I think it is not abt ishan being a child or anything. but as U see Inder takes lot of things from Alok mostly resposibilities. Alok depands on Inder as he knows Inder will do the right thing. He will fulfill his duties. when Ishan proves to him that he can too & will take responsibility, then Alok will depand on him. Until today Ishan has behaved a child, I m not saying he is not trust worthy but its just matter of time. as for ilesh, alok does nt expect him either. Ishan first have to manage his wife, by making her understand lot of things, until he takes care of her wife n keep her mistakes under control, he is a child. Both my brother & I rpoved to my dad that he can depand on us, moment he knew, he gave us complete responsibility, until then V were babies in his eyes.