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Posted: 15 years ago
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I hated today's episode, and found the entire family very hypocritical and manipulative. They made it seem as if it was okay to slap Suhana, as if that was not as abnormal. First of all, RB had no right to slap Suhana. Second, the entire family did not say anything. Badi maa, who is normally mature, left after RB instead of checking to see if Suhana is okay.

When Suhana's family came over, they were more embarrassed and concerned that they would find out, and were pretending as if everything is okay. While I understand that, it just reeked of hypocrisy. Suhana's MIL is concerned that they will not be able to meet Suhana's family's eyes if they found out about the incident - how about not being able to meet their eyes because of WHAT THEY DID, and not because of what they know? The family had the brains to be embarrassed and realize that they did something very wrong, and yet they did not care enough to apologize or say something to RB. The RB sympathy track has gone on long enough - they are so blind to their own that they are okay with injustice being done.

Then dadi and Ishaan went to Suhana's room being nice to her just to smooth over the night before's issue. And dadi spews her crap about RB having gone through a lot and bla bla. RB comes to Suhana's room and is able to meet her eyes and make an excuse that since she was angry she did something wrong. She even says that the family did nothing wrong. This is just so wrong on so many levels. RB does not give a damn about anyone except for herself. She should have apologized. Instead she spoke in a language that Suhana would understand and kind of manipulated her. It was pathetic. I lost all respect that I had for the family, and feel that a deep sense of injustice has been done to Suhana.

I cannot believe that the story has been presented in this manner. It was so humiliating for Suhana, and Ishaan can say he loves her but he did not stand up for her. This is the first time that I found the episode to be extremely superficial. Time and time again, the serial shows Suhana as stupid and completely brainless, even though her sister is much more mature. Really, are people so brainless?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree to an extent with you. I do not like Ishaan as much or at all maybe now. However, I''ll come back later when I'm free to share my opinion
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Although I agree with you to some extent, I feel it is too soon to make a conclusion yet. Today's episode seemed that way but we need to wait until tomorrow to see more conversation between RB and Suhana.

Yes, dadi came to Suhana's room with Ishaan to smooth things off. But that's buzurg of the family do. To dada-dadi, RB and Suhana are both important and their own. They would do anything to keep them all together with harmony.

Although, we don't expect Ishaan to fight with RB or be rude to her, it is his prime responsibility to speak up when his wife is humiliated.

Let's wait and watch... 😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i couldn't have agreed more.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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My only tiff is Ishaan. No matter what the respect and love, when Suhana was not rude it was his responsibility to show Suhana her support. This "I love her" etc etc is meh b/c a wife and husband relationship is more than this romantic love-it should be affectionate love at this stage b/c he says he understands her.
Here Suhana is not wrong, and Ishaan is maha wrong. Very bad husband. Like Suhana said in one episode-Shame on you Ishaan.
It's just my opinion ji. I felt he was wrong in not giving any support to Suhana when she was not wrong in her gesture. She acts like a child but is not a child-she is a grown married woman. Ishaan understands this rishta better na? Another guy I dislike added to the list lol
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@Nach_Baliye: agree to some of your points and you have a right to your point of view. I have a different one.
Okay, suhana was slapped. it was wrong. but it was because of RB's state of mind and the extreme pressure she finds herself under. The elders in the family understand what is going on. The youngsters have grown up seeing RB being protected.
I absolutely do not think the family was being hypocritical. They are embarrassed because hitting is not something they believe in. It was something that happened in the heat of the moment and none of them actually know how to handle it. least of all ishaan. He loves suhana. See he has been understanding when she left her bhabis in a restaurant. didn't suhana deserve a slap then. none of the family members even thought of it. not even the bhabis. If I remember correctly Ishaan at the time did tell Suhana not to give the money and humiliate the bhabis more. I love the fact that Ishaan is mature enough to understand and complement all of suhanas immaturities. The family did not outright support suhana, but then, neither did they blame her. And that i feel is their biggest plus point.
Manupulations happen in all walks of life. But in this show i am glad they are done for a positive outcome. That i feel is the usp of this show. And should remain so. Humour is such a wonderful medicine, to apply and use in everyday life, isn't it??
Yes, Deepak and his feelings are quite at a loose end now and I hope they are handled as effectively by the creatives.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i agree that suhana wasn't wrong..and i am totally with her on this..but i do not agree with your post completely...

suhana wasn't at fault .. n yes i was also disappointed by ishaan..but calling him a "very bad husband" is taking things a bit too far...ishaan is a very good husband.. n he has proved that several times i guess... he understands her n he understands RB as well...n frankly what cud he have said? he told suhana that she was not wrong.. now he cudn't have gone n shouted at RB... she is like a mother to him...he was just caught in a tough situation... there are times when u just can't take sides...

yes the only place where i was disappointed by ishaan was when suhana left n he didn't follow her immediately..he shud have.. other than that i can understand ishaan's situation..not an easy one to be in...

n maybe we will get to see badi maa talking to suhana as well..
life mein kabhi kabhi aisi cheezein ho jaati hai..especially when u are a part of a big family..
thapad se bhi badhkar bahut kuch hota hai..still people move n..forgive n forget.. that's how life is n that's how it should be.. RB came to suhana... that means she knows she was wrong.. it doesn't matter how she apologized..u don't always need to make it dramatic... plus lets wait for today's epi..the scene wasn't complete....


oh n i forgot to add.. i LOVED today's episode! :D
Edited by ManaliS - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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^ Exactly! I don't understand why Ishaan isn't even allowed to have one flaw as a character, especially when Suhana has so many of them....Alright, so she wasn't wrong in this case and didn't deserve to be slapped, but the girl deffo isn't perfect either.....she has screwed up several times in the past...
Actually, the fact that he didn't seem like a knight in shining armour this time makes me like him more as a character....makes him more realistic....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I dont know about hating it but i watch SGP as a fun-loving show have a colgate smile when i watch it so each and every episode of SGP makes me ... 😍
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Posted: 15 years ago
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as for suhaana is concern on that part it was wrong to take suhaana sweet nature for grantted.......suhana wasn't wrong on her part ....

on ishan part he is a sweet boy ........but he too taken sum faida but he also told her that shewasn't wrong & from inside every one know's that suhana wasn't wrong ....
as for episode it was fun to watch cuteeee........one i loveddddd it the way suhana was so much concerb for dadaji usko uthaya nahi lol

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