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Posted: 15 years ago
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I'd seriously have to say no. A jobless man that just stays at home? *sigh* Maybe if he did even a little work outside the home then sure...But just nothing? That seriously doesn't work out for me.
In the show, sure there are others working in the family, but shouldn't Elesh think to help and contribute a little? I think that he should.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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noo i would in fact make sure he gets a job before i get married to him.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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There's no prob if a man is jobless and a woman wors like Disha is working here and Elesh isn't but then the man is supposed to do all the work a woman would've done if she was staying at home If Elesh would've been an industrious man at home helping Ragini, Badi Maa, Ishaan's mom and Radha Bua in household chores, then it would've been funny but Elesh would've been justified

But his laziness makes me get irritated all the more 😡
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Name for elesh..............sukha hua paetoo
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Interesting topic!
Personally, I would not approve of a man who prefers sitting at home swatting flies. More than the fact that he is sitting idle is the fact that he has no goal, aim or aspiration in life. And even after so many taunts he does not seem to understand. Loved the one line by Disha where she said she wants to live in the house with pride. Inder, Alok, Ishaan all work & manage the household. Alok and Inder are even sacrificing promotions in order to take care of the family....doesn't it cause Eelesh to feel any shame seeing them doing so much for the family & him not even contributing 1% towards anything. Either he is still extremely immature to understand all this or he is just really shameless. And its not like he's sitting at home and doing anything useful, the guy is just loafing off his wife and others. He honestly needs to grow up and realise his responsibilities, his attitude is pretty worrisome at the moment.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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how does he manage his daily needs?even if he has to buy new shoes or something he needs,he has to beg from his wife/family?forget his self respect,he doesnt seem to care about his wife either..cant even buy her a decent gift.doesnt this guy ever feel like a parasite,living off his brothers?and its not that he isnt able to find interviews or anything,but he doesnt seem to want to stick to his job.

although,personally,this is exactly the kind of guy im looking for😉....how fun would it be when i work and he takes care of the kids ,does the dishes and cleans the house!🤣
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Posted: 15 years ago
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After watching todays episode I am really convinced that Elesh is not improving. He is going to remain lazy all his life. He is not bothered about his job and self respect is probably the last thing on his mind. 😆 I can't believe that people like him even exists. It's so unreal! Honestly his presence is annoying a little now.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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No I don't approve! If the woman of the house have to wear the pants instead of her guy, then it is a shame indeed.

Believe me, I am not some old fashioned nut who thinks that girls belong at home, while men earn the bread. I believe in equality. It's a good thing that Disha is working. But it is a bad thing that Disha is working because Elesh isn't. It is a shame that she's working because she wants to live in the Kashyap household with dignity to make up for her husband's joblessness. Elesh is cute and funny. But his seemingly immature behaviour, truly is a bone of contention in my mind.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Frankly it bothers me.. not because he is a dude and he should work.. because he has to make a place in the family for himself too..

I feel what you do professionally makes your identity.. Even home managers have goals.. schedules and todo lists that is their profession.

He needs to do it for Disha and more so for himself! My heart went out to her when Elesh threw the dialogue about giving Suhana's saris to Disha.. for a hard working person if anyone would say that .. it hurts deeply.. but she brushed it off later!!! IF I were Disha.. I would give Elesh a huge RB!!!

I am sure there is something big that might happen that will make him look for a job.

Wake up Elesh!

Edited by -Veena- - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ambrosia

After watching todays episode I am really convinced that Elesh is not improving. He is going to remain lazy all his life. He is not bothered about his job and self respect is probably the last thing on his mind. 😆 I can't believe that people like him even exists. It's so unreal! Honestly his presence is annoying a little now.

oh my dear thr is an exact example from my own family. this guy doesnt have a job his wife has 3 jobs (im not exagerating) and his children have jobs after school😡 shameless man

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