tum to apne aap se bhagte ho...

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Kumud's dialogue to Saras in last episode. Very apt to describe the character on whole.👍🏼

Let's take a look at Saras in sense of relationships he had in life. It is obvious Saras had very strong bond with with his mother. As a child, his world revolved around only her. But he lost her, which he saw as she left him. Later he again saw mother figure in Dukba. But when they went to Dubai, he lost her. Again as per his convo, he did not want to go and asked Desai kaka to not let him go. Again he felt rejected. His step mother, she obviously didn't care and clearly rejected him.

Due to such constant rejection in life, as he said "Maine akele rehna sikh liya he" and "wo pas aane se darta he". Deep inside still little boy craves for love from his mother, pure & genuine care. But given all that took place in his life, makes sense that he is afraid to be hurt and rejected again. As a child such an individual somewhere develops thinking that something is wrong with me. That is why we see him hurting himself every now and then any time someone is harsh to him or rejects him. So makes sense that he doesn't want to get married. Not just due to religious reason alone or that he wants to serve those in need, but this fear.

He is afraid to put himself out there, he has kept himself locked to himself & doesn't share his feelings due to this fear.
HIs unexplained bond with Kumud, jankar of payal has major role in it. He remembered his mother coming to him followed by the voice. So whenever Kumud comes near him, unknowingly he goes back in that state. State where he received unconditional and pure love. That is why he closes his eyes, to fully experience that moment. but once he opens his eyes, reality hits him and he moves back. So he is running away from his true self.

The character is very well written and I must commend writers for this👏 I hope makers exploit this conflict to full potential. GR has sure improved from 1st episode and I wish he continues on the path as character truly has such depth.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Spot on Jay 👍🏼 Lets start with GR first. The guy has improved a lot in acting. Today he was too good compared to his first episode 👏.
His childhood experiences are haunting him and has made him go in a caccoon of his own. The only person he looked at his own was his father and unfortunately he too can not understand his emotions. Gumaan ka kya kahena. She has manipulated both baap and beta badly😡.

SC is so lost in his own duniya that he is now afraid to bring any new relation back to his life. Since whoever he loved has somehow left him. Some by fate other due to circumstances. The guy with golden heart has gone through so much in his early life that now when he has a chance to make his life better he does not want to take a chance.

For sure the characters are great. Goverdhanram Tripathi has done a great job in writing and so has the team of SLB 👏 👏 👏.

Today the only thing that came to my mind watching the show was:

Beetee hui yaadonke sahare jina seekha hain mene
Per kya yeh jeena bhi koi jeena hain yeh na jana hain mene
Kaheneko to bahut hain apne is duniya mein
Magar dil ki baat kare kisse yeh jan na paya mein
Geronse kya kare shikayat, Jab daman bhigaya khud apnone.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: BHAVII

Spot on Jay 👍🏼 Lets start with GR first. The guy has improved a lot in acting. Today he was too good compared to his first episode 👏. he sure has

His childhood experiences are haunting him and has made him go in a caccoon of his own. The only person he looked at his own was his father and unfortunately he too can not understand his emotions. no one can really understand him at this point
Gumaan ka kya kahena. She has manipulated both baap and beta badly😡.

SC is so lost in his own duniya that he is now afraid to bring any new relation back to his life. Since whoever he loved has somehow left him. Some by fate other due to circumstances. The guy with golden heart has gone through so much in his early life that now when he has a chance to make his life better he does not want to take a chance. indeed he has heart of gold, hence ready to give back. But too afraid to take anything in with fear it will go away like relations in his past. Those that were pure and genuine to be exact

For sure the characters are great. Goverdhanram Tripathi has done a great job in writing and so has the team of SLB 👏 👏 👏 must commend the character and so far SLB team is doing good job👏

Today the only thing that came to my mind watching the show was: very apt

Beetee hui yaadonke sahare jina seekha hain mene
Per kya yeh jeena bhi koi jeena hain yeh na jana hain mene
Kaheneko to bahut hain apne is duniya mein
Magar dil ki baat kare kisse yeh jan na paya mein
Geronse kya kare shikayat, Jab daman bhigaya khud apnone.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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However I loved to see the smile on his face today while playing with Kumari and other dude😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: BHAVII

However I loved to see the smile on his face today while playing with Kumari and other dude😃


that was good scene.
Brought back some of my memories as well😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: jay_bpm


that was good scene.
Brought back some of my memories as well😊


Mine too. We used to play with water so much there. Here even the tap water is cold 😡 and the rain water that is freezing. Can't get wet at all.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: BHAVII

Mine too. We used to play with water so much there. Here even the tap water is cold 😡 and the rain water that is freezing. Can't get wet at all.


yeap, playing in water till tank is empty than uncle and grandma running after us😆😆
I tried rain here and it sure is no fun anything, better chances of getting cold😡
Edited by jay_bpm - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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very apt dialogue for sara's character and well executed..loved today's episode!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Spot on dialogue for his state of mind and his stand on entire marriage and love thing. 👏
Agree to your point 👍🏼

A burnt child always dreads the fire. Its very much applicable here.
He is scared to walk the same path again where people have walked over his emotions.

Edited by passionalive - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Very well written and analysed.

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