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Posted: 12 years ago
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1. people keep saying Mayank didn't trust Gunjan; well Gunjan did the same thing and broke off the engagement after seeing Charu in his room. so Gunjan can doubt Mayank, but Mayank can't? 😕

2. If Mayank is at fault for falling in love with Gunjan when he was engaged to Charu, then Gunjan is at fault too. She also fell in love with a person who is engaged. It is wrong to blame Mayank only 😳

3. When Mayank said that he wants to marry Charu, he didn't know how evil she was. He got to know the truth on the wedding day. After knowing all these, who would want to marry that type of girl? If Gunjan didn't want to marry Mayank, she could've just said it instead of making Mayank marry Charu. That was a punishment to Mayank for no reason. Gunjan is definitely at fault!

4. When Mayank was in the hospital, she said they were going to be together this time. But as soon as Mayank gained conscious, she changed her decision. It only shows that she was just feeling guilty; and said she would be with Mayank just to make herself feel very "mahan." Gunjan is no way right doing these things 😡

5. Gunjan made Mayank get married to Charu and is now forcing Mayank to keep up with the marriage. She said, "If you love me, then you will do it," does she only know how to use people? Disgusting!!!

I am sorry, I am a huge Mayank and Gunjan fan, but I can't take it anymore. My most favorite character in the show was Gunjan, but now she is the worst character. People say she has gone through a lot and whatever she is doing is right. Well, excuse me, is it because Gunjan is the "female" lead that her actions are justified? What would you people have said if Mayank got someone married to Gunjan without her consent? Would you guys have said Mayank is totally right? I don't think so! 😳

Even though I liked Gunjan, I cannot stand her anymore! Her actions are definitely something a nice person would not do, so it is completely wrong to blame only Mayank for everything!

P.S. - if they got together, no one would be as happy as me!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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She is beginning to remind me of Purvi from Pavitra Rishta and I don't want to become like that!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: cbindia2009

She is beginning to remind me of Purvi from Pavitra Rishta and I don't want to become like that!!



exactly, she is NOT an ideal character! People should learn to not be like Gunjan! 😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Gunjan started out in a good way. she was smart, intelligent and easy going.

I just could not understand why she allow mayank to marry charu when she loves him.

I do not like the decisions that she taking now. I also do not like this stupid track with she competing with rachna. these two girls need to live good as they used to.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rayadallie

Gunjan started out in a good way. she was smart, intelligent and easy going.

I just could not understand why she allow mayank to marry charu when she loves him.

I do not like the decisions that she taking now. I also do not like this stupid track with she competing with rachna. these two girls need to live good as they used to.



i agree! there was no point in getting Mayank married to Charu. and now when he is trying to get a divorce, Gunjan is saying that is impossible 😕 He has all the rights to get a divorce. He didn't know he was marrying Charu, and they are not happy with the marriage! I think it is definitely reasonable to get a divorce if you are not happy. If SSLK is an educational show, it would've shown divorce instead of people being sad their whole life trying to carry out the marriage 😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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First of all Mayank is a spineless goat, yes he is noting but a coward who will keep making wrong choices in life. No one is stopping him from divorcing Charu if he hates her so much and cant live with her why not divorce her???Mayank had a chance to be with Gunjan forever but he chose to listen to his mom, aunt and Charu. He humiliated Gunjan in front of so many people and dumped her like garbage on their engagement day and was ready to marry Charu to show Gunjan that she is not worthy of him. Is that what we call Mayank's true love for Gunjan???

You don't dump your girlfriend on her engagement day announced that you are getting marry to someone else and on your wedding day dump your wife to be to be with your used to be girlfriend because you found out that your used to be girlfriend was set up. That's not how it works. You are the one who's supposed to try and find out if their was any misunderstanding or whatever but Mayank did nothing all he did was shove his and Charu wedding in Gunjan's face if the truth didn't came out him and Charu would have been married regardless of what the situations are.

Yes it was wrong for Gunjan to swap brides but i am happy she did cause someone had to let Mayank know that life isn't all about him. He didn't even divorce Charu but was asking Gunjan to marry him what a looser and when she didn't agreed to it he try his favorite stunt suicide yes that seems to be Mayank's only weapon cause it's not the first time. Did he even think for a sec what will every one say when Gunjan and i go home as a newly wed couple how it will affect Gunjan,Charu and the rest of the family lives??? No cause Mayank thinks of Mayank's happiness only he has no feelings for anyone else other than him self.

Trust me Mayank have to stop behaving like a despo high school kid and start acting like a grown up file for a divorce continue his studies or find a job straighten out his messed up life and then i can see him and Gunjan together other wise Gunjan and Mayank pair is dead for me.

My POV of course

Edited by jonelle - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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-ok, mayank didn't believe anything said by his mom or aunt. Mayank started doubting Gunjan when Gunjan was dancing with Vihaan by lying to him, then she destroyed his mom's jewelry, then he saw that Gunjan's friends were more important to her than him, then she wore something different on the engagement other than what she was supposed to wear (of course some of these are plots of his mother and aunt, but he had no way of knowing that!) Mayank had so many reasons to doubt Gunjan, but Gunjan just saw Mayank with Charu once, and her trust was broken instantly! Bravo 👏 Mayank tried to talk with Gunjan and clear up all misunderstandings, but Sangeeta stopped that from happening! where is Mayank's fault in this?
-I would really like to know how you would feel if you were married to someone you didn't want to marry and know is evil! Mayank did learn his lesson by not trusting Gunjan and even accepted that! The truth did come out, and it wasn't Mayank's fault that he didn't know about it before!
-Mayank knows that Gunjan loves him, so if he wants them to be together, how is that giving Gunjan sadness? Staying married to Charu, when he knows he loves Gunjan, is what giving everyone sadness! Mayank did say he wanted to divorce Charu, but Gunjan, of course, stopped him!
-Mayank tried to commit suicide because no one in the family cared about him. He tried to tell them again and again that he is not happy, but they still forced him to stay married to Charu! I don't think his family loves him at all, otherwise they wouldn't have done that to him! And if Charu was so concerned, then she wouldn't have gotten married to Mayank by using tricks on him! And about him maturing up, Mayank is trying to do everything he can, so he is not the one to blame!!
-It is not about Mayank at all! It is all about Gunjan! Who she wants to marry, who she wants Mayank to marry, what she wants Mayank to do!!!! Mayank is just a doll for Gunjan and she doesn't care about his emotions. If you say Mayank is immature, then Gunjan is nothing but a kid!
-If I had to choose between whose love is pure and real between Mayank and Gunjan, I would choose Mayank! As I said before, Gunjan only knows how to use people, nothing else!

Edited by SunshineTears - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I couldn't disagree more.

The only fault in Gunjan I find is she tolerates all that comes from Rachana and the family now and of course the bride switching thing. She had no right to do that at all.

The reason I dislike Mayank is because is not due to misunderstandings, its the disrespect he gave to Gunjan. He has no right to make such a scene on the engagement day. He was so immature and impulsive. If he wanted to sort it out he would have taken her to the side and talked instead of insulting her on the engagement day and throwing that Charu is 10 times better then her in her face.

Gunjan didn't trust him once, neither did he. Okay but insulting like that on an engagement day is hard to forget. And he didn't do it once but multiple times in public.

About the suicide thing, I will never ever justify it that. Ever. He put his life at risk, okay. But while doing that not only would Gunjan have to live a guilt ridden life and his family, his parents. What about them? They gave up their life raising their child so he can only give his life up for some girl he met a few weeks ago. What about them? Does he not love them?

To me his suicide will never be justified no matter what. Neither did he try to make the marriage work and nor did he put a real effort in breaking the marriage. Whenever he tried talking about breaking the marriage he was never calm and talking like a sensible man. Why should anyone listen if he can't make a point sensibly instead of impulsiveness and threatening. Why would anyone think he is making a decision with a clear mind if he behaves like this.

He need to think with a calm head and I will respect him then.

His character is going through redemption right now. And I know losing your is hard, I totally feel for Mayank for that. But the insults and his idiotic decision of the suicide makes it hard for me too feel that bad for him. I do believe he will soon be redeemed and then I want to see respect in his eyes for her. Then I will accept him.

Mayank wants his love back, that's great. He should pursue her but not threaten her. He should convince her but after he has sensibly talked to his family.

Maybe Gunjan is not completely innocent but neither is Mayank, in fact I think he is worse only because of his public stunts. But the CVs are working on that. So we'll see.

My POV.

-Star

P.S My bad about the loonng essay😆
Edited by starasdf - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@starasdf hehe, no problem! My posts are even longer than yours! 😆

I agree that he shouldn't have done that in the engagement. That was his fault. and also, I am not justifying his suicide attempt. I am just saying that his family members do not love him enough. I never said Mayank committing suicide was the right thing.

About the divorce issue, I think it should be completely up to Mayank and not his family. He is the one who has to go through the marriage, and it has to be his decision, not his family's, who are always stopping him.

I get very disgusted with people who say Mayank should give Charu a chance. Mayank knows very well what type of evil person Charu is, he even noticed the things Charu has been doing since they got married. Why should he stay married to this type of person? Also, this is not a marriage at all. How does a person get married to someone without knowing about it? This is completely illegal, so I don't consider Mayank and Charu married.

As I said before, Gunjan made me hate her when she said, "If you love me, you will give this marriage a chance." The marriage was her fault, and now Mayank is having to bear punishment for Gunjan's actions. Gunjan is becoming a character like Purvi who only knows to blackmail her love to do the things she wants to do. I liked both Purvi and Gunjan, but now I don't like them at all. They just know how to use Mayank/Arjun or Onir, that is it! Just because Gunjan is the female lead, it is not necessary that whatever she does is always right!
Edited by SunshineTears - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Sunshine

I am not sure who Purvi is.😕 But the reason I didn't mind that was because I was never a Mayank Gunjan fan.😆 I guess that's why it didn't bug me, but I can see why it would have bugged you, being their fan. Charu would be the worst choice lol.

But Mayank's redemption seems like its going the right way so you never know.
Edited by starasdf - 12 years ago

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