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Posted: 12 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: starasdf

@Sunshine


I am not sure who Purvi is.😕 But the reason I didn't mind that was because I was never a Mayank Gunjan fan.😆 I guess that's why it didn't bug me, but I can see why it would have bugged you, being their fan. Charu would be the worst choice lol.

But Mayank's redemption seems like its going the right way so you never know.



Sorry, Purvi is from Pavitra Rishta. She got Arjun, her would-be-groom, married to her sister in order to be "Mahan." She told Arjun, "If you love me, then you will do it!!!!" Then she got married to someone, and also blackmails him by saying, "If you love, you will do this, you will do that..." 😡 That's why I don't like those types of females! Her actions are similar to what Gunjan is doing now!
Edited by SunshineTears - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sweedy i know Mayank didn't know about all the scheming and plotting by his mom and aunt but Gunjan was his girlfriend and the love of his life so therefore Mayank should have known that Gunjan will never be up to such things he was seeing but the boy never trust the girl he wanted to spend the rest of his life with he trust his mom more than anything and didn't trust the girl he claims to love. Gunjan didn't destroy his mom jewelry to hurt anyone but when she realize that she hurt Seema she apologize to her. And to be honest if i saw my husband or boyfriend dancing with another woman i would have probably reacted like Mayank did but would have tried to know the truth before jumping to conclusions.

And dear i know exactly what it is like to marry someone you don't love or someone you didn't want to marry to. My marriage was an arranged marriage i was so broken when i got married i had no hopes that my marriage will last but there is nothing like trying, marriage is not a child's play and i'm so happy i gave my marriage a chance by trying to make it work even tho i was not in love with my husband. About a month later i started to see improvement and then i realized that we don't always get what we want in life but should be thankful for what we have. My husband is the most understanding person i have ever met cause my family never understood me. And i'm very happy now and thankful that i got a husband that loves me and puts me above anything else. You rarely find humble and committed people especially men in this time.

I'm not saying Mayank should give his marriage a chance cause i will never want my brother or any one to marry a woman like Charu she is plain evil and cunning.
But Mayank have choices he does not have to listen to Gunjan and stay married to Charu he needs to make his decision we cant blame Gunjan if Mayank wants to stay married to Charu Gunjan ask him to give his marriage a chance but she didn't tell him you have to he should decide weather he wants to or not. Gunjan is not controlling his brains Mayank is old enough to make his own decision Gunjan is only seventeen or eighteen and can make her own decision why cant a grown man like Mayank make his own decision.

I do not agreed with everything Gunjan do i for one was mad when she and Rachna pranked Vihaan and when she lied to Mayank about dancing with Vihaan i even said in a tread when the girls get exposed i will not feel sorry for them cause they were wrong to play games with someones feelings. But unfortunately Vihaan take his revenge to a different level that even cost the sisters bond. And Gunjan being like Purvi is well over the top. Gunjan did sacrifice but nothing like what Purvi did she slept with the man she claim to love before marriage and give him up like banana on their wedding day to her sister that wasn't enough so she give up her new born baby to the same sister who hates the best bone in her all in the name of sacrifices Purvi have no feelings for anyone not even her own daughter she is one of the worst female lead i have ever came across.
Edited by jonelle - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: SunshineTears



i agree! there was no point in getting Mayank married to Charu. and now when he is trying to get a divorce, Gunjan is saying that is impossible 😕 He has all the rights to get a divorce. He didn't know he was marrying Charu, and they are not happy with the marriage! I think it is definitely reasonable to get a divorce if you are not happy. If SSLK is an educational show, it would've shown divorce instead of people being sad their whole life trying to carry out the marriage 😡

Exactly, sslk was a very nice and interesting show when it started. I used to enjoy gunjun and rachna and how they teamed up against so many things.

Gunjun should allow mayank to get the divorce as its the only sane thing to do. The marriage just wont work. I used to like her and mayank little fights and emotions.

Now the show is just getting illogical by the day
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: jonelle

First of all Mayank is a spineless goat, yes he is noting but a coward who will keep making wrong choices in life. No one is stopping him from divorcing Charu if he hates her so much and cant live with her why not divorce her???Mayank had a chance to be with Gunjan forever but he chose to listen to his mom, aunt and Charu. He humiliated Gunjan in front of so many people and dumped her like garbage on their engagement day and was ready to marry Charu to show Gunjan that she is not worthy of him. Is that what we call Mayank's true love for Gunjan???


You don't dump your girlfriend on her engagement day announced that you are getting marry to someone else and on your wedding day dump your wife to be to be with your used to be girlfriend because you found out that your used to be girlfriend was set up. That's not how it works. You are the one who's supposed to try and find out if their was any misunderstanding or whatever but Mayank did nothing all he did was shove his and Charu wedding in Gunjan's face if the truth didn't came out him and Charu would have been married regardless of what the situations are.

Yes it was wrong for Gunjan to swap brides but i am happy she did cause someone had to let Mayank know that life isn't all about him. He didn't even divorce Charu but was asking Gunjan to marry him what a looser and when she didn't agreed to it he try his favorite stunt suicide yes that seems to be Mayank's only weapon cause it's not the first time. Did he even think for a sec what will every one say when Gunjan and i go home as a newly wed couple how it will affect Gunjan,Charu and the rest of the family lives??? No cause Mayank thinks of Mayank's happiness only he has no feelings for anyone else other than him self.

Trust me Mayank have to stop behaving like a despo high school kid and start acting like a grown up file for a divorce continue his studies or find a job straighten out his messed up life and then i can see him and Gunjan together other wise Gunjan and Mayank pair is dead for me.

My POV of course


I have forced myself to not to give my POV on this regards.. .. its very difficult to resist myself...
Until the current track the last thing I want to see in the SSLK is Mayank Gunjan reunion

Jonelle ...Loved every single point... 👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: SunshineTears

-ok, mayank didn't believe anything said by his mom or aunt. Mayank started doubting Gunjan when Gunjan was dancing with Vihaan by lying to him, then she destroyed his mom's jewelry, then he saw that Gunjan's friends were more important to her than him, then she wore something different on the engagement other than what she was supposed to wear (of course some of these are plots of his mother and aunt, but he had no way of knowing that!) Mayank had so many reasons to doubt Gunjan, but Gunjan just saw Mayank with Charu once, and her trust was broken instantly! Bravo 👏 Mayank tried to talk with Gunjan and clear up all misunderstandings, but Sangeeta stopped that from happening! where is Mayank's fault in this?
-I would really like to know how you would feel if you were married to someone you didn't want to marry and know is evil! Mayank did learn his lesson by not trusting Gunjan and even accepted that! The truth did come out, and it wasn't Mayank's fault that he didn't know about it before!
-Mayank knows that Gunjan loves him, so if he wants them to be together, how is that giving Gunjan sadness? Staying married to Charu, when he knows he loves Gunjan, is what giving everyone sadness! Mayank did say he wanted to divorce Charu, but Gunjan, of course, stopped him!
-Mayank tried to commit suicide because no one in the family cared about him. He tried to tell them again and again that he is not happy, but they still forced him to stay married to Charu! I don't think his family loves him at all, otherwise they wouldn't have done that to him! And if Charu was so concerned, then she wouldn't have gotten married to Mayank by using tricks on him! And about him maturing up, Mayank is trying to do everything he can, so he is not the one to blame!!
-It is not about Mayank at all! It is all about Gunjan! Who she wants to marry, who she wants Mayank to marry, what she wants Mayank to do!!!! Mayank is just a doll for Gunjan and she doesn't care about his emotions. If you say Mayank is immature, then Gunjan is nothing but a kid!
-If I had to choose between whose love is pure and real between Mayank and Gunjan, I would choose Mayank! As I said before, Gunjan only knows how to use people, nothing else!


Leave everything aside..You are justifying this loser/cowered act?????????????????????????

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: jonelle

First of all Mayank is a spineless goat, yes he is noting but a coward who will keep making wrong choices in life. No one is stopping him from divorcing Charu if he hates her so much and cant live with her why not divorce her???Mayank had a chance to be with Gunjan forever but he chose to listen to his mom, aunt and Charu. He humiliated Gunjan in front of so many people and dumped her like garbage on their engagement day and was ready to marry Charu to show Gunjan that she is not worthy of him. Is that what we call Mayank's true love for Gunjan???


You don't dump your girlfriend on her engagement day announced that you are getting marry to someone else and on your wedding day dump your wife to be to be with your used to be girlfriend because you found out that your used to be girlfriend was set up. That's not how it works. You are the one who's supposed to try and find out if their was any misunderstanding or whatever but Mayank did nothing all he did was shove his and Charu wedding in Gunjan's face if the truth didn't came out him and Charu would have been married regardless of what the situations are.

Yes it was wrong for Gunjan to swap brides but i am happy she did cause someone had to let Mayank know that life isn't all about him. He didn't even divorce Charu but was asking Gunjan to marry him what a looser and when she didn't agreed to it he try his favorite stunt suicide yes that seems to be Mayank's only weapon cause it's not the first time. Did he even think for a sec what will every one say when Gunjan and i go home as a newly wed couple how it will affect Gunjan,Charu and the rest of the family lives??? No cause Mayank thinks of Mayank's happiness only he has no feelings for anyone else other than him self.

Trust me Mayank have to stop behaving like a despo high school kid and start acting like a grown up file for a divorce continue his studies or find a job straighten out his messed up life and then i can see him and Gunjan together other wise Gunjan and Mayank pair is dead for me.

My POV of course

Well said. 👏 I don't want SSLK to show marriage as a play. I really can't understand how did everyone easily forget how Mayank behaved on his engagement day. I mean what is the difference between him and Vihaan. Even if Mayank did not have an evil plan like Vihaan, he is no saint either. Both of them broke their engagement in a dramatic manner and insulted their fiancee's. I think we should open a new thread about this...then what is the difference between two and why root for one couple so much. Atleast Vihaan was never in love with Rachana and was the first one to get hurt but Mayank was supposed to be 'in love' and still did the same.
Somehow i am unable to move on from how he insulted Gunjan on several occassions and i don't disagree that Gunjan has made mistakes. I am also going to use her age on her defense eventhough she is trying her best to act matured.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Whenever Mayank is faced with a problem, he chooses the escapist route rather than facing it like a man. Gunjan-Mayank, neither of them trusted each other. So both are at fault. I like Gunjan as a free spirited girl. But start loosing patience, when she starts imposing and starts giving gyan. There is no need for her to tell Mayank, how he should lead his life. It is "his" life, which she decided to opt out. So stick to your decision.

Edited by usrfan - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hashii


Leave everything aside..You are justifying this loser/cowered act?????????????????????????



as I said before, I am not trying to justify Mayank's suicide, I just said his family should think about him. He felt no one cared about him, that is why he did it. I am not saying it is the right thing to do. I m sorry if it seemed like that.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I haven't watched this show and lost interest because of the storyline but I came to read some of the updates and to see what is happening in the track now. I must say that you can't trick anyone to marry someone else if they wish not to be married to that person. Gunjhun did just that. Mayank thought he was getting married to Gunjhun but instead it was Charu. THAT is just not RIGHT!

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