Was this the only choice!!!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: Garima_04

ohh ofcourse............the forgiveness shud cme wid a justification...........he actually shud struggle 2 get back panna........n most imp her trust........n the love....which hs vanished away long back...
she shud jus go away the day he comes back...........n then struggle shud begin....

yes...panna should go back the day raunak comes back...

I seriously love the Panna track. Hats of to the creatives in showing this side of society, while the kashyaps are at the other end of the stick. Please creatives, don't rush through this track through any pressure. Let it run its course. Hope you will be showing the trials and tribulations of Panna, and the strength of a woman who has to go through this in real life. Show how Panna will derive from the inner strength which she has learnt from her mother. And even in reality, more often than not, the situation ends up trumps, and guess this one on reel will too. For now creatives, i doff my hat to you.

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

very good points febs...let me see how i can disagree...😆

raunak...was he trying to understand the situation...he was spending too much money...and he never once listened to what panna was saying to control his expenses...if raunak has the guts to go against his mother and marry panna...why not make her understand the financial situation....???

panna has been harsh....but she has been very patient earlier...but that did not work...so she is trying it this way...this also did not work....i really dont know what raunak was waiting for....he would have known that for any company a person has to go through stages...but he is not ready to understand that....to the point where u said he has not seen crisis in life...not he has one...he has to face it right???he has his family support...nobody discouraged him...nobody questioned him...only when there was no try or any adjustment made...panna started telling about him staying at home....i would still say...raunak was not trying to understand the situation...i would blame him 97% and 2.9% MIL and just 0.1& panna....

@febs...and the biggest mistake...not accepting any of those mistakes...

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

@febs...and the biggest mistake...not accepting any of those mistakes...

Originally posted by: crysind

No Shweta... I am not saying Raunak understood situations... He never did so and thats what the beginning of his failure... Yes he did spend too much money, had credit card debts... But he never expected such jobless condition in his life.... His mother forced him to spend money so many times like before and he couldn't say no....bcz she was ignorant about his situation....

The mistakes he did after he lost his job according to me were....

1. He didn't inform his parents that he is jobless ...may be his self-respect

2. He had to spend more for his mother bcz she was ignorant

3. He couldn't make his mother understand his financial situation

4. He failed to convince his mother how much he was in need of that job in bangalore

5. He failed to take Panna's advice in good sense

There are many, but I will say these are the major ones....

ohhh yeah.........so true.......those were his biggest mistakes in life.........he never understood panna......he alwaz took her in the wrong sense...as if she ws taunting him....or making him feel low.......his self-pride...his esteem...ws way 2 much 2 accept ne failure......ne wise adice of his wife.......he shud hv made an effort 2 make his silly mom understnd the reality....whr actually he ws standing nw..............n for dat matter.........HIS DAD??!! he being sucha sensible person in tht house after panna..........didnt make his wife understnd.......wife toh chodo............nt even his son?????????????...he cud hv told him.........stopped him..........y did he keep mum???????

@garima...i think he is a failure himself...not like raunak...may be he din have a job or something bcos of which both MIL and raunak dominates him...so he always keeps quiet....but i really hope now that he stands up to his wife and put some sense into her...

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

@garima...i think he is a failure himself...not like raunak...may be he din have a job or something bcos of which both MIL and raunak dominates him...so he always keeps quiet....but i really hope now that he stands up to his wife and put some sense into her...

yeah dat is trueee......bt i think raunak atleast understnds his dad more than his wife......bt......yeah u knw.......dis wil be the tym....in admist al dis happening..his dad wil finally open up his mouth n say sumthin 2 his wife....whch wil bring bck the lost senses in her...

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

@garima...i think he is a failure himself...not like raunak...may be he din have a job or something bcos of which both MIL and raunak dominates him...so he always keeps quiet....but i really hope now that he stands up to his wife and put some sense into her...

Originally posted by: crysind

His father's character is typical high class family aged husbands' character... I think after becoming wealthy, Raunak's mom never got chance to love her husband as she used to be busy with kitty parties and functions.... "Paisa kuch bhi kar saktha hein...Rishthe bana bhi saktha hein aur bigad bhi saktha hein.."

Since now Raunak left home, I wish that this man stand with his wife, show her how to be a good human being , make her understand that "Wealth is not everything, Relationships are more important than every thing..." Now its time for Raunak's father to support his wife and stand by her...... which Raunak didn't do....

yes...now FIL has a job to do to make MIL understand the importance of relationships and importance of panna...
MIL should also learn a lot from kashyaps in terms of relationships...