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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: KK84

In the current environment and recent incidence if SP takes this route sach mein I will stop watching SP because on moral grounds this will be so wrong. Here there are people doing morchaas on rape and on the other hand the channel just to make money is showing the sheer brutality of it.
Whats left is for Saras to be decorating their suhaag raat bed!


Very good point, Kat. Especially with all the rise in women-related atrocities in India, they will have people demanding for their heads...That is why I'm thinking, because there is no way they can justify it as a 'mutual consent' thing when Pramad is drunk and enraged at Kumud, so maybe it will not happen. Maybe Saras will save the day. I know it is too much to hope that SP would go the further mile by sending a positive social message with this track whereby Pramad is made an example of. Because it will not be a "suhaag raat" when he has accused Kumud of being characterless in front of all... The Kumudsundari we know will not stand for this. She will not submit at any cost..
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Posted: 11 years ago
anyway hum kyu apne dimaag ka kachumbar bana rahe hain. I am convinced that the blog is just an FF!
Though I wouldnt be surprised if SP are thinking along the same lines!
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Arshics


Yes, Kumud saying no, not just to him, but to all, his and her family too is what is needed.

Keeping quite and hiding mahanta is very dangerous for a society like India, Ivy.

That's why I hate pramaad sudhar so much

That's why I hate pramaad touted as Kanha so much, infact it makes my blood boil

The man is fundamentally weak and bad

He has no respect for anyone,

No achievements, no struggles, just a wastrel

He is abusive and an alcoholic


To position him has someone misunderstood and in need of TLC - very very wrong social message, because that is the normal advice Indian women are given.

They are pressurized to stay on in bad marriages in the name of Sanskar and maryada and izzat

A responsible media would educate them to talk about, get help, make the family aware and do not let the abusers get away with it

So to portray him as a poor misguided boy and Kumud as the heroine for hiding the abuse - very incorrect message


It's really sad Arshi... SP will be playing with fire esp with the current rise of women brutality in India. And that too on such a slot. Reform Pramad Mission is outright repugnant on every moral, ethical and medical reasons. Outta curiousity, has SP ever given this sort of a 'reprehensible' message before? The more I think about it, I have a feeling Saras will intervene. The situation is poised as such that he will have too, otherwise a line etched in granite will be crossed.

Bold: Now THAT would be truly Nayi Soch and get SP some much needed goodwill.


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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: IdiotViewer

yeah I dont think she would put up with it Ivy and I think SP would be concious of this esp since at the awards they highly focused on women rights and how women should not put up with all the atyaachaar by men.
and I think they badly are using SC to show this but they have gone around it completey the wrong way. Their thoughts are:
Show the woman stand up to a drunk man and change him vs a woman who sits there and cries at her misfortune.
Show a woman who will not tolerate her man sleeping around by defying the mistress vs a woman who sits there and cries at her misfortune.
The sad thing however is that they have not realised that this is already expected. Even in previous times, many women have fought for their rights as a wife instead of sitting there idle and accepting it as their destiny but the difference in aaj ki ladki is that she will fight against the social norms...so instead of 'ooh let me change my pati' she would be realistic and have the courage to walk out of a shambles marriage.
Asides this, also be realistic about her feelings. Only because she is married, her love for her true love has suddenly died. Realistically, they wouldve shown that women too like men can have feelings for other people...sometimes people get married and then they fall out of love...they couldve handled this really respectfully and how for the right reasons kumud does walk out of this relationship because she loves someone else.

Very good point, Kat. Especially with all the rise in women-related atrocities in India, they will have people demanding for their heads...That is why I'm thinking, because there is no way they can justify it as a 'mutual consent' thing when Pramad is drunk and enraged at Kumud, so maybe it will not happen. Maybe Saras will save the day. I know it is too much to hope that SP would go the further mile by sending a positive social message with this track whereby Pramad is made an example of. Because it will not be a "suhaag raat" when he has accused Kumud of being characterless in front of all... The Kumudsundari we know will not stand for this. She will not submit at any cost..

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: IdiotViewer


Arshi, IF consummation happens it will be with a fully drunk and enraged Pramad, as per spoilers. I was about to bring that up, then I saw your post. I'm hitting a wall right now, haven't slept in about twenty-four hours so let's wait for Hgg bhai or someone else from our able Team to re-interpret it. But the thought of both a drunk and enraged Pramad, when/if it happens is just not sitting right with me

cannot recollect the entire scene ...

1) but was it related to consummation or more generic?...as in I am the same kumud now as the one who left after she had absorbed the shock ...i.e. a clear headed, strong types and not an emotionally shattered one...
2) If related to consummation...she could have meant same state post marriage..so just her status ...not really clarifying if she was ready or not..
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: hotdogg

cannot recollect the entire scene ...

1) but was it related to consummation or more generic?...as in I am the same kumud now as the one who left after she had absorbed the shock ...i.e. a clear headed, strong types and not an emotionally shattered one...
2) If related to consummation...she could have meant same state post marriage..so just her status ...not really clarifying if she was ready or not..

Well 1 - it was not generic, it was confiding in Dugba about the reality of her marriage

2 - I felt it was about marriage not getting consummated, I am not sure, so I am going to see it again now, before commenting
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Posted: 11 years ago
Hgg bhai... In dire need of your oracle awesomeness... Because everything aside, if these spoilers are legit, we are in for something really disturbing. So any predictions, please 😳
As per spoiler, Pramad is both drunk and enraged when he demands Kumud consummates. Before that, he has also defamed Kumud, fought with his father and Alak, and been bashed by Navin after he insults Kumud's character. So then there is "payback" on his mind. What will Kumudsundari do?
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: IdiotViewer


Question Arshi,

Obviously if Kumud backs off in disgust and fear and he forces her it will... But what if Kumud submits to a drunk and enraged Pramad will it still count as MR?

Do you think Saras will intervene and save? Remember he has broken the kasam now... 😕

Guys...think like SP...
If it happens..
1) either Pramad will fall asleep without doing anything and not remember what happened the previous night...(I have never been able to understand how can a guy forget if he was awake enough to do the act!)...but our not to reason why
2) MIL / Alak will come in the nick of time and save kumud...
3) In either case...the next day...pramaad will feel awkward...and / or jealous...which will melt the heart of kumud further...
4) Then the groupie Saras will observe this and 'suggest' to FIL / MIL to send them off on a honeymoon ... both will reluctantly agree (on the surface)...but Dil Mein Ladoo Phoota!!
5) Then Kalika will throw more thalis on the ground...she will try all tricks to delay / cancel the trip
6) Lastly in desperation, she will say she is pregnant with Pramad's child! ...Major shocker and emotional scene this...
7) Then groupie will save the show...he will say the kid's his... Us raat ko..even he was drunk because he was giving Pramad company...He wanted to go to kusum's room coz he was / in a relationship ...but ended up in kalika's room...
8) AND even he was too drunk to remember who he did it with...kusum did not mention it coz you know she's a bade ghar ki ladki...so she doesn't speak about all such dirty wirty thingies...but now he's suddenly remembered...
9) Then BD sends both his sons on their honeymoons with their 'spouses'
10) Now kalika gets a hriday parivartan...and says a bird in hand is worth any in bush...groupie doesn't mind it at all...he's sort of used to being used anyway...
11) And that leaves kusum stuck alone...so she now becomes the new scheming vamp...determined to break up saras - kalika...kumud - kalika become BFFs
And we go again...
Taaliya...Kya Show Hai!!👍🏼
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: hotdogg

Guys...think like SP...
If it happens..
1) either Pramad will fall asleep and not remember what happened the previous night...(I have never been able to understand how can a guy forget if he was awake enough to do the act!)...but our not to reason why
2) MIL / Alak will come in the nick of time and save kumud...
3) In either case...the next day...pramaad will feel awkward...and / or jealous...which will melt the heart of kumud further...
4) Then the groupie Saras will observe this and 'suggest' to FIL / MIL to send them off on a honeymoon ... both will reluctantly agree (on the surface)...but Dil Le Ladoo Phoota!!
5) Then Kalika will throw more thalis on the ground...she will try all tricks to delay / cancel the trip
6) Lastly in desperation, she will say she is pregnant with Pramad's child! ...Major shocker and emotional scene this...
7) Then groupie will save the show...he will say the kid's hers... Us raat ko..even he was drunk because he was giving Pramad company...He wanted to go to kusum's room coz he was / in a relationship ...but ended up in kalika's room...
8) AND even he was too drunk to remember who he did it with...kusum did not mention it coz you know she's a bade ghar ki ladki...so she doesn't speak about all such dirty wirty thingies...but now he's suddenly remembered...
9) Then BD sends both his sons on their honeymoons with their 'spouses'
10) Now kalika gets a hriday parivartan...and says a bird in hand is worth in bush...groupie doesn't mind it at all...he's sort of used to being used anyway...
11) And that leaves kusum stuck alone...so she now becomes the new scheming vamp...determined to break up saras - kalika...
And we go again...
Taaliya...Kya Show Hai!!👍🏼


Hgg bhai... Nahin soch sakti main SP ki tarah... Koi lauta de woh pyare pyare din... Khuli chatt pe, VC ke haveli mein mil 😭



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Posted: 11 years ago
Hgg - the exact words - main jaise yahan se gayi thi waise hi hoon, unhone mujhe aaj tak biwi mana hi nahi,
The shocked expression of dukhba - another clue to what it meant.

It was talking about her status as a non wife and no con.

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