Suhana and Manners

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Jiya

@jiya25

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Posted: 15 years ago

Suhana keeps touting the "MANNERS' horn to ishan!! manners this manners that!!

would you call suhana well-mannered????

where are her manners??!!??! fine she didn't know that all this prep was going on in the house for her friends. but she was so non-chalant and completely uncaring of all the effort and love put into the food after she found out. she rubbished it all by saying, 'even if they were not coming u would have made the food so what's the big deal'!! and she knows that everyone watches the budget in this household......but she doesn't care for a moment before ordering all that food.....she didn't learn from her past experience.

its one thing to make a mistake, realize it and apologize....its completely another to keep making the same kind of mistakes and not learn from any!!! what are manners in high society exactly?!?!?? don't care about the effort of others? never consider if your actions have any bearing on others? never lend a helping hand? what are suhana's manners exactly????

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@allizzwell

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Posted: 15 years ago

Jiya..... i liked your thread yaar...😛.. your relating the term 'manners' with respect to the character Suhana..😆..I would not call her fully well-mannered but neither completely ill-mannered too.😳

Let me start by presenting my observations to this term with ref. to yest. episode first.....😛

1. Suhana needs to gift something to her friends and she appreciated the system of a parivaar in which Badi maa told her it is normally done that way when friends come over to meet that they r treated with gifts..😃... so this is one system she learnt and liked.... so in a way she learnt one new system of a parivaar.👍🏼..here the team showed this with an intention to show us how Suhana is learning the new ways of living of a parivaar..👏.. !

2. When her friends came over.... their image was put up in a totally brattish way... carrying their so called attitude about high living even when they visit someone else's house and leaving their manners to graze.... remember suhana was in their sangat till she got married to ishaan.... but yest. i could see she was totally different from them and not a part of their useless jokes or taunts... she was humble in her words and spoke of the members in high respect.... she did display good mannerism here..👏...which she is attaining unknowingly thru the goodness of kashyap parivaar....👍🏼

3. The scene where she ordered food from outside without even being bothered to say a word about it and her total insensitiveness towards disha and rajni's preparations for the dinner was a cold situation.... here i totally agree with u...😭. yes ...suhana presented her insensitive image as she faced this situation too for the first time..😳... that when a guest comes to a house.... arrangements r done in accordance with consultation of all members.... had she lived such a life in her house??? Nope.... so there was no question of her expecting others to cook.... she was frank and she said it to them... but yes it did hurt them and i understand their pain..😭... there is a saying Jiya..."Manners r a sensitive awareness of the feelings of others...if u have that awareness, u have good manners, no matter what fork u..." so yes.... Suhana will now be moulded with respect to this issue by Ishaan as she needs to understand the issue first to react sensitive..👍🏼.

4. Jiya... whenever Suhana made a mistake....though she hardly does it intentionally ...and once she knows it was a mistake..😲.. does n't she rectify it and apologise too?? Suhana in other episodes previously has done wonderful effects that a balm does to heal a wound..👏.. whether it was Elesh whom she striked at harshly or hurt Disha bhabhi on a wrong note or seeing thru Badi maa's solitude.... She is no more the same old brat but the maturity is seen at times when she understands the situation..... so she is drawing herself close to understanding the matters where in she will become sensitive too....! So here i disagree with your statement that she does a mistake and keeps repeating it.... she did spend on the doctor but no one told her it was wrong on her part... she did the shopping and blew the whole money and she was not shown spending heavily on shopping later.... here she did a mistake of ordering food without consulting and totally unaware of the efforts taken by the family members and i am sure this mistake too she will rectify and will not repeat again...👍🏼Falls in life should not be questioned .... as without falling we will never understand the hurt and never learn to rise....!😛

Jiya.... there is another quote on manners......"Clothes and manners do not make a man...but when he is made, they greatly improve his appearance.....!"

I would conclude saying All said and done....Suhana is a wonderful soul with some absence of manners ...yes.... agree.... and if that too added to her soul, it will just enhance her character.... ! But then does a single human exist who claims himself to be perfect....?

Edited by laxmi_s - 15 years ago

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