Why did Badi Maa handle the situation like that?

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AreYaar

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Posted: 15 years ago

I was honestly surprised to see the way Badi Maa handled the AC situation in Suhana's room....so far in the show, she has usually been the wisest, most mature person who always knows how to handle a situation in just the right manner....but today that was not the case at all. Granted that it wasn't right of Disha-Rajni etc. to all just camp out in Suhana's room like that but the way Badi Maa scolded them kinda sternly and a bit harshly and shooed them out of the room wasn't exactly the right way to handle the situation either.

Friction and differences are bound to happen in a large family like this but Badi Maa's handling of the situation ironically ended up creating more issues....Rajni and Disha were quite hurt....

I wonder if the fact that Badi Maa now knows that all is not well with the Suhana-Ishaan marriage was the reason that she was a little harsh about this AC situation.....maybe she feels the need to do more things to make Suhana comfortable? But is it really fair to the two daughter in laws of this house? I felt bad for Rajni and Disha....this could surely have been handled in a more prudent manner.

The AC issue has already kind of segregated b/w the new bahu and the older bahus of the house....if not handled properly, this issue will surely create rifts. I wonder how they will handle it from here on.

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amotlymileo

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Posted: 15 years ago

I completely agree with you nureat...Kashyap house has been one where all the members are treated equally thats why i found the gatting an AC for Suhaana's room thing quite out of place...maybe if they have got another AC for Dada-dadi's room as Alok suggested or even fitted an AC in their drawing room that would have been more fairer for the other two daughter in laws of the family although them getting one for everyone's room would have been the best...but thats not possible.... Also a thing that i found strange about Badi ma is that she said that Rajni has also come from a wealthy family but she has adjusted in the house without the AC...so why can't they give time to Suhaana to adjust... This being partial towards Suhaana is going to create problems in the family in the future specially between the DILs

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Posted: 15 years ago

completely agree with you..even i was suprised the way Badi maa reacted to it..she is more mature..and handles the situation very well..but this was suprising..but as u said maybe she was trying to make suhana more comfortable..but felt really bad for disha and Rajni

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: amotlymileo
I completely agree with you nureat...Kashyap house has been one where all the members are treated equally thats why i found the gatting an AC for Suhaana's room thing quite out of place...maybe if they have got another AC for Dada-dadi's room as Alok suggested or even fitted an AC in their drawing room that would have been more fairer for the other two daughter in laws of the family although them getting one for everyone's room would have been the best...but thats not possible.... Also a thing that i found strange about Badi ma is that she said that Rajni has also come from a wealthy family but she has adjusted in the house without the AC...so why can't they give time to Suhaana to adjust... This being partial towards Suhaana is going to create problems in the family in the future specially between the DILs

I guess what they meant by this is that rajani comes from a well to do family i mean upper middle class but suhanaa came from super rich background that is why baad maa said "suhaana hum sab se alaag hai yeh to saach hai".

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amotlymileo

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: 111192

I guess what they meant by this is that rajani comes from a well to do family i mean upper middle class but suhanaa came from super rich background that is why baad maa said "suhaana hum sab se alaag hai yeh to saach hai".

i remember that in one of the episodes when Panna was teaching others how to operate it...it was said that there is an AC in every room in her house

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Ambrosia

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Posted: 15 years ago

Maybe what badi ma did was not the right way to handle the situation but her reaction was quite predictable if you ask me after the strange behavior of Rajni and Disha. They had been living in that house for years and mind you *without an air conditioner* and none had any complains before hand, suddenly all of them are acting like they will die without the AC. Out of the blue the temperature in the Kashyap household is going above the boiling point how so? By camping around the AC like that, the bahus are making it obvious that so far they had been leading a miserable life in that house. Now is it not a shame for the elders like Radha Bua who had faith that her daughter-in-laws were actually happy with whatever they could provide over the years?

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luv07prida

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Posted: 15 years ago

soo true

agree with u dear

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111192

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: amotlymileo

i remember that in one of the episodes when Panna was teaching others how to operate it...it was said that there is an AC in every room in her house

as far as i know baadi maa just said rajni also has an AC at her mayaka and not that every room in rajani's mayaka has an AC........................had this been case kasyap's would not say it again and again for suhana that they should bring AC for her as she has been born and brought up in luxurious way.

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Taiyo

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Posted: 15 years ago

@Anu: It was completely wrong and she should have handled the whole situation more carefully. They are also daughter-in-laws and not kids. In Ishaan's family, everyone assumes and that I think is a dangerous trend. As soon as the newness factor dissolves, there will be less understanding towards Suhana.

Barging in someone's room. It's quite different at Ishaan's place, where everyone enters and leaves without permission. In summer, we all look for the coolest room to relax.

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AreYaar

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: amotlymileo
I completely agree with you nureat...Kashyap house has been one where all the members are treated equally thats why i found the gatting an AC for Suhaana's room thing quite out of place...maybe if they have got another AC for Dada-dadi's room as Alok suggested or even fitted an AC in their drawing room that would have been more fairer for the other two daughter in laws of the family although them getting one for everyone's room would have been the best...but thats not possible.... Also a thing that i found strange about Badi ma is that she said that Rajni has also come from a wealthy family but she has adjusted in the house without the AC...so why can't they give time to Suhaana to adjust... This being partial towards Suhaana is going to create problems in the family in the future specially between the DILs

I guess the AC was brought in cuz Rano is the kind of saas/mom who worries constantly about her children....she isn't always very wise/prudent about the larger picture.....this is why Alok and Badi Maa both had reservations about the AC being brought in....Alok expressed his fears more clearly but Badi Maa didn't say much....however her expressions showed that she also didn't think it was the right thing to just bring in an AC for one room....but she agreed to it cuz everyone kept mentioning how it would make Suhana more comfortable and happy....and the whole situation with Ishaan's marriage already had her worried....so she went ahead with it I guess.

That being said, Badi Maa still shouldn't have been so harsh to Disha-Rajni...they too are the daughter in laws of this house who have adjusted to the things in the house which may not necessarily be as comfortable as their own maternal homes....It's not wrong to try to make a new daughter in law comfortable but not at the cost of hurting the daughter in laws already present....that too such loving ones like Disha-Rajni....yes they go overboard sometimes with some things but they are all good hearted.....this action of Badi Maa's hurt them....

It's interesting though that Elesh didn't really feel bad at all😆...and not even Ishika as much😆.....I guess it does make a difference that Disha-Rajni are the daughter-in-laws...so the situation should have been handled more prudently when it came to them especially.

I have a feeling though that this situation will also be resolved in the typical sweet SGP manner....maybe in a way by Suhana unwittingly😆

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