Suhana is neither Rano nor Radha - Page 2

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hard to belive that some people are still defending suhana's behavior!!! OMG!!!!!!!!!! Rajni, Disha, BM or chhoti ma or Radha bua...they are the reason why this family still "together" as a family in todays world!!! They don't "live" for themselves!!! They live for their family!!!
They don't order around people what to make/cook for her and her husband, snatches aways somebody's breakfast without even thinking for a second why the other person is asking her not to take it repeatedly!!! It's not a hotel...
It's very easy to say..i love you, i love you, i care for you blah blah...well, her actions don'y say that!!! It's time to grow up girl!!
Rajani and Disha's outbust was totalluy justified...that's natural...koi bhagwan nehi hain!!
Edited by JJESH - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: firefly99

Suhana is definitely not like Rano atleast she is better than her😆😆😆.I am not saying that Suhana is not at fault no doubt maximum fault is of Suhana the way she overlooked R & D's pain while being self-engrossed was wrong she should also make her contribution in house chores and she should try understand different situations and as BM explained that none speaks u should read between the lines she should try to get as much closer to R & D as both of them are with each other.But But The way Rajni said Suhana nai kiya hi kya hai is ghar key liye if that meant for doing house chores than that's ok but if it was meant for caring others than I would like to differ here Suhana loves them all she even cared for them say and she also said that Suhana was always separate from the whole family I think she merged in the family but still didn't tried to make adjustments khair If we remove the two weeks of Suhana's journey she wasn't that much annoying and self-engrossed which she was in these two weeks all thanks to CV's and also Suhana was the only one who read between the lines of RB and BM she even tried to lessen their pain she considered about Meena Kumari too.Suhana shouldn't be treated like princess but its Rajni's misconception that Suhana's mistakes were always neglected (indirectly related one😆-than what about SK issue) and they have no importance I didn't found elders being harsher to any of R & D few people gather more love and affection and become ladley of everyone even in the real life too.Even if maximum fault was of Suhana its human behaviour they learn more from there mistakes.Rajni is also a human being and her outburst was also a part of human behaviour at the end all well if ends well hopefully CV's will end it in a proper way and it will lead to better conclusion and the roots of there relationships will get deeper... itney sarey long posts dekh kar mujhse raha nahin gaya😆😆😆

👏👏 well done Tabbu... very nice explanation... 😊
you have written very long post... 😉 Yeh RDS wale track ne to forum ko super active bana diya hai... mene isse pehle itne lambe lambe posts nahi dekhe... mujhe to chakkar aa rahe hai dekhkar bhi... 😲
I am waiting for Netri... use aana chahiye yaha... 😆😆😆😆
Edited by Sachi16 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sachi16

👏👏 well done Tabbu... very nice explanation... 😊
you have written very long post... 😉 Yeh RDS wale track ne to forum ko super active bana diya hai... mene isse pehle itne lambe lambe posts nahi dekhe... mujhe to chakkar aa rahe hai dekhkar bhi... 😲
I am waiting for Netri... use aana chahiye yaha... 😆

Thanks Sachi such main iss track se forum super active ho gaya hai maza aa raha hai jitney log utni rai as everyone has their own POV😃Mujhey bhi chakar aa rahe they itney sarey long posts dekh kar toh I thought why shouldn't I give it a try waisey bhi earlier I use to write long posts only😆😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: firefly99

Thanks Sachi such main iss track se forum super active ho gaya hai maza aa raha hai jitney log utni rai as everyone has their own POV😃Mujhey bhi chakar aa rahe they itney sarey long posts dekh kar toh I thought why shouldn't I give it a try waisey bhi earlier I use to write long posts only😆😆

@bold... I remember... You used to do that in Epi Discussion & even in WU... I have read those... now you also became BBC queen with all the bak bak in Epi disucssion... 😉😆😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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LMAO but I m tired of writing long posts today . I feel more like Copy Paste things but Tabz wrote nice . 😆Agree with U Zak .In tennis terms Bolls in Suhana's court , Now she 'll decide how she wants to play it . 😉
Edited by netri - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Look , V all do stupid stuff time to time I do too .
I say stuff I m not supposed to .I do stuff that can hurt others unknowingly.
What rajni did was coming for a while but timing was wrong .
So did Disha words were right , Timing was wrong .
So did Suhana . but By using the right words alone , & timing right , it doesn't guaranty that It won't hurt any less . By being old enough to understand the consequences , They always expect Rajni to b the sensible one. True , She does everyone expects her to but Relationships needs work , It needs time , energy , fuel to stand against any storm that comes ur way . Ask , any married person how much marriage is work minus the cheesy romance . V have to back a little for this . BM gave a very nice crash course via Ms. S**** , Suhaana read her mother's letter after Picnic fiasco & next morning went to make a TEA for everyone . Message was clear , She needs help out around house. Cauz it's ur home . After that She got sick , then Ishan got Sick so no one forced her to do all those things & In all the different excitements of her life she forgot the massage . Again BM gave her massage , Take care of Ishan . What BM didn't foreseen or miscalculated was Suhana will blindly follow that advice. When U have 15 different people living in the house , How can U just think of Ur-self & Urs . Another thing BM miscalculated was , How will R & D will fill abt Special treatment given to Suhana .They never talk abt it. R & D r not that shallow or they will enjoy [ Yay !!! See how V show suhana her place in the house ] No they love her very much . Special treatment bugs them the most & Yet Suhana became the casualty Plus , They both were avoiding her , avoiding confrontation , Now they have said in the heat of a moment they r going to regret it . 2 things happen at the party . 1 ] Rano to say how much Suhaan cares for them 2 ] After Disha- Rajni's out burst Dadaji to side with Suhana by saying " Abhi yeh sab kahena zaroori hain " Dadaji is not wrong but Suhana 's behaviour [ look at whole day Ishan Ishan Ishan ] + Everyone to jump to defend Suhana . Got to Rajni more than Suhana's Ishan Ishan.
As a person Rajni is not a bad person , she is in a situation where her frustration , disappointment over shadows her goodness at heart. Once she is all calm down She is going to apologize to every one . But BM is right Suhana has a lot to learn specially abt human relationships .

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Posted: 14 years ago
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i think everyone is wrong.
suhana had a beautiful heart but she is sooo dumb. like rly rly dumb. its kinda annoying how they show her not to have any understanding for her surroundings. she can be a little inconsiderate ex: promisjng to make everyone pizza n then making other plans. the point wasnt that she offered to stay later the point was way did she forget.
rajni n disha are wrong too. i understand they were upset with their own problems but they never voiced what their problems were...why are they mad at just suhana. no one else in the family knew about their problems either.
the elders are the biggest problem. they dont take suhana seriously even when her husband doesnt remember her, they dont teach her how to do anything in the house, and they are the ones that really treat suhana to be more special then anyone else a lot of the times. they are such a waste. like rano is such a waste to be honest...she just cries n worries.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think all 3 were right in their own place,Disha was visibly upset even meethi could have worked that one out by looking at her face she was so lost in her own mind...she told Suhana a few times give me sometime I'l come in a bit but Suhana was persistant and Disha blasted,wrong time but it was understandable but once she calmed down she was ready to apologize to Suhana. Rajni was a ticking time bomb,she was worried about Inder and because of Suhana she had bear the brunt of her husbands anger (the paratha fisaco) suhana was so engrossed in ishaan that she diidnt even listen to rajni's pleas that don't take those paratha also she was tensed about Disha. 100% she picked the wrong time to confront and explain to suhana,also she was right about expectations, the elders should have equal expectation from all 3 bahus.
Suhana was right too that she felt humliated in front of her dad and sister,ofcourse she was but today her reaction to Ishaan's words was wrong,she should have understood what he said,I felt he was right.
I don't think for a second Disha and Rajni are evil or selfish,they want Suhana to be a bit more understanding and aware of her surrondings,peoples moods without the need of them saying anything and the situations around her,if someone says no to her I.e the paratha's then understand why and not just go around in her own world of suhana and Ishaan.
Just my opnion no offfence to anyone...
Edited by krutiv100 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i aslo feel rajani n disha both were wrong... they never shared their problems with suhana or any one in the family !!!...why are they mad at suhana ?? they shud be mad at the whole family !!! As far as suhana's contribution is concerned tht rajini was point out to inder in todays epi ...i think she shud recall wht suhana did ...suhana was the one who hugged badi ma when she was alone reading baday papa's letter on his birthday...she was the one who stayed with badi ma tht night so she doesnt feel lonely ! she was the one who took care of badi ma when she was unwell...she was the one who left sajana's birthday party early for badi ma n the family ...she didnot eat at the party coz she wanted to eat with everyone...she was the one who calld the doc when dadaji had an attack (which was not heart attack )...she was the one who helpd methi with her school function n made her fairy dress n also bought her school bag ! she was the only one who celebrated deepak's birthday n cleared the diff between radha bua n deepak ! she was the one who solved dadaji's pension prob ! she was the one who slapped the man who was trying to misbehave with rajini n disha!!!💔

whenever she try to do something ...she always got the response tht u shud only take care of ishaan ! and if u all remb once alok was saying to rano tht rajni n disha used to come to their house before getting married...they both were familiar with everything but suhana was not !

Edited by sushi_anki - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I wuz disappointed with Ragini today

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