BM is not wrong she is just being considerate! - Page 2

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Posted: 13 years ago
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The only fault of BM is that she is a very good human being.
The fact that BP has left a very deep wound on BM's soul which can never get healed, was clear the day she confronted BP when he got Ruby's letter.
But BM is such a great soul that she doesn't want to be selfish and deprive the family of a long lost son; her hatred of BP is nothing compared to her love for the family which has been with her through all these years; the family due to which her Panna and Inder have never missed their father(though they hate him for what he has done); her in-laws who have always considered her as their daughter even after their son left them; the family which has given her the status of the family head(it is BM indeed who takes all the decisions). How can she forget everything? She knows whatever bitterness the family members have for Ishwar is mainly due to what Ishwar had done with her..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ice.maiden

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You are sooo right, no one has tried to ask BM gently.. Everyone is trying to judge her..Maybe this is where Suhana can make a difference

exactly ,...thats what i meant when i said suhana will help put things in perspective for BM..she is the only one not directly effected by BP.. the thinking of all the members of the family is clouded by theri emotions...and the bad memories of what BP did to the family...she is the only one that is good in times of stress as is her record.. but recently the cvs have projected her as dumb...but on many occasions she has been sensible in the past...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shilu999_balani

exactly ,...thats what i meant when i said suhana will help put things in perspective for BM..she is the only one not directly effected by BP.. the thinking of all the members of the family is clouded by theri emotions...and the bad memories of what BP did to the family...she is the only one that is good in times of stress as is her record.. but recently the cvs have projected her as dumb...but on many occasions she has been sensible in the past...

Very very true..
I for one want to forget the dumb parts and remember Suhana the character that the writers first set out to create
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i dont mind if suhana solves it but i find it sort of pitiful that the owmen who once used to walk around the home head held high now scurries around, not meeting anyone, a mere shadow of heself.
she prided on the fact that it was khandan ka dhoka and it is her family now, one guys entry made her feel that it is his family and maybeshe is the one standing in their way. the major player was dadi. her atyachar and dadji reading letter is the mian blow to bm.
i hope suhana comes and finally bm suhanahave a heart to heart talk. but the decison shoukd be bms and not suhana
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with you. Badi Ma is in a difficult situaiton so it's going to take her longer to figure out what step to take next. 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: leo4ever

i dont mind if suhana solves it but i find it sort of pitiful that the owmen who once used to walk around the home head held high now scurries around, not meeting anyone, a mere shadow of heself.

she prided on the fact that it was khandan ka dhoka and it is her family now, one guys entry made her feel that it is his family and maybeshe is the one standing in their way. the major player was dadi. her atyachar and dadji reading letter is the mian blow to bm.
i hope suhana comes and finally bm suhanahave a heart to heart talk. but the decison shoukd be bms and not suhana

I dont think BM is weak at all...infact I think she is quite strong, any other person would have left the house by now...as someone said that BM's only fault is that she is too good of a person

and that one guy is her ex-husband and the way he's acting I dont think her keeping her head down is a bad thing...Once again BM could be like Radha,Panna and Rajni and scream and lash at BP and have him kicked out but she is the daughter in law of the house after all...no matter how much Dadaji-Dadiji have said that they have accepted her as a daughter the truth of the matter is that blood is thicker than water

and BTW just to point out BM NEVER said it out loud that she is the connecting thread of the family, the family is the one who have given her that status, that right and BM doesnt go around priding in herself that her husband left her

Again Dadiji is a mother and a mothers heart is a mothers heart, no matter how bad your child is deep down you're still going to love it no matter what because it was a part of you for 9 months and Dadiji herself had made it clear that all she wanted to know was Ishwar's health...nothing more...Ishwar was the one who forced himself in the house.

Suhana's role in this is quite crucial because no one is as close to BM as Suhana and for Suhana nothing matters more than her Badi Ma's happiness which is why I think Suhana will go all out on BP and just lash at him

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