Why did Badi Maa handle the situation like that? - Page 3

Suhana should have taken a peek at Ishaan's picture before agreeing to marry him. Its her own fault if she is in this situation

Originally posted by: suresh555

More than Badi Maa, I blame Suhana's father for all this mess. Why does he not stand up to his spoilt daughter and make her realise that she must adjust with her in-laws. When Suhana has been throwing tantrums and ignoring him, he should have shown her that he is the father and she is the child. I think Bajpai has transfered his problems in Ishaan's household and is not doing anything about it.

The 2nd person to blame is Ishaan. He has to stop being a nice guy and stand up to his arrogant scatterbrained wifey. Show her the door if she does not stop her tantrums

But I'm not talking about the larger picture here....about why the marriage and how the marriage happened in the first place.....I'm talking of that immediate scene with the AC issue....Badi Maa has previously handled many situations more calmly and wisely, that is why I raised this point this time.

And I don't think Ishaan always plays nice guy...he does stand up to Suhana from time to time.....like after the muh dikhaai ceremony when he scolds her after he finds out the reason why she got married to him..

The whole point of this show is not to show ppl the door the moment there are issues or conflicts....it's about how they resolve those conflicts and evolve as characters....that makes for an interesting story.

agree completely..I thought the same thing after watching the episode!

Originally posted by: suresh555

More than Badi Maa, I blame Suhana's father for all this mess. Why does he not stand up to his spoilt daughter and make her realise that she must adjust with her in-laws. When Suhana has been throwing tantrums and ignoring him, he should have shown her that he is the father and she is the child. I think Bajpai has transfered his problems in Ishaan's household and is not doing anything about it.

The 2nd person to blame is Ishaan. He has to stop being a nice guy and stand up to his arrogant scatterbrained wifey. Show her the door if she does not stop her tantrums

😲😲 that's harsh buddy!! 😲😲
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Originally posted by: suresh555

Suhana should have taken a peek at Ishaan's picture before agreeing to marry him. Its her own fault if she is in this situation

👍🏼 that's right... she just wants to prove she is a marriage material... so she just had to get married no matter who it was... 😆

btw, welcome to SGP suresh!!! 😳

I think she allowed AC in Suhana's room beacuse she knows the reality of Suhana-Ishan relationship and she wants to get it work at any cost.

Originally posted by: nureat01

I was honestly surprised to see the way Badi Maa handled the AC situation in Suhana's room....so far in the show, she has usually been the wisest, most mature person who always knows how to handle a situation in just the right manner....but today that was not the case at all. Granted that it wasn't right of Disha-Rajni etc. to all just camp out in Suhana's room like that but the way Badi Maa scolded them kinda sternly and a bit harshly and shooed them out of the room wasn't exactly the right way to handle the situation either.

Friction and differences are bound to happen in a large family like this but Badi Maa's handling of the situation ironically ended up creating more issues....Rajni and Disha were quite hurt....

I wonder if the fact that Badi Maa now knows that all is not well with the Suhana-Ishaan marriage was the reason that she was a little harsh about this AC situation.....maybe she feels the need to do more things to make Suhana comfortable? But is it really fair to the two daughter in laws of this house? I felt bad for Rajni and Disha....this could surely have been handled in a more prudent manner.

The AC issue has already kind of segregated b/w the new bahu and the older bahus of the house....if not handled properly, this issue will surely create rifts. I wonder how they will handle it from here on.

Originally posted by: Jiah.Angel

It came to me a shock too. She's been handling everything quite wisely so far but this time she ended up shouting! 😲 But I guess, in the coming episodes, we'd certainly come to know the real reason behind it.

i guess this time badi maa and suhaana changed their roles......... as inspite of being irritated suhana did'nt said anything rude or shouted at any one (which she thinks is her birth right🤣) on the other hand badi maa who is so calm and composed shouted at every one................................................lagta hai suhaana ki atma badi ma mein cali gaye............ab ram bachaye kasyap privar ko🤣.

I think the reaction Badi Maa gave was very humane ji. She is afterall a human being first, and then something else. We stress out under pressure, some faster than others. Badi Maa keeps her dukh to herself, but that does not mean she is not dukhi. She has seen the fate of her marriage, and wants to avoid Ishaan from feeling the pain. Yes, how she told off Dishu and Rajni was wrong but I feel it was under stress. Har ek cheez ki ek hadh hoti, aur Badi Maa may have gotten close to this hadh.