentence of BM that "I am the one wall between you all and BP to Alok" shows it is not her having feelings for him which were there and confused in the beginning but think completely died after the chitti of his daughter😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Oh BP is definitely going to dupe these innocent people again! He is much more shrewd and cunning than what he seems to be! All this is just a charade to rob these people of their money!

I guess heart broken will be only Dadi, because to some extent nobody besides her is willing to believe that two faced bp! Dadaji, Shailja, Rajni, Inder, Alok all know what kind of person he is but all are tolerating him because of BM, who is finding herself responsible for the current situation by thinking - that because of what all she had to go through no body is willing to accept bp! But what she is not realizing that instead of saving her family from getting hurt she is in fact being instrumental in them getting hurt eventually when the true colors of bp will come in light!

In fact I dont want Suhana to be the savior or the "hero" of the entire thing when bp cheats i want bm to be strong enough to be able to save her family from his clutches when he tries to play a fast one and demands his share or steals from the family! I want the family to regain their faith and trust they had in BM before bp came into picture, and feel sorry that they ever mistrusted or suspected bm. Because if CV's show that bm is willing to accept bp and when bp eventually cheats the family, nobody will respect or sympathize with bm because she would be responsible for calling this on herself! Currently they are showing bm to be compassionate, soft hearted and motherly but they should also show that she is a strong women who can save, protect and take care of her family and when time comes can fight for them with anybody even if it is their own son (dada and dadi's) or her own husband!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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^I have a feeling that Badi Ma and Suhana will expose BP together...because I doubt that they will show BM accepting BP. I think that at first Suhana will be hell bent on showing everyone BP is bad and she will gain support since everyone is against BP anyways
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Posted: 13 years ago
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It's still too early to tell what role Suhana will play in all this...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: MadameX

It's still too early to tell what role Suhana will play in all this...


maybe she will help BM to put things into perspective and may be remove the misunderstandings between the family members... inder.. dada.. dadi ..think that BM wants him back,... BM thinks the family wants him back but she is standing in the way...as usual they are thinking of others and sacrificing or just ignoring what they really want to bring happiness in the others life...
so i think suhana will help remove this confusion and make everyone express what they actually want...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Shailuji , I was also thinking suhana will clear misunderstandings.. it's very sad, but none have asked BM softly what she wanted..I mean panna an Inder shouted at her, before family members, rather than talked to BM in her room..

I remember old scene, where Inder at night used to go BM room and have a nice talk about family and all.. But before going to BP room, if inder would have gone to BM room and have talked to her about BP and his decision why he wants to forgive him.. would have been better.

I thought RB is the one who can understand BM more, as rano from the beginning is in the view, why can't BM accept BP as a husband again while panna had given second chance to rounak.. But neither RB talked to BM about BP nor dadaji... Rajini talked in the sense that Inder wouldn't accept BP..

Waiting to see a sensible talk between Suhana and BM..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: abhi786

Shailuji , I was also thinking suhana will clear misunderstandings.. it's very sad, but none have asked BM softly what she wanted..I mean panna an Inder shouted at her, before family members, rather than talked to BM in her room..

I remember old scene, where Inder at night used to go BM room and have a nice talk about family and all.. But before going to BP room, if inder would have gone to BM room and have talked to her about BP and his decision why he wants to forgive him.. would have been better.

I thought RB is the one who can understand BM more, as rano from the beginning is in the view, why can't BM accept BP as a husband again while panna had given second chance to rounak.. But neither RB talked to BM about BP nor dadaji... Rajini talked in the sense that Inder wouldn't accept BP..

Waiting to see a sensible talk between Suhana and BM..

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You are sooo right, no one has tried to ask BM gently.. Everyone is trying to judge her..Maybe this is where Suhana can make a difference

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