Being in the right company matters a lot!!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Well I am back again on a boring Sunday with another topic😛With the blessings of the gurujis of SGP forum like dewdrop,vishmewell,reguser,laxmi di,tanu di,LadyM etc and getting inspiration from their thought provoking posts,here I am with my new post for today😃

As the title of my post suggests,Is being in the right company that important?For me yes,it is absolutely important to be in the right company of people and this has been shwon very well in SGP as well..

Since this is SGP forum,I would try to bring in my points in support of this topic by taking the example of our very own charachters of SGP especially Suhana.😊

OK...So from the initial episodes we have been seeing how spoilt Suhana is.I am not saying she doesn't have any respect fro anyone n all but she is so outspoken that she says things at the wrong place and wrong time.But we have also seen how caring and well manered are the Bajpais too..So its obvious that Suhana might have not got this habit from her family...So from whom did she get this?Is it Suli n Sudi??Yup..IMO,Suhana all though these years was in the wrong company of her so called friends Suli-Sudi and Sid,the so called up market brats who have no manners,no respect and neither do they know how to crticize someone or something in a civilized manner..Remember Suli-Sudi's first reaction in seeing the Kashyap Household???How Downmarket!! and even Sid while seeing Ishaan terms him as a namoona!!...Well this shows however rich and established a person may be....it is the charachter of a person which matters the most at the end of the day..So back to my topic...
Ya so we have seen how actually Suli-Sudi n Sid are....and Suhana has always been in their company all through these years...so maybe Suhana is like this just because of the wrong company she had lived with all through these years..

OK..now let us go to the post marriage scenario....In the Kashyap Household....Suhana living in a joint family in not so exciting Chawri Bazaar(acc to Suhana)...Yup...the Kashyaps are a middle class family...cannot match to the standards of Suhana as yet...but the love,the attachment,the affection,values,ideals,the family where people are so close knit with each other is really priceless ..After marriage,in whatever manner may be,we have seen some change in Suhana..whether it is the love of badi ma,care of the bahus and dada-dadi or unintentional love by Ishaan...Suhana has it all in her Sasural..and due to this Suhana now knows how to care for someone(dadaji),loves to share things with people(the fashion parade of the Kashyap bahus)and knows the real meaning of love for a family(acc to the recent promo of SGP)..

So we can see that how by being in the right company of people can change a person completely..In SGP the right company is the sasural of Suhana who have atleast tried to change Suhana in someway or the other....So IMO,being in the right company of people really matters a lot...


This was just my viewpoint on this topic😊Do let me know what you people think😉Appreciation,brickbats,criticism..all are welcome..coz it will help me to improve myself😃Anyways I hope I have kept this post short n sweet unlike my previous post on Indian parivaar😆😆
Do let me know your views and please let me know whether I have missed some points to add😃



Take care😃

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Shishya..... hum sab gurujano ki chathrachaya mein rahoge toh aise hi awesome thread pe thread post karthe rahoge..🤣...aur safaltha ki seediyaan chadthe javoge..... !
Just kidding yaar...😛.... shaunak..😉... your thread is truly superb.... wonderful and very very relevant to our SGP...👏..!
Suhana's upbringing has been of a pampering type and she has been habituated to the kind of demands that she has been served with....! even in her friends circle as it has been shown... the friends r equally immature and have been of the same kind as her.... so no better wise thoughts from that aspect too.....
With life proceeding without much hurdles, it has been a heaven for her.... till she has been challenged to prove she is a marraige material.... she is dwindling now in different circumstances, new people and new lifestyle... here the people she meets are totally different than she has met in her life..... Though her dad has been showering the affection on her, it was more of comforts in her house that has been pleasing to her eye.... here in the Kashyap parivaar, what is coming to the fore is the affection and the togetherness..... so in this company and with the experiences in her life...... she will truly emerge a better person...😛..!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Arre guruma...aap aa gayi...bas aapka hi wait kar raha tha...hope mujhe aapse full marks mile😳😆Btw laxmi di...first ur topics were so thought provoking and now ur replies are equally thought provoking😃👏
Edited by shounak-rijul1 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shounak-rijul1

Arre guruma...aap aa gayi...bas aapka hi wait kar raha tha...hope mujhe aapse full marks mile😳😆Btw laxmi di...first ur topics were so thought provoking and now ur replies are equally thought provoking😃👏

Arrey.... hamare Shishya ko full number hi praptha hoga....⭐️ aur nahin toh kya.....😆.
Waise hum apni tareef mein kya kahe..Embarrassed....Sab SGP ki MAYA aur CHAYA hai Shishya......!!!!🤣....🤣..🤣..🤣..🤣
Edited by laxmi_s - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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wonderful post yaar Shounak......
and its 100% right.....
it is the right company that matters....
I have seen this in my real life....
my tauji's beti (she was bought up in rich atmosphere where as me asd the rest of tauji's betis and betas are brought up in middle class atmosphere)was very good and caring at her childhood, she used to love me alot...
but now, coz of her mates, she have changed completely and transformed herself....
I was shocked then......but now.... I got to adjust with her mannerism
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Arreh wah....hamare.. IF ke ishaanji........sabhi ko ...aapna guru bana liya...... 'Jeete raho... jeete raho' 😛

And..a very nice topic..for i totally agree...coz truly....one can identify a person from the company he/she keeps.....and indeed.. the right kind of company can do wonders...
Just like..haaki has very nicely given an example...a simple loving person..can transform into a complete....arrogant and selfish being..coz of what he/she sees around themselves..
Woh kehte hain..na... 'Jaisi sangat..waisi rangat'
Here in suhanas case..she has firstly always been pampered by her dad and then..keeping.. fickle..arrogant and bratty friends like suli and sudi and b.f as selfish as Sid... she herself became all of it...!! Ofcourse she has always had a large heart but somewhere that got subdued due to her more dominant.. arrogant self..
Now Cut to post marriage..n a simple ..loving ..caring and sharing Kashyap parivar..has started to unravel Suhanas true self..and she is slowly but surely becoming a sweet person herself
Gr8 topic dear... n btw.. aab jub...humlogon ko guru bana hi diya hai to zara 'Dakshina' ka bhi intezam karo.... what say folks?? 😉
Edited by Armu4eva - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Arrey mere dusri guruma bhi aa gayi.....aap sab mujhe aise hi inspire kate rahiye...and always remember...kaam karo fal ki chinta mat karo😆😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hey, shounak..!

very nice post yaar....n i must say u have bcum a SAINT... 😆juzz kidding.... waise it is gud to think on a serious topic like dis....everything u wrote is absolutely true...n i completely agree wid u... aur han my impression on u has completely changed after reading dis post of urs...not in a bad way btw... 🤣
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@rijul -
Guru MA 😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲 .....Ek baar.. tumhe.. Ishaan ji kya keh diya...tumne to hum sabko... Badi MA ...err Guru MA bana diya.. 😡
Iski saza milegi.... barabar milegi.......😉
🤣
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Armu4eva

@rijul -

Guru MA 😲 .....Ek baar.. tumhe.. Ishaan ji kya keh diya...tumne to hum sabko... Badi MA ...err Guru MA bana diya.. 😡
Iski saza milegi.... barabar milegi.......😉
🤣



😆😆I can imagine the sazaa now😆😆
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