Crisp Bytes SC - 26th July 13 - Page 4

Originally posted by: smrth

Aarshi, perhaps you misread my post... I derided his 'apology' outright- look at my accompanying quote.

But I applaud the execution- sorry Hgg , I defer and differ- Saras part- his dazed yearning to reach out to her- any which way- a desperate plea- was well brought out in his voice. And then mortification of that long wish! She was not there! As this attempt deserves. I liked this script. It brought out- ' you can't 'murder' and say 'sorry'. ( quote) and look at the effect: he starts to 'understand' the 'denial'. And that's when I would start 'understand' his 'cause'.

As for Kumud's Ego!!...aah friends, you know where I am standing there! ( and the forum)😆

smrth..

agree..

just that ...I just feel this dazed, crybaby stuff has gone on for too long by saras...his 'understanding' is taking too long...in fact I am not even sure if he has even begun to understand...

Also if he has only now begun to understand the denial that's all the more sad...because it also means that all this time he was on his own trip of 'get kumud accept my apology' ...so again I,Me & Myself... even today his instinct was to run off again!

Also he is not reaching out at all...just coming & standing in front of someone is not reaching out...you need to speak out the most important thing first...he has not even said sorry...when he speaks whatever few words he goes about it in some cryptic general statements...kumud then responds and we go off on a tangent...I just do not see the urgency in his character's script...

If you had an important thing to say...even seek forgiveness...you will say it loud and clear any chance you get...

I also do not like the continuous stalking effect these scenes have now started to feel like...I mean any scene with kumud and I expect saras to pop up ...and just stare at her with the 'soulful' face and eyelocks...the effect to me is creepy...

In comparision look at kumud...she's got the short-end of the stick..in fact no stick at all...but she's moving on / adapting in whatever way possible...

So I guess it all boils down to the treadmill effect...the agony has been going on for far too long...they have to move this to the next step if not the next level...hopefully next week will get us there.

Nandy welcome back and that too for this episode. Iss dard ki safar mein aap ka haarthik swagath hai 😉

Originally posted by: kaadal

Arshi, I have to disagree with you today. What a mind blowing episode it was. Today I have a more clear picture of Kumud's and Saras mindframe. I was a bit confused with why Saras was still around and what Kumud was trying to do.

I didn't feel Saras was playing with her feelings and thinking selfishly.His way of apology might be wrong but he had tried to talk to her. He was praying hard for her to accept it, but when he opened his eyes she was not there. I just loved that scene. His words said it all "If you had forgiven me I would have been a little relieved". He is trying to rest his guilty conscience, trying to see if he can move on knowing he has lost her forever. Yes, he was trying to find a way to move on but today he realised what he had done is beyond forgiveness and apology. "Yahi meri saza hai, Meri dee huyi takleef ke saath thum jee rahi ho, vaise hi mujhe bhi iss pachtave ke saath zindagi bar jeena hoga". He doesn't want to hurt her anymore and decides to go away but looks like Pramad's ruthless attitude towards Kumud would stop him here. I feel even if she shuns him, he will be around to help and support her.

Kumud's anger towards him is understandable.She heard his apology, understood the words but where her life is today an apology is not enough. Like she says her heart is not big enough to forgive him.If she had got a good husband she might have not been harsh still, but the life she has got is no where a happy one. She is in this hell and all because of Saras.So his apology has actually done the reverse pshycology and all the hurt she had hidden is now bursting out in anger. She has come out of her silence and moved on to the next phase, lashing her pain at him in anger.

Today I felt we had actually moved on to next phase.Both were hanging on to the pain and the blame on both sides. Saras was desperately hanging on, clinging to any word of hope that she uttered, desperately clinging to the hope that he would wake up and realise what he had thrown away and it was making him suffer. Today he has made up his mind to accept that he has lost her and his suffering is his punishment. Kumud had tried to swallow the lump in her throat when the entire world of dreams crashed around her. But as soon as she heard the apology, "Betrayal" is what she remembered. His betrayal was more hurtful than his words of apology and now the burning fire inside her is bursting to get out, screaming for an escape.She has started lashing her pain on him and he will take it all silently.

I am not even sure what to say about BD and his wife.A mother who has pampered and hidden all her son's faults and BD,he wants Kumud to bring back his son. How could he even think of shouldering such a responsibility on him and Kumuds is trying to shoulder it but with pain. Saras wants to help her but she rejects him on his face. She will hold to his betrayal and draw strength from it.Whenever she gets beaten by Pramad, she will remember Saras betrayal and would think she can do this, she is strong enough to stand alone, hurt him and face her life.

i completely agree with u!

nandy!

welcome back...

We need all the support we can get...Do catch up on the previous epis..some have been good some have been not so good...

but SLB is following the novel..so she did get married to pramad...and we are in the repentence stage right now...

your 'friend' kusum' is still around...and getting groomed to take kumud's place at the desai's...going to karkhana, making food items which kumud used to prepare...and sunny's not around...😔

Originally posted by: hotdogg

nandy!

welcome back...

We need all the support we can get...Do catch up on the previous epis..some have been good some have been not so good...

but SLB is following the novel..so she did get married to pramad...and we are in the repentence stage right now...

your 'friend' kusum' is still around...and getting groomed to take kumud's place at the desai's...going to karkhana, making food items which kumud used to prepare...and sunny's not around...😔

Arshi ...

Originally posted by: hotdogg

smrth..

agree..

just that ...I just feel this dazed, crybaby stuff has gone on for too long by saras...his 'understanding' is taking too long...in fact I am not even sure if he has even begun to understand...

Also if he has only now begun to understand the denial that's all the more sad...because it also means that all this time he was on his own trip of 'get kumud accept my apology' ...so again I,Me & Myself... even today his instinct was to run off again!

Also he is not reaching out at all...just coming & standing in front of someone is not reaching out...you need to speak out the most important thing first...he has not even said sorry...when he speaks whatever few words he goes about it in some cryptic general statements...kumud then responds and we go off on a tangent...I just do not see the urgency in his character's script...

If you had an important thing to say...even seek forgiveness...you will say it loud and clear any chance you get...

I also do not like the continuous stalking effect these scenes have now started to feel like...I mean any scene with kumud and I expect saras to pop up ...and just stare at her with the 'soulful' face and eyelocks...the effect to me is creepy...

In comparision look at kumud...she's got the short-end of the stick..in fact no stick at all...but she's moving on / adapting in whatever way possible...

So I guess it all boils down to the treadmill effect...the agony has been going on for far too long...they have to move this to the next step if not the next level...hopefully next week will get us there.

Originally posted by: hotdogg

smrth..

agree..

just that ...I just feel this dazed, crybaby stuff has gone on for too long by saras...his 'understanding' is taking too long...in fact I am not even sure if he has even begun to understand...

Also if he has only now begun to understand the denial that's all the more sad...because it also means that all this time he was on his own trip of 'get kumud accept my apology' ...so again I,Me & Myself... even today his instinct was to run off again!

Also he is not reaching out at all...just coming & standing in front of someone is not reaching out...you need to speak out the most important thing first...he has not even said sorry...when he speaks whatever few words he goes about it in some cryptic general statements...kumud then responds and we go off on a tangent...I just do not see the urgency in his character's script...

If you had an important thing to say...even seek forgiveness...you will say it loud and clear any chance you get...

I also do not like the continuous stalking effect these scenes have now started to feel like...I mean any scene with kumud and I expect saras to pop up ...and just stare at her with the 'soulful' face and eyelocks...the effect to me is creepy...

In comparision look at kumud...she's got the short-end of the stick..in fact no stick at all...but she's moving on / adapting in whatever way possible...

So I guess it all boils down to the treadmill effect...the agony has been going on for far too long...they have to move this to the next step if not the next level...hopefully next week will get us there.

mindblowing post nd the poetry just killed me...more than the epi i lyk ur post...keep rocking girl

personally I feel he won't even try to apologize to her anymore. He is just going to take what ever she is going to throw at him. He seems to have accepted this as his punishment and prayaschit as far as I can see. I may be wrong but looks like next week we might get a more clear picture.

kadaal, again agree with u! asking for apology is very small as compared to the situation she is in, partly because of saras and partly because of the hasty decision of her father to marry her off without thinking of the consequences! now as u said he will not apologize but take what she throws at him and torture himself with the pain she is going through..after all they r one spiritually, if one is hurt how can the other live in peace!