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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: littles12



Thank The Lord that someone finally agrees with me! I have said it in every comment of mine while defending Saras nd I'm doing it again hes not wrong!Everyone is really upset about this track!
But I'm like really excited for it! Lol! I love samud as much as all of u!
Saras is having a natural outburst after faceoff with LN and Gumaan..how can a guy go ahead and marry after discovering his moms murderer and renouncing family...
i love Samud too
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But then again there is no love without fight nd there is no value of love with out separation! I'm just gonna keep saying that!
U penned down such lovely lines!
First of all great post! Always look forward to them! I loved the way u described the situation. But don't u think that kumud herself practically dragged herself nd Saras in to this relationship because from day 1 she had considered him as her husband! 👏👏 bulls eye👏 👏 extra ordinary things need extra care and handling...Ergo would not make sense if kumud actually gives him support nd vice versa because in the beginning he tried to distant them both but she was the one who took the first step in diluting the distance! However I feel kumud should not blame Saras in any way! She knows how traumatic devastating nd vulunerable his life has been! But then again she is unaware of his situation!
he said he is not Vyas anymore and cant marry her..releasing her from marriage...hasnt this happened before...cant she take hint...she is intelligent yaar..i am sure if this scene was shown before all other scenes..all forum members must have guessed it instantly that Gumaan ka kiya dhara hai 😡
Honestly I am not mad at what Saras did at all!
i am not mad as well after all its the main story ...the highlighted part
So if Saras went along nd did get married to kumud do u not think he would be able to give her the happiness she deserves in all aspects?
Do u think he will be able to fight for her from Guamans nasty insults nd recommendations! So called! here i think if they get married at this point, then nothing else mattered..both being pillar of strength to each other
Do u think he will ba able to then forgive himself when he finally recovers nd it's too late?
No he won't be able to do any! Because right now he's thinking of what his father did nd the consequences!
After Saras Is related to his father right
He has the same blood as his father running down his veins
Yes he has inherited more of his mothers trait genetically nd character wise!
But he's a man nd he's doubting himself!
He's afraid that he might so the same to kumud! He fears even if he marries her he wont be able to give her the happiness he deserves which will lead to her leaving him
he doesnt relate himself to his father, rather he consider himself jinxed and thinks that he can only give sorrow to Kumud 😭 😭
He is not ready for another someone who is incredibly close to his heart leave him again!
I mean what child goes through an traumatic experience of their mother committing suicide nd leaving the child at such a young age! At the age of four or five a child is finally walking nd talking! What makes it even worse is that he was there he witnessed his mother go away from deep in that water nd she never came back!
A lot of people are pissed at Saras but I mean come on guys give him a break!
Right now if kumud really loves him then instead of being mad at him she should be there for him but the only problem is she is unaware!
Share his pain and tell him it's okay! Everything will be okay!
Dubai is just 4 hrs from Gujrat..atleast go and find out whats happening there
He's once again that 4 year old child who needs love nd warth nd comfort!
Before kumud had barged into his life he was still that 4 year old child but in a grown body!
He still held those incomplete spots in his hearts that could only be filled with love!
Yes he tried for years but no one came all that had come to him was his father not even bothering bout him
Nd his step mom being too engrossed with her nasty self!
But let me tell one thing when Saras come out of it nd realizes what he has done unintentionally he will come nd get his love back
thats what i am banging my head on..wait to ki hoti...itna he pyaar tha ki ek phone call main disconnect ho gaya ...pyaar karne wali to sari zindagi intezaar main guzar dete hai 😡😭
He will explain beg tell kumud that it wasn't her fault forget that it wasn't his fault either!
No one in this kind of situation would be Able to think straight!
He will come stronger then before nd kill everything that comes his way!
I can't for that day! honestly i can see Saras rise and strong from Kumuds wedding onwards..he is the character to watch now. wrote the same thing in shanas post! I'm just literally start to copy paste my answers cause I say the same thing over nd over again! Sorry for such a long answer!



zainab thanks for agreeing on the post
atleast some ppl dont mix real life with fiction 😉



Edited by zzoombie - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: -bornalee-

yeah u have a point too😆


but see he rejected her just b4 their marriage,n its not first time..its his second time,asked her to forget him,forget all those kasme vaade..
its quite natural kumud will feel dejected,she gave everything means evrything to him,her mind,body(for some ppl one night stand may b normal thing but not for kumud n not for me too,so this fact is bothering me a lot) soul, r u still expecting her to help him??..n the above theory of urs applies to kumud too,right😉



Bonu meri jaan
he never rejected her..rejected being in relationship.
she dragged him and make secure but he is vulnerable right now.
she should realise what his mental state was , few months back.
jaan u have to work on relationships.
have faith on Saras ..he is a wonderful character 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: zzoombie



Bonu meri jaan
he never rejected her..rejected being in relationship.
she dragged him and make secure but he is vulnerable right now.
she should realise what his mental state was , few months back.
jaan u have to work on relationships.
have faith on Saras ..he is a wonderful character 😃

IF SARAS was vulnerable tat time so was kumud..it was not easy for her to accept d fact either..u cant blame her..saras jo feel kar raha hei wohi kumud bhi..so u cant question her y u didnot wait n blah blah..n saras..i knw he is a wonderfull character but..i cant trust him..lol
the boy who can refuse to marry you just 2 days be4 ur marriage..how can i trust him😆

ab jane de..neither u will understand my point nor i ill understand urs..so its better we dont discuss about it😃
Edited by -bornalee- - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -bornalee-

IF SARAS was vulnerable tat time so was kumud..it was not easy for her to accept d fact either..u cant blame her..saras jo feel kar raha hei wohi kumud bhi..so u cant question her y u didnot wait n blah blah..n saras..i knw he is a wonderfull character but..i cant trust him..lol
the boy who can refuse to marry you just 2 days be4 ur marriage..how can i trust him😆

ab jane de..neither u will understand my point nor i ill understand urs..so its better we dont discuss about it😃



Okay mam jaisa aap kahen
but i never said Saras is innocent...there is equal and opposite action and reaction
and the result is .." Satyanaash "

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: zzoombie



Okay mam jaisa aap kahen
but i never said Saras is innocent...there is equal and opposite action and reaction
and the result is .." Satyanaash "

yeah "SATYANASH" perfect word for yesterday's event😆😆😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i love saras but even i thought he was wrong yesturday
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: khanrocks

i love saras but even i thought he was wrong yesturday



i am short of words now
but will wait for the day when you will realise his state of mind and cry with him..

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: zzoombie

Saraswatichandra is not an idiot ,neither a coward nor a cheater.
no doubt he was hesitant to make relations in his life but Kumud broke that ice long time back...he fall madly and deeply in love...treated badima as his mom..cared for Kumari as his sister and respected everyone in the family as well as the villagers...

How can you judge a person when he is most disturbed emotionally.
today everyone is accusing Saras for cheating/leaving/abandoning Kumud but he is the same Saras who had the guts to come to Ratnagiri after saying no to marriage...he had the courage to take Yash,s mistake on himself and do paschatap...he a millionaire himself, sold pots to pay off Ila behen money rather than using his credit card..he jumped in pond to save a child...he stayed back so he can get back Kumud and her fathers relation back to normal...he saved Kumari from that jerk..and last but not the least he proposed Kumud in front of whole gathering so he can get her honour back which had gone with his refusal .

tell me honestly have you ever seen a guy who is so pure and simple at heart. now do me a favour...take off your shoes and wear his.
tell me now ?
what would you have done if u had seen ur mother comitting suicide when you were just an innocent child...ignored and manipulated by ur step-mother..distanced by ur father and after a brief encounter with LOVE and LIFE again thrown back in that misery pot and tagged as bhagora and taunted for being accepted in society just coz of the family name ...

i am sure sensitive ones will behave the same way ...even worst...
its just that he needs time to come out of all this...remember time is a great healer...i felt Kumud should have reacted more maturely after the conversation...he clearly stated that he is not vyas anymore not capable of making any relations which clearly depicts he had an argument with his dad...didnt badima and Kumud knew how things/relations worked in the past..dont u think a disturbed man needs sometime to cooldown and then problems talked about for solutions...

when Kumud can waste her few months on this man to introduce him to himself and love...then why cant she wait few days to let things and agony settle down ..Sunny did what she should have done... and why cant VC talk to LN about all this...marriages are not settled or called off on phones...they require explanation and discussions...
stupid idea of her to marry on the same day...if saras is to be blamed..Kumud is also equally irrational...not complimenting each other...
ek seer doosra sawa seer.
but Saraswatichandra is not an IDIOT for sure😭 he is just one of us 😭



100/100 for this post Anu...



Yes...Saras is not an Idiot nor a cheater nor a coward...

(I am just rephrasing wat I hav said in another post...)

I think now that both of them understand each other's feelings so well and now Kumud really knows who saras is, wat his fears and insecurities are, and above all she knows how his relationship with his father was earlier and Gumaan's true face too..

First time, the letter of rejection even without seeing her...and now this phone call rejection...Kumud needs to think...certainly there is something bothering him and has led him to take this decision...

But...family izzat..sitting in the mandap...rejected..etc etc... rona dhona forces her to the marriage...but beyond everything...can't Kumud say..."If not saras...I wont marry anyone..."?

Saras calls off the marriage...and Kumud shud think...wat wud be the reason..the whole day she hadn't been getting his calls and now this...so naturally she must assume something is wrong and she knows Gumaan very well too and how she is desperate to stop this marriage and might hav a big role in it...(again...we hav today's epi to see...wat saras says exactly...)

but now ..wat i feel is.Kumud knows saras in and out and which things scare him and push him to the edge..definitely..something related to his mom. kumud knows when saras is reckless or when he is depressed, he goes into his own shell...and no one knows it better than kumud...

Saras doesnt reject her because he hates her...he does it only because he feels he doesnt want to hurt her more and he thinks relationships doesn't work out for him.. it was kumud who made him understand the value of relationships and love...and so now again if Saras is on the same road...Kumud shud sense something is wrong and forcing him to take this decision...its not overnight..he hates her or found another girl.so that he calls off the marriage...

Kumud shud wait...I think she is brave enough and mature enough to voice her opinion..and say "I hav to talk to saras in person and I dont want this marriage before then."

Just they can't make a call and call off the marraige...both LN and Saras...

VC and Dukba clearly know how much saras and kumud love each other and ache for each other...so..VC should have demanded to meet LN in person before deciding to get Kumud married off...

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: lakhy


100/100 for this post Anu...



Yes...Saras is not an Idiot nor a cheater nor a coward...

(I am just rephrasing wat I hav said in another post...)

I think now that both of them understand each other's feelings so well and now Kumud really knows who saras is, wat his fears and insecurities are, and above all she knows how his relationship with his father was earlier and Gumaan's true face too..

First time, the letter of rejection even without seeing her...and now this phone call rejection...Kumud needs to think...certainly there is something bothering him and has led him to take this decision...

But...family izzat..sitting in the mandap...rejected..etc etc... rona dhona forces her to the marriage...but beyond everything...can't Kumud say..."If not saras...I wont marry anyone..."?

Saras calls off the marriage...and Kumud shud think...wat wud be the reason..the whole day she hadn't been getting his calls and now this...so naturally she must assume something is wrong and she knows Gumaan very well too and how she is desperate to stop this marriage and might hav a big role in it...(again...we hav today's epi to see...wat saras says exactly...)

but now ..wat i feel is.Kumud knows saras in and out and which things scare him and push him to the edge..definitely..something related to his mom. kumud knows when saras is reckless or when he is depressed, he goes into his own shell...and no one knows it better than kumud...

Saras doesnt reject her because he hates her...he does it only because he feels he doesnt want to hurt her more and he thinks relationships doesn't work out for him.. it was kumud who made him understand the value of relationships and love...and so now again if Saras is on the same road...Kumud shud sense something is wrong and forcing him to take this decision...its not overnight..he hates her or found another girl.so that he calls off the marriage...

Kumud shud wait...I think she is brave enough and mature enough to voice her opinion..and say "I hav to talk to saras in person and I dont want this marriage before then."

Just they can't make a call and call off the marraige...both LN and Saras...

VC and Dukba clearly know how much saras and kumud love each other and ache for each other...so..VC should have demanded to meet LN in person before deciding to get Kumud married off...



Bang on Girl
exactly my thoughts 😆 😆
hi 5 👏 👏 ..could not have explained better...one big sensible Hug to the most sensible member on the forum...who can see whats written between the lines...
Kumud should have acted more maturely here
and where is badimas wisdom ? 😡
kya yeh marriage baccho ka Khel hai...jo saras ne kaha aur kumud ne maan liya. 😲😡
life decisions are not made on impulse...i am a little upset by Kumuds reaction as she needed to show more maturity for handling the crisis right now..but girls are girls...tears drown them in flood and their nuts and bolts get rusty and then impulsive steps..which she will repent for lifetime...
😭 😭

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: zzoombie



Bang on Girl
exactly my thoughts 😆 😆
hi 5 👏 👏 ..could not have explained better...one big sensible Hug to the most sensible member on the forum...who can see whats written between the lines...
Kumud should have acted more maturely here
and where is badimas wisdom ? 😡
kya yeh marriage baccho ka Khel hai...jo saras ne kaha aur kumud ne maan liya. 😲😡
life decisions are not made on impulse...i am a little upset by Kumuds reaction as she needed to show more maturity for handling the crisis right now..but girls are girls...tears drown them in flood and their nuts and bolts get rusty and then impulsive steps..which she will repent for lifetime...
😭 😭


Yet...we hav Monday's epi to watch and see how LN is gonna expose things and what he talks to VC.. (hope this time..they show what is discussed unlike the letter issue...)

I am not taking Saras' side and leaving Kumud alone..The poor girl is going through too much at this time...All she had known is love and love only from her family..and the love of her life..dumps her at the final moment...Its rude and hurtful...but..I think this is where how much they understand and know each other comes into play.

Kumud knows..what Saras' mom is for him and how even a single childhood memory takes him back to the dark well. It was Kumud who waited for him outside the room till he was ready to come out on his own. Saras is not intentionally doing this emotional breakdown crap..but that is saraswathichandra...who has been deprived of love for his entire life...until he met Kumud.

Yes ! Kumud is in pain, the insult again to her family, to her dad, specifically which she values much. but after all these promises and oath and vows..and after Saras had disowned his father's name...shouldn't Kumud think something is wrong ?

And always there was a red alert from Gumaan to Kumud regarding the marriage..So naturally Kumud should hav known that something is wrong and hav to know wat is it..

yet...again..we hav to wait for Monday's epi where Saras is gonna regret wat he told and is gonna come and see her...

I wish Kumud had not hurried her..I know her father respect is at stake...but Dukbaa and VC who always gloat about Kumud's happiness..should hav had a second thought before proceeding with the marriage...

Just my take...now ur turn Anu...😊




Edited by lakhy - 12 years ago

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