Kumud needs to trust her INSTINCTS!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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While some of us are loving an egoistic female lead for a change, others aren't taking too kindly to her. But I think more than her ego, being overly judgmental about Saras has been Kumud's failing so far. Once her misunderstanding regarding him is cleared, she will feel guilty about being so harsh to him. All she needs to do is give him a chance to tell his side of the story. Her initial gut, by merely seeing his eyes, told her that Saras is an honest and simple man who hides a lot of pain within him. She just needs to trust that instinct of hers. And I think after overhearing the conversation between Saras and her father, that realisation is slowly dawning upon her. She just needs time to let it sink in. So before forming an opinion about what Kumud said today, I would want to see her reaction to this conversation tomorrow. Just so that we know if she is willing to lend Saras an ear.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Absolutely right..! Right now she is blinded with ego but she will come around..her mothers words was the much needed reality check..Her father's words of praises for Saras was something she needs to know about Saras..and finally his decision to stay back and take care of her father till he gets well..all put together will open her eyes..she will now hopefully look beyond the letter and try to understand the real Saras.. Like you said '' trust her instincts''look into those eyes and try to understand what he is going through..why he did what he did..understand and then possibly share the pain that she wanted to when she first saw them..
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Originally posted by: vaishali-AR

Absolutely right..! Right now she is blinded with ego but she will come around..her mothers words was the much needed reality check..Her father's words of praises for Saras was something she needs to know about Saras..and finally his decision to stay back and take care of her father till he gets well..all put together will open her eyes..she will now hopefully look beyond the letter and try to understand the real Saras.. Like you said '' trust her instincts''look into those eyes and try to understand what he is going through..why he did what he did..understand and then possibly share the pain that she wanted to when she first saw them..


Exactly! Kumud's ego coupled with her anger and fear of breaking her family members' hearts made her ignore the fact that Saras might have valid reasons for the letter. She read too much in between the lines. But slowly she is starting to see she's wrong. And no matter how egoistic, I'm sure she has the courage to admit she's wrong when she realises it.

Thanks for your reply (=
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Posted: 12 years ago
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ur r8t..bt wat i felt 2day is watever she said selfish,egoistic etc etc she actually didnot mean it,i mean deep down her heart she also knew tat saras wont jst leave letting his kaka to suffer more,tats y she asked kusum "kya tumhe sach mei lagta hei woh challa jayega" dis line of her clearly indicate tat she still trusts him..she is jst angry wid d fact tat he hs rejected her widout giving a proper explanation..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -bornalee-

ur r8t..bt wat i felt 2day is watever she said selfish,egoistic etc etc she actually didnot mean it,i mean deep down her heart she also knew tat saras wont jst leave letting his kaka to suffer more,tats y she asked kusum "kya tumhe sach mei lagta hei woh challa jayega" dis line of her clearly indicate tat she still trusts him..she is jst angry wid d fact tat he hs rejected her widout giving a proper explanation..


good insight..its easy to say she's wrong..coz in a way she is..but there a lot of pain, fear n hurt underneth all that .. She fell in love with those eyes...then saw his face and her heart fluttered even more..the girl is in love and now it turns out he is a good guy too..he saved her father after all..despite being perfect he can not be hers..she is hiding all that hurt with the ego, anger and pride show. :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think like someone else had said before, more than just getting "a refusal letter", the fact that the guy turned out to be like the guy in her "dream" is killing her more...she kind of knows he is nice, but she is even more angry that nothing can happen between them...the connection she felt between them would go unexplored!!! but yeah she needs to trust her instincts and I am sure she will...she already is kinda guilty!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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She has already realized that she is wrong is understanding Saras. Its actually her ego and liking towords SC which she is not able to accept or deny either.
She is fighting within herself.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thats all I need, just get to know him, thats it.
.Jane.. thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -bornalee-

ur r8t..bt wat i felt 2day is watever she said selfish,egoistic etc etc she actually didnot mean it,i mean deep down her heart she also knew tat saras wont jst leave letting his kaka to suffer more,tats y she asked kusum "kya tumhe sach mei lagta hei woh challa jayega" dis line of her clearly indicate tat she still trusts him..she is jst angry wid d fact tat he hs rejected her widout giving a proper explanation..


Kumud is basically being way too defensive for her own good. She is feeling bitter about being rejected by Saras and instead of showing how hurt she is, she is giving Saras a hard time. Deep down, she also knows Saras is not what she said him to be :D

Originally posted by: Sanju_

I think like someone else had said before, more than just getting "a refusal letter", the fact that the guy turned out to be like the guy in her "dream" is killing her more...she kind of knows he is nice, but she is even more angry that nothing can happen between them...the connection she felt between them would go unexplored!!! but yeah she needs to trust her instincts and I am sure she will...she already is kinda guilty!!


I totally agree with you. It was established that Kumud really wanted the marriage to happen and she is sad that it is not. So instead of showing she is hurt, she is acting like this whole egoistic person. It is her defensive mechanism because she doesn't like how attached she has gotten to Saras so easily.

Originally posted by: naina2010

She has already realized that she is wrong is understanding Saras. Its actually her ego and liking towords SC which she is not able to accept or deny either.

She is fighting within herself.


Exactly. She is fighting her feelings. It's not about his rejection but how much she wanted the marriage to happen for everyone's sake. But now she is slowly realising that this is not the way to deal with things.

Originally posted by: Jammy-

Thats all I need, just get to know him, thats it.


I know how you feel about it. I'm sure she'll come around😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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we just need time to analysis kumud's character and as said by her mother she definately need to understand the difference between self pride and ego...and i m 100% sure she has realised and the reason for nt letting herself belief SC was just the unconditional love for SC ...she is a g8 potrayal of character and i want to learn more about her! 👏

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