Question.......

Hello SGP fans....... Lot of people might b annoyed with me but i have a question.

Why disha & rajni's husbands and other family members stand by them? They have been with the family in all good & worst time.

Suhana did it out of immaturity doesn't change the fact that D & R had 2 go through all that. Not that there should b a bomb blast in the house but y inder & elesh cant stand by their wives? Its abt their honor. Like ISHAN, they r part of family 2.

I think that even if it is D & R 's fault, as a part of family, others should be on their side rather than just ignoring the problem and letting D & R feeling so insulted.

What is their place in the house if badi ma keeps telling them 2 forgive her? Y cant they start changing suhana? The time given to her is useless if she just doesn't starts understanding. It wasnt their fault that suhana married Ishan without seeing his photo and all that.


Sorry if i hurt any1's feelings........ Would appriciate comments & reply.

dont worry..no one will be annoyed with you...first of all..you have a great point...here are my views...

Hi....... Thanks 4 d reply. I think u r ri8. I m just being li'l 2 much upset abt the fact that even if Disha & rajni didnt do anything & they r furious with suhana, all the family members r favoring suhana. Disha & Rajni r alone in time like this.......... I still feel some 1 should support them............. Or they r waiting 4 something more serious 2 happen b4 they can act............

yeah agreed... but one thing i would like to say is that,,, suhana did a grave mistake of whatever it is immaturity or irresponsible but rajni and disha should make her understand and shud try to change her as possible otherwise suhaana will never come to know abt her mistakes.. still she feels its nothing big....!!!

That's exactly my point is.......... Instead of just forgiving her just like that, they should start working on putting some sense into her...... I m eager 2 c badi maa's reaction. But it would be disappointing if she tells rajni & disha 2 forgive suhana again without making them realize that she cares 4 them 2..........

Just that family members love Disha & Rajni 2............

Originally posted by: gunjabhy

That's exactly my point is.......... Instead of just forgiving her just like that, they should start working on putting some sense into her...... I m eager 2 c badi maa's reaction. But it would be disappointing if she tells rajni & disha 2 forgive suhana again without making them realize that she cares 4 them 2..........

Just that family members love Disha & Rajni 2............

Good post, thought provoking too, as Shonuk said , wait and watch , so I trust him and will wait ( as I dont have a choice) and watch. But to be honest , some people take more time to realize there mistakes may be out of ignorance or arogance, luckily Suhana is not arrogant she has no idea about real human feelings , as she was surrounded by superficial characters around her apart from her sister and Dad.
Badi Maa knows how to handle her as she said it " DIL KI BOHAT AACHI HAI BAS TODI NADAAN HAI< BALKAI TODHI ZIYADA NADAAN HAI" , so Nadaaan logoon ko fix karanai kai lyee you need patients and tactics to make them realize in there own time and you have to reach there level of understanding, just by scolding her would make the matter worst , but by making her realize her mistakes perhaps sometimes putting her into same situation would do a better job then just by telling her off.

@gunjabhy

Originally posted by: laxmi_s

@gunjabhy

Hi dear.... lovely posting..👏.. read earlier...but could reply now only.... all have beautifully posted their thoughts..😛.. so nothing much from my side except some tit-bits....😉

Firstly I appreciate Rajni-Disha's concern and affection for Suhana as they waited for her though it was her mistake of putting them into odd situation in the restaurant and also told her to ger draped back into saree while returning ....also hid the fact that it was her mistake for the delay.... here their maturity in them took this decision of not telling it to the kashyap parivaar and messing up the issue..👍🏼... so kudos to their concern....👏

But sadly the fact that they hid from the parivaar...😔. misled the members to misunderstand them and were blamed wrongly for it..😭.. here Suhana too tried to honestly confess about her mistake but Badi maa stopped her and it never could be out that suhana was the actual person behind the issue...😆.. so on the facevalue of the issue.... Rajni -Disha were blamed as they knew the rules and norms of this parivaar.... to which Suhana is still naive.... this never meant badi maa , Rano or Alok got angry on them as they like suhana more or some sort of that.... Any parent would not think twice before scolding a child when they see their mistakes.... they would not think whether to scold or not...but that does not demean their affection ....!!

As far as Inder -Elesh r concerned.... Inder was quite clear that if he interfered and spoke to Ishaan.... it would hamper the relationships of brothers.... and relationships r fragile and has to handled delicately....👏

So i appreciate that the issue happened between the 3 and the 2 of them will handle it with the other one rather than expect other's to get involved to solve their friction..... this is the right way a thing has to be sorted out... not to involve any elder in this....😛