HI,
well as far as my opinion is concerned inder and elesh loves their family as inder said these minute things happenes in family life but these are not so big that they ruin teh peace of family,
as far as inder is concerned he has always given so much value and imp to his family's happiness and for this if he would go trough some trouble and pain he would bear on his own and he wont get those troubles to his family mates probably this is because of teh fact he has suffered so much in his life and and at that point of time his family stud with them so thats why he vales his family at anything else even at his wife's happiness.
its not like that he doesnt care about his wife he do care ashe said he believes that suhana was wrong but at this he wont create some prob between him and his family mates that will lead to spoil teh enviornment of house.
regarding Elesh well he is a kind of guy who know one thing since he doenst work and his family supprted him so much so he too cares for them and doesnt want to create some problems at such minute usse.
for both of teh men teh issues are not so big that they start fighting with their brother. its just a matter of preference.
like they inder said you have to sort out this thing on ur own
and to be very honest suhana is just ignorant of the fact its not that she is a bad goril its just she doesnt know she has done some mistake one she get to know she'll realise her mistake
when a person doesnt know teh difference between right or wrong how can u prove him criminal obvously u would give him / her some advantage since he was innocent.
i would say this time D and R have to make her realise and when suhana will get to know teh right and wrong there wont be any chances to mistakes afterwards.
sorry for such long post :)