Somebody please slap Shailaja - Page 2

Originally posted by: venture

There are sooo many examples in daily life...in India n abroad where ladies accept back their husband...n husbands too do that... I wont take names but our Bollywood has nth such examples...

Originally posted by: sammukh

One thing I cannot understand...why is everyone so angry with BM...She had stood strong in bad n terrible times... If she wants some happiness in her life y cant she have it...she has never stopped loving BP... we say love never dies...n it ignited again with BP entry in the house...where is the problem...lets just hope BP will turn out to be a positive character...n that she can be happy... why be so angry n harsh with her...

Meena the maid explained it so well in today's episode... i totally agree with what she is doing... i think I would have done the same. She is not forcing anyone...not stopping anyone ffrom insulting ...hurting BP...She is the guniea pig... culprit of the situation... Kudos to Meena for telling that whatever the husband is like he is ur pride... ur identity after marriage...

THAT does not mean that she is giving off her own individuality...

Originally posted by: venture

Even if the husband is cheat, fraud, abandons wife for another woman?? What if BM has done the same thing and came back after 15 years would we be saying " wapas toh aa Gaye naa! Woh apun kee aurat hai na " , would things be hunky dorie.

Originally posted by: firefly99

I disagree.None is saying that she has no right of being happy the point is which kind of happiness she wants?does she want that happiness for her family or for her own self?As the kind of happiness can never be for her as it doesn't satisfies HER own self in any way.Even if BP would have been a positive character than also I would never want him to get accepted by her...

Originally posted by: sammukh

<div></div>That what i am saying...she has lived for the family...she has the right to live for herself now... we have seen her so many times in situations...like "BHeed mein bhi thi Tanhai "n i am sure the character BM is strong enough to change the still plotting BP to a Positive character...whom every1 will love... n i'm not talking from BP's POV...i'm talking from BM's POV... living without a husband is very difficult after marriage...n she has gone through it for 15 yrs...now if she wants to live her share with her husband...i think she has a point...n BP was not a bad man b4 he left...success got into him... n hopefully he is asking forgiveness genuinely...

Originally posted by: venture

Even if the husband is cheat, fraud, abandons wife for another woman?? What if BM has done the same thing and came back after 15 years would we be saying " wapas toh aa Gaye naa! Woh apun kee aurat hai na " , would things be hunky dorie.

Originally posted by: firefly99

I disagree.None is saying that she has no right of being happy the point is which kind of happiness she wants?does she want that happiness for her family or for her own self?As the kind of happiness can never be for her as it doesn't satisfies HER own self in any way.Even if BP would have been a positive character than also I would never want him to get accepted by her...

Originally posted by: venture

A selfish man would always be selfish, no one change the true nature ! If she wants to be a victim again so be it, but tell you one thing this senario of a women can not live with out a man is absolutely wrong , it's the other way around, how many women remarry again after there husband's death and look around how quickly men remarry after the death of there wife, if BP would have come genuinely with genuine remorse fine but the way this man is treating his own kids says a lot about the kind of person he is, the way he treated his own brother who took care of his kids and wife, the way he talked to his father ! What can you expect, he is an adult , not a mother less young girl who BM can teach to learn to love !

Originally posted by: Luv4games

No he would not accept her and generally i dont want women to also accept such husbands but at the same time that is my personal opinion and i wouldnt force it on someone else. BM never got a legal divorce event though she could have gotten it easily since they werent together for decades and she never took her sindoor an mangalsutr off either which means she always believed in her marriage in her heart and never stopped loving ishawar. So she has every right in the world to do what pleases her in her life even if that means being with somebody like ishawar. No nobody else in the family has to accept him just because BM does but it is her life and she can do whatever makes her happy. Everybody has different point of veiws in life and while some wouldnt forgive somebody like ishawar there are women who would accept them. So it is not right to demand from her to hate him when she has feelings of love for him.