I think the problem is that the elders expected too much out of Rajni and Disha.. Day in and day out they slog around the house looking after everybody's needs, and at the end of the day they don't receive any appreciation. The elders always expect them to "understand". But believe me its difficult to understand every time. It does not help matters when Suhana takes them for granted. I don't agree that she is emotionless or whatever, but she has always been taking the two for granted.. The preferential treatment towards her, whatever the reasons may be will only add to the wounds. After all this outburst was bound happen, not because Suhana does not understand their problems, but because the rest of the family including Suhana takes them for granted always expecting them to "understand"
About the timing of the whole thing, obviously it was wrong, but believe me when you reach your threshold you don't know what you are talking and where you are or who's around you.. You've just had enough, and you want to make a point..About why Disha cooled off earlier than Rajni, there were people consoling her.. Rajni was only being told off which only added to her anger.. The more you blame someone the more defensive they will become..
Its up to the elders now to restore order.. And I hate analogies when it comes to people.. Each individual is different
(Sorry for the long post)
Edited by ice.maiden - 14 years ago