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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: -CuteChic-


Yess u did missed alot.. Kumud and Saras did had PMS.. 🤢


I know that. I said on and off not that I didn't.

And and the close mindedness here is baffling.

It's sex, not a crime. (If you guys are underaged then scratch that last line)
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: -B.N.K-



excuse me ... i was talking about a fictional character and u r talking to a real person and literally attacking her ... what is that makes u


Tony...chillax...

Leave it...she never even knew about PMS...aur kya..discussion karegi usse...



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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Rockerchic


I know that. I said on and off not that I didn't.

And and the close mindedness here is baffling.

It's sex, not a crime. (If you guys are underaged then scratch that last line)


meri broad-minded friend,

we r discussing here about kumud..and her virtue, family background...

spare us...think from her standpoint...


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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: -B.N.K-



excuse me ... she was talking about a fictional character and u r talking to a real person and literally attacking her ... what is that makes u


😆

Attack ?

Oh my. That was not the purpose. It was a reference to the state of affairs. The post is narrow minded.

Who am I to judge anyone?
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Rockerchic

What a backward mentality.


No it's not cheating.

No she's not impure. The most bogus and pathetic word any one can use and it's such a pity that women are using words like this against other women. No wonder India is regressive.

How is she cheating on him? Did she have sex with Saras while in a relationship? How is this cheating?


I think everyone is referring to Kumud cheating Pramad, not Saras.
She is getting married without disclosing her past to him.
While having pre-marital sex might not be a big deal in the western world, in India, its taken for granted, that a girl will only give her virginity to her husband. This is certainly not my pov, but simply stating a well-known fact of life in Indian Societies!
Yes, while I agree that such a view is very outdated and orthodox...point is that the show is set in such a backdrop...in a very small town / village of Gujrat, where a traditional girl from a traditional family is getting married into another similar traditional family.
And in this context, not disclosing her past to her would be husband is equivalent to cheating on him.
Yes, it sounds very old-fashioned and contrived...but it is also quite realistic. This is how our society functions...or atleast this is the idea we get when he see the how the Desai's live. They are exactly the kind of people who would expect their would-be daughter-in-law to be chaste and pure or whatever (i.e. a virgin)! Then what is there to say that the family Kumud is getting married into wouldn't expect the same?
Kumud could not hold the guilt of having pre-marital sex from her mother...yet, she gives no thought to the fact that her husband to be might also have some views on the subject? He might also have an opinon...no matter how regressive...still, he would like to have a choice on whether he wants to marry such a girl or not?
Why Kumud, who is otherwise, the very epitome of righteousness and integrity, overlook this important fact?
Either the creatives show modernity in every aspect of the story, or they stick to the norms...on the one hand they show that Kumud is pretty much daddy's little girl, who is willing to get married to anyone he suggests...and yet, she is bold enough to sleep with her lover right under the noses of her parents.
What does an audience make out of this?
PS: Kumud is not at all impure in my view...she is just plain foolish and has too much of an ego!
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: lakhy


Tony...chillax...

Leave it...she never even knew about PMS...aur kya..discussion karegi usse...




I did.

And you guys didn't even know what I was talking I about.

I said unless Kumud has sex while in a relationship it's not cheating. Meaning that she had sex before she marries. Therefore not cheating.

Please do look into a dictionary on what cheating is.

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Rockerchic


😆

Attack ?

Oh my. That was not the purpose. It was a reference to the state of affairs. The post is narrow minded.

Who am I to judge anyone?


yes...kumud herself was worried that PMS was a PAAP...so we r thinking from her standpoint and in a family like her PMS is not welcome...(not saying crime...its just not entertained by many girls).

even though if its out of love...agreed...she had it with the man she loved...but again...she is not marrying that man...watever the circumstances...

here we are discussing how she is never even guilty about it and just goes on with marrying another person...even how her mom knowing the truth is not even guilty about...it...


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Posted: 12 years ago
kumud can become pregnant the first time she has sex with pramad. 😕
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Rockerchic


I did.

And you guys didn't even know what I was talking I about.

I said unless Kumud has sex while in a relationship it's not cheating. Meaning that she had sex before she marries. Therefore not cheating.

Please do look into a dictionary on what cheating is.




lee ... now i have to have sex before marriage ..

i did not know that before marriage having sex with some other dude and the hiding the truth is not cheating ...meaning i get the free pass now i have to bas ..

thank god buddy u told me ...i cant tell you how grateful i m 😭😭😭😭😭😭

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Posted: 12 years ago
Byeee lakhy nd tony.. Cya later 🤗🤗

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