1st Sept Discussions - Page 7

Originally posted by: tejeshec

I am already in there..and guyz thanks for asking..sab theek hai ..its just one of those boring days where u don't like anything..Thats it😃

Originally posted by: MadameX

Acha as long as it's not serious, then good. 😆

I'm off to watch the SNS episode I missed. 😆

Originally posted by: MadameX

Now maybe I'm still a little bit of toothpick princess. 😆 My parents don't let me out after dark alone. 😆 I'm twenty for god's sake.

Originally posted by: tejeshec

howz Gopi?
do take good care of her as she is part of my formula

Originally posted by: MadameX

@ Sachi: Oh, that's completely different stuff from what Netri was referring to as toothpick princesss. Yeah, I agree with you...that girl has no sense of shame keeping her parents up late at night? Waise, what does she need to talk about all night long every single day? (Ignore the fact that this is coming from a chatty person...I'm quieter in real life 😆). And for the second case, I can actually see my dad doing that too if he ever sent me to dorm somewhere...but the thing is, not allowed to dorm so in a way my dad himself solves that issue. 😆

But yeah, I agree that everyone has to stand on their own feet at some point. Acting so helpless is just an excuse to be lazy. 😆

Originally posted by: Sachi16

That College girl.. used to be on phone coz she was afraid of Travelling alone... and her parents afraid of coz they wanted to make sure she reached college & reached back home safely... (though we 5-6 students used to travel with her) & this they continued for alomost 2 quarters... 😕

Haha..oh wow...but I can actually understand that, having similar experiences too...though like I said, never dormed or anything like that so my situation's a bit different too...don't have to call my parents up...but I can still understand what the parents and that girl might be thinking. Still, she needs to come out of her shell too because if she doesn't then even her parents won't let go of her hand too...and they'll be tied to each others' waists for life.

And of course you have rights to ask for the facilities...when you are in Dorm (you are paying for it)... but when you r living with roommates (that she herself decided to live with) ...we all r paying our equal share... 😊who also girls from India.. without parents & family... survived & managed on their own.. 😊 When I moved in from NJ to Philly... I found roommates on Sulekha... I was happy I found Indian Roomie, other than that... I knew I have to survive by my own... no one can provide me whatever I am habituated with on the first day... I have to get them by my own... 😊

Originally posted by: MadameX

Exactly, you need to be independent too because life's short, people aren't gonna hang around you anymore, so eventually you have to learn stuff. My brother recently passed away and he's the one who usually handles all the technical stuff in the house, fixing things, handling errands, etc, etc. I've become so dependent on him to always be around to fix my computer, calculator, get me stuff from far away stores because I'm such a bad driver, etc, etc...and now that he's gone, I'm trying to step up to the plate, understand all the things he used to know how to do, because he just won't be there to do it for me like he used to with a grin.