Suhana is neither Rano nor Radha - Page 4

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Posted: 14 years ago
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cooling down the things.. I feel we should not make an issue when your close one takes out all the frustration on you, it may happen that an upset father may burst out at his child even on a small mistake but that doesn't mean he is insensitive
Although Rajni and Disha shouldn't have shouted at Suhana, but since I feel Rajni and Disha have got valid reasons to be miffed with Suhana, we shouldn't be too critic about their behaviour.. I don't think they always behave like this.

Thats my point of view... no offense to anybody's point of view..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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More than suhana R&D were miffed with elders for being partial towards suhana...but as they could not take out their frustration on them so they choose the easier target ...suhana...and this what i have problem with.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think the problem is that the elders expected too much out of Rajni and Disha.. Day in and day out they slog around the house looking after everybody's needs, and at the end of the day they don't receive any appreciation. The elders always expect them to "understand". But believe me its difficult to understand every time. It does not help matters when Suhana takes them for granted. I don't agree that she is emotionless or whatever, but she has always been taking the two for granted.. The preferential treatment towards her, whatever the reasons may be will only add to the wounds. After all this outburst was bound happen, not because Suhana does not understand their problems, but because the rest of the family including Suhana takes them for granted always expecting them to "understand"

About the timing of the whole thing, obviously it was wrong, but believe me when you reach your threshold you don't know what you are talking and where you are or who's around you.. You've just had enough, and you want to make a point..About why Disha cooled off earlier than Rajni, there were people consoling her.. Rajni was only being told off which only added to her anger.. The more you blame someone the more defensive they will become..

Its up to the elders now to restore order.. And I hate analogies when it comes to people.. Each individual is different
(Sorry for the long post)
Edited by ice.maiden - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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In my pov Suhana was not rite but she was nt wrong either. I also feel Suhana as irritatting now a days. But dat doesnt means she was wrong nd R/D were rite. Suhana just want 2 celebrate her hubby's bday. We al knw dat she was goin throug such a bad phase of life nw a days nd it was recently dat al her prblms are solved. so she just want 2 celebrate her happiness with everyone on Ishan's bday.So she can b justified. disha also can b justified since we al knw her prblm. but wot abt Rajni. What s her actual prblm. Both Rajni nd Disha said dat every one in d house cares for Suhana only. In dat case wot is Suhana's fault. Suhana can do nothin with dat. If Rajni have prblm wit dat den she better ask others for stop caring Suhana, not blaming Suhana or insulting her infront of her own father nd sis. By doin so Rajni nt ony insulted Suhana but also her father nd sister. Actually Rajni doesnt even care abt her own family's reputation infront of outsiders. May b she nd Disha r like sisters , dat doesn't gives her ny rite 2 insult nyone 4 Disha.
Then rajni said that Suhana did nothin for the house. But i remember, once suhana tried 2 cook somethin nd it was rajni who discouraged her d most. Actually dat day Rajni told Suhana 2 stop cooking nd she is ready 2 cook whatever Suhana want and now she s blaming Suhana 4 nt helpin her nd Disha. If Rajni want Suhana 2 b responsible den wot s d pint in stopin her 4rm doin household chores.
Then Badima (indirectly) blamed Suhana 4 nt understanding others prblm by peeping in2 their mind. But infact like Suhana, like others badima herself was ignorant adout Disha's prblm unless she screamed infront of everyone. If Badima herself can't understand Disha's prblm then y is she xpectin such a thin 4rm suhana.
Edited by mamathamukundan - 14 years ago

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