oh man i guess only SGP makes it possible that people actually try to justify for a useless shallow man.irrespective of how she spoke, i was more surprised at the way he was exerting his self, he has conveintenly forgotten he is staying zabardasti at someones home. (i dont consider it his home) how could he ask for ilesh to go and get it , he doesnt get it it is a favor as he fell and got sick? he neeeded this to realise that he is still a guest who has become ill and is being treated for it. in my opinion more than blood tie it is the relation , the honesty and the purenss that defines who is family and who is not. what raddha is to this family is what ishwar could never be. Also i have heard and believe nothing makes a bond greater than that of sharing pain. while ishwar remained oblivious of the pain inflicted upon his family raddha was there continuosly seen the up and downs she has lived it , undergone with them. so she is family not he.
the attitude that he showed when alok came to his home, the hint of arrogance ( mei bara beta hu,kaisay kar sakte hu), so incredulous does it seem to him that they can chose bahu over beta, how small is thinking (saying to alok you are jealous that in my absence you got the position) the need of exerting his right his selfishenss( when i have a home, family why do i have ot go through living alone in a small room, wash my clothers, cook food do work??) the same shade was visible when he refused to go away, how he talked to panna bm ( panna isjhwar confrontation , bm ishwar sindoor nishani conversation) but was mellowed down when he was with his mom and asked for forgivness( it wasnt he was feelng any lament over what he did rather what i think was his bachpan ki adat that takleef mei always used to apologzie and ask mom to make it right)
i for one am totally against treating him civily, ab itna bemar b nhn hai, he could be shifted to hospital.( know didnt as of sanskar but he doesnt derserve this spl treatment) i feel even know he feels rishtay are born with, adikar hain doesnt get that respect and haq when lost has to reearned.
i also hate it that dada dadai never once reaffirmed to bm that it is her house and she should feel no obligation towards accepting ishwar for anyone. all keep crying about her in front of her, make guilty faces as if they arent doing becoz of her only.
but ishwar just fell more down in my eyes and i really am against his acceptance. i would never accept evenif my father, had he left me and my mom alone to start his new family no matter what, to forgive is different and to accept is different. they can show forgivness but not acceptance, esp after knowing that he even had his own family and now has turned towards them.
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