Dont blame Saras - Page 2

Originally posted by: P020167

yes he is emotionally shaken...but does not give him any right to break Kumud and her family. Running away from a problem is not a solution to the problem. He only had her love and he lost everything today..so is a loser. It was Kumud who brought him out of the shell. Kumud fell in love with him and not his name. He is emotionally shattered and can't think straight...I get that...but how is that tied up with his marriage. If he needs time..agree..he should have that space and time...but now next week he will realize what he did and come running to RN for Kumud. Seriously...what a flip flop!! I would have expected him to open his heart in front of Kumud, cry in front of her...at the end she was her love!!!

Originally posted by: zzoombie

poor guy took just a day to realise his mistake and what he said to her in his anguish
he reached RG on the wedding day
and today they say just two days are left
is it too much asking for 2 days to wait for someone ( or go to Dubai) who you truely madly and deeply love.
if your tell ur parents that u wont eat anything coz you are mad...will they leave you and dont serve you food ?
but here Kumud instead of helping him out of his sorrow taking his words literally when he is not in sane condition...and reacting in sorrow...both are making decisions emotionally...
he could open his heart to Kumud for sure but who is giving him that opportunity 😡
he will be attacked by Umesh when about to reach on time...thats not his fault too...🤢
he will try everything to get his love back once in his senses but ..shadi to nahi ruk sakti na...pandal ke paise jo kharach kiye hai..waste hi jayege.😡

Originally posted by: -bornalee-

but here Kumud instead of helping him out of his sorrow taking his words literally when he is not in sane condition

@bold she did try anju?? didnot she😳

Originally posted by: zzoombie

do you listen to your loved ones when angry and dejected beyond words
i dont for sure 🥱 but when i am cooled down i realise what all wrong i said that time and then review whole situation with calm mind and react suitably😕
that what we all do...dont we...then why cant Saras...😆😆

Originally posted by: -X-x-X-

And so you absolve Saras of all blame and instead nitpick at Kumud's reaction, that she didn't act maturely? I can't help but think like always Saras expects Kumud to do the dirty job. First break the news that he rejected her via a letter and now tell everyone that he's called off the wedding via a phone call? That man is clearly pathetic. Yes his mental state isn't the best right now but rejecting that woman who heard your cries and supported you throughout? Her cries did little to shake him, what the fish?! Sorry but to me his actions are nothing but cowardly!

The ideal option would be to call his Vidya kaka and speak to him rather than ditch them all with their reputation at stake!

Originally posted by: zzoombie

Saraswatichandra is not an idiot ,neither a coward nor a cheater.
no doubt he was hesitant to make relations in his life but Kumud broke that ice long time back...he fall madly and deeply in love...treated badima as his mom..cared for Kumari as his sister and respected everyone in the family as well as the villagers...

How can you judge a person when he is most disturbed emotionally.
today everyone is accusing Saras for cheating/leaving/abandoning Kumud but he is the same Saras who had the guts to come to Ratnagiri after saying no to marriage...he had the courage to take Yash,s mistake on himself and do paschatap...he a millionaire himself, sold pots to pay off Ila behen money rather than using his credit card..he jumped in pond to save a child...he stayed back so he can get back Kumud and her fathers relation back to normal...he saved Kumari from that jerk..and last but not the least he proposed Kumud in front of whole gathering so he can get her honour back which had gone with his refusal .

tell me honestly have you ever seen a guy who is so pure and simple at heart. now do me a favour...take off your shoes and wear his.
tell me now ?
what would you have done if u had seen ur mother comitting suicide when you were just an innocent child...ignored and manipulated by ur step-mother..distanced by ur father and after a brief encounter with LOVE and LIFE again thrown back in that misery pot and tagged as bhagora and taunted for being accepted in society just coz of the family name ...

i am sure sensitive ones will behave the same way ...even worst...
its just that he needs time to come out of all this...remember time is a great healer...i felt Kumud should have reacted more maturely after the conversation...he clearly stated that he is not vyas anymore not capable of making any relations which clearly depicts he had an argument with his dad...didnt badima and Kumud knew how things/relations worked in the past..dont u think a disturbed man needs sometime to cooldown and then problems talked about for solutions...

when Kumud can waste her few months on this man to introduce him to himself and love...then why cant she wait few days to let things and agony settle down ..Sunny did what she should have done... and why cant VC talk to LN about all this...marriages are not settled or called off on phones...they require explanation and discussions...
stupid idea of her to marry on the same day...if saras is to be blamed..Kumud is also equally irrational...not complimenting each other...
ek seer doosra sawa seer.
but Saraswatichandra is not an IDIOT for sure😭 he is just one of us 😭

Originally posted by: mandygill

very well said completely agree with u👏..yaar sabka dil toota hai isliye aise reactions, otherwise all iz well!