Are they taking it a bit too far?? - Page 4

Originally posted by: LadyMcbeth

Yes they are! A person who is hurt, seeking revenge is usually blinded by it and tends to get carried away by wanting to hurt the offender as much as possible. It's a basic human trait. (I don't know why I keep repeating myself by saying human this ... human that ... 😆)

And in this case, the bhabhis were humiliated to the point of scary and on top of that got the scolding for something they were not responsible for. Suhana got away scott free and even did a little jig with Ishaan to celebrate her night out. So Suhana is still in her own world, not even realizing what she has done is wrong. No wonder the bhabhis are hurt and want a payback.

Ditto! I totally concur, LadyM! Well said!👏👏

Originally posted by: Armu4eva

They are trying to teach...that ...Forgiveness wont come to u in a PLATTER 😊..u hv to EARN it...n for that....u hv to REALISE ur mistake....make a Sincere EFFORT to correct it..

Very well said Tanu 👏

Although I feel like Suhana completely deserves a tit for tat, yet somewhere at the back of my mind I feel that in a perfect world they would have openly talked to Suhana about their displeasure. May be even scolded her outright for being so irresponsible. *sigh* Lekin aisa toh hone se raha ... if it were a perfect world, people would resolve their differences openly and move on instead of letting their wounds fester.

Originally posted by: LadyMcbeth

Very well said Tanu 👏

Although I feel like Suhana completely deserves a tit for tat, yet somewhere at the back of my mind I feel that in a perfect world they would have openly talked to Suhana about their displeasure. May be even scolded her outright for being so irresponsible. *sigh* Lekin aisa toh hone se raha ... if it were a perfect world, people would resolve their differences openly and move on instead of letting their wounds fester.

Would that have cured Suhana's irresponsible behavior -- permanently. There are very few who think from others perspective until and unless they undergo the same experience. She understands the loss of others because she also has experienced a loss.

Originally posted by: LadyMcbeth

Very well said Tanu 👏

Although I feel like Suhana completely deserves a tit for tat, yet somewhere at the back of my mind I feel that in a perfect world they would have openly talked to Suhana about their displeasure. May be even scolded her outright for being so irresponsible. *sigh* Lekin aisa toh hone se raha ... if it were a perfect world, people would resolve their differences openly and move on instead of letting their wounds fester.

In a perfect world, a character like Suhana won't EXIST to begin with given HOW dense she is.....she doesn't leave scope for 'opely talking things out' anymore....that just does NOT get across to her, yaar.....we are beyond that point now😆😆.....openly talking things out try kar chuke hain log....doesn't work on her....she deserves this treatment right now.


@Tanu: Very well said.....I totally concur👏👏

Originally posted by: shounak-rijul1

Elesh or Inder told R&D thatSuhana isnt also aware that they are ignoring her....So just to make Suhana aware that R&D are ignoring her...they are doing such things like...pushing away plate,stopping everyone to talk to her,etc...i guess R&D are doing this to say Suhana...arre dekho hum tum par ghussa hain.....knowing that Suhana is a bit 🤪....😆😆....

You rightly pointed out

Originally posted by: LadyMcbeth

Very well said Tanu 👏

Although I feel like Suhana completely deserves a tit for tat, yet somewhere at the back of my mind I feel that in a perfect world they would have openly talked to Suhana about their displeasure. May be even scolded her outright for being so irresponsible. *sigh* Lekin aisa toh hone se raha ... if it were a perfect world, people would resolve their differences openly and move on instead of letting their wounds fester.

Originally posted by: an12345678

Would that have cured Suhana's irresponsible behavior -- permanently. There are very few who think from others perspective until and unless they undergo the same experience. She understands the loss of others because she also has experienced a loss.

Probably .... probably not. We will never know, shall we? I am a big proponent of open and honest communications. Given that Suhana has a clean heart, their forthrightness may have at least gotten her thinking. Maybe after telling her the reason for their displeasure, they could've boycotted her. I don't know yet how this cold war is going to make Suhana realize her mistake. Maybe Ishaan will have to drill it into her thick skull.

Anu - Agree. In a perfect world, there wouldn't be a dense person like Suhana to begin with 😆 People are usually perceptive of what's going on around them. She toh doesn't even realize that they are ignoring her until they take extreme measures 😆

Originally posted by: LadyMcbeth

Probably .... probably not. We will never know, shall we? I am a big proponent of open and honest communications. Given that Suhana has a clean heart, their forthrightness may have at least gotten her thinking. Maybe after telling her the reason for their displeasure, they could've boycotted her. I don't know yet how this cold war is going to make Suhana realize her mistake. Maybe Ishaan will have to drill it into her thick skull.

Same here. But, in this show the open and honest tube light conversation led to the restaurant and then we all know what happened. But, the sweet talk by Badi Ma also stopped the breaking of glass in anger in Kashyap's house. So, as you said "probably .... probably not."

Even a doctor gives a bitter pill to drive the disease away ...doctor doesn't get any pleasure out of it...he/she has pateint's well being his their mind. Sometimes parents do/behave harshly with their children...again it's becoz they want the child to understand certain things. Often they are at pain to see the child suffer but they know it's a lesson a child must learn so they have to keep their emotions away and think about the good that will come out their behavior/treament will eventually benefit their child. R & D are doing the same thing.....I know it is sad but then this is the only way Suhana will perhaps learn and understand how irresponsible her behavior was..............

So in nutshell, some times it is good to think disappassionately and do what is in the best interest of the person .......we do it becoz we care.....R &D are doing it not just to get sadistic pleasure out of it but also for the long term benefit of Suhana and the entire family............