Radha was equally if not more rude

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Radha was equally if not more rude to Eshwar. She could have been neutral as she was really not part of the family. And the old parents are nursing some feeling for their bad son. She should not forget that. Blood is thicker.

Come on, many of us are parents. If our children go astray, we dont disown them. We accept them with reservations and try to bring out the good in them.

Badi Maa did not hear how rude Radha was to a sick man. She heard when Eshwar reciprocated that rudeness. Radha even slapped Suhana. She may be a good person but should know the limits.

I dont support Eshwar. Instead of living like a worm hated by everybody, he can as well go away and live a solitary life. How many people are not living alone and die alone?

There are so many grey shades. Everything is not black and white.

How can you say that his US family deserted him because of his nature? It may be the other way round.

Eshwar's character is unrealistic. No educated person will tolerate so much abuse even if he had done wrong. This track is just to show that Eshwar is being punished by each and everybody.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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The Eshwar track actually gives so much scope about discussing the various shades of BP's character...I am really liking the different views given by different members in the forum these days..and i am not even watching the show.😕😆

Keep continuing such discussions.I shall try to catch up with that scene and come back if I can to give my views on RB/BP :)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I just dont understand why people like RB, and meena are mean to him. the truth is that daadaji and daadi will one day forgive him and same with his kids and brother...if no one else does his parents will for sure...then why are these people picking sides when they werent even involved and need to stay neutral...more than anyone else RB seems irritated by him and dislikes him..i get that they have done alot for her and that is why she feels the need to be mean to him but what will she do when everybody else forgives him except for BM...How will she feel if daadi is rude to her because of this since after all any mother will care for their sick son than daughter like especailly a mom like daadi who emotionally blackmailed BM to go meet his son
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sorry to say you are saying the same thing which BP has said , she may be a maid cum family but Ambernath Kyshap has brought him and made her EQUAL PART of tbd family, if we adopt some one may not be legally but morally we can not one day say ok you are nothing compared to my children , that us not right. RB loves the whole family more then anything, she was the biggest supporter if BM , she has seen both Dada and Dadi shattered and she picked them up, now she has sensed the true nature of BP and she knows that if he betrays them again then the family would not be able to cope. Meena also is very loyal to the family, she sensed how others feel about BP, so she is reflecting that, Meena is not mean or rude infact she is doing what others wants him to do. Also RB is a blunt person what ever she said was more blunt then rude.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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An adopted chid always feels more responsible for the parents than the birth child.
Radha Bua has looked after Daada and Daadi for so many years. She has lived in the house and loved Ishwar and Panna like her own chidren. She is Baadi Maa's chamchi...
She has seen all their pain and her anger at IShwar Kashyap is because of all the pain and heart ache he has caused her family.
I know people who have gone through similar situations and while the parents might forgive their son, the children have never forgiven the father or had anything to do with him.
Recent case in the news is the example of Steve Jobs, while he found both his birth mother and father, he only met and looked after his birth mother but even though he knew who his birth father was, he deliberately choose not to acknowledge him or have anything to do with him.
Radha Bua is rude but because she loves Daada and Daadi as her own parents, even Daadaji once told Deepak that till he came to the house, Radha Bua used to treat Daada and Daadi as her chidren and looked after them.
Ishwar Kashyap who abandonded his family to make money and success has no right to tell Radha Bua anything, he lost all his rights the day he choose success and money over his parents, wife and children!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I understand that RB was rude but when Dadaji said Meena has the right the throw BP out then I am sure RB has more guts than others to speak her mind. Nobody wants BP there but are being polite. Why do they need to be polite when BP doesnt care about their feelings .bas apni man mani Kar raha hai. So even though RB was rude I feel BP deserves it. My comments are Based on the updates and forum discussions .have not yet seen the episode. Will definitely get back if I need to change my stance.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I may be wrong..😳.. but i did feel RB has been blunt on many situations... she has been literally living her life for the family and bound to feel hurt on seeing them hurt.. in Suhana' s case she witnessed Suhana in a rather outspoken mode with her dad... and formed her opinion about her... in case of Deepak which was a pathetic situation... he resembled the rapist and she cud never accept him initially... in case of BP, she is still seeing him as a pain in the eyes of all...but the affection dada-dadi has for him, BM's fluctuating state of mind and the dilemma of her heart is all not witnessed by her... i feel though Ishwar needs more hammering to let his senses realise how disgustingly wrong he is by sticking to the " i am the bada beta of the house" statement... , his past and present karthoots... RB's blunt behaviour will not help...
Doing so, it appeared more a provocation on her part... ignoration cud have been a silent way of punishing the man..😳..!
After provoking that man... one can expect only flak... he has not spared his bro... phir uske liye RB kis kheth ki mooli hai??😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: laxmi_s


After provoking that man... one can expect only flak... he has not spared his bro... phir uske liye RB kis kheth ki mooli hai??😆


The brighter side of the story is that this reaffirms our thoughts that BP is not worth accepting.. Hopefully even BM realizes the same and does the right thing.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ice.maiden


The brighter side of the story is that this reaffirms our thoughts that BP is not worth accepting.. Hopefully even BM realizes the same and does the right thing.

Yeah sushma... his act did show the height of senseless EGO in him... as he tries to put the other person low to prove himself high...glad BM will now be in a proper frame of mind to take her decision...😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with you Laxmi, silent treatment is the best treatment but not every one is capable of doing that. I like RB,s character, as sometimes she does get things wrong but then she accepts that she was wrong, that shows she is a good person. I am glad this happened as BM would see that he may be father of her children and son of Bau Jee but his behaviour does not have connection with her upbringing and the ethos of Kyshap Parivaar now. I gues after BP left then Kyshaps became what they are now as the were support for each other .

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