Originally posted by: shanti05
* When did u join the forum..
😆 This forum Phew..!!! Exhausted !!!😆 👍🏼🤣
Walked in on around june 15th or 18th to see reaction when the news was out that Apurva is going to be playing a role in Bidaaii and replacing Ranveer, and my my less said the better !! And finally I made a post ]Please Welcome Apurva
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/sapna-babul-ka-bidaai/1427914/please-welcome-apoorva-note-pg-5
I was surprised to see the reaction on that post !!( I was more surprised seeing the NOTE in the post...so much concern over just an line...ACTING....😉)
Jyothi I was glad you were a mod here but then i saw your favoritism has changed and seems like you have forgotten your fav was Apu once upon a time 😉so I knew mera support koi nahi hai yaha pay 😆
* Your best moments and friends in this forum
OK one of my most interesting topics!!
Forums are to come and share your experiences and have fun and enjoy !! i believe in it and stuck to it !!
i have seen someother forums where people are never accepting change and never realize what life has to offer, atleast here it was a much better but many things made me totally find it intentionally !!
Post which were made were quite hurting and seriously disgusting and was purely done to make a mockery of certain relationships.
I learnt a lot about human physiology and certain types of members who adhere to such logistics.
But i am glad that people who know what is a level of maturity understood what I had to convey and were happy to support my reason of understanding the characters which defined post leap Especially Anmol and his relationship with Ragini and rest of the family..
My friends hmmm its a long list and its growing
i cam here alone and i knew some very close friends will pop in..
Sammy Poonam and Rekha and Sharmii who love Apurva and always stood by him would never miss supporting him walked in with me..
Many more did but vanished (indcluding a Mod of this forum 😆)
I made great new friends who were actually open to understanding new relationships and the level of maturity the post leap has given the viewers
Thats a very important pahse in life i believe Move On and learn to accept changes..
Since its finally you who will one day go through..
Anjana, Sanju, bani,Sari, Smitha, Savee,Mira, Sukanya,bani, Sohani,Lisaandra,Kezia( we always have arguments but sweet ones 😊)
Prathiba, jyothi_cool,Chardrika {love you loads sweets for your analysis) Tonks611,rozy,mohenna,seared, and my list goes on..
Many of them appreciate me being on the forum and enjoy my posts and I love all of them
even people who dislike me kabhi tho zaroor mulakat phir say hogi !!
but on a note I would say I learnt a lot being on such forums and meeting people from all walks of life..
It is interesting to know different flavors of human perspective and who understand things and Many are don't accept change or given an option to do are unwilling to.
* Which was your most favorite phase of this show
Each phase had certain set of parameters set in the show..
I liked what they showed before the 7 year leap and got to know that phase of life. It had its on charm,
What interested me more was the post leap which was a lot closer to the life style many of us lead. Understanding the relationship the young parents have with their children at this fast moving world, color issue which was address earlier but how Anmol handled it so beautifully teling Tammy that it comes from their ancestors,
Anmol's bonding with the family, and his love for Ragini is so beautiful.. So unconditional and so pure..
He piratically worships her and her dedication..
In this selfish world we live in its hard to find people good people like him ..
I loved the mature love story they showed..coz i am so done with the coochoing and more of conversation and intensity in their relationship..
Anmol and ragini shared something so beautiful and their eyes spoke a lot and their understanding was more on a different level where they have to deal with a lot in their life.. Anmol's love for Ragini was just such a sweet way to keep admiring him the way he woos Ragini ..Total treat!! ragini most of teh time she was a tubelight but did click like a light blub sometimes just like the handkerchief instance and then the funny balm instant...
The good and most beautiful part of their story is their way of communicating through their eyes and beautiful wording. They had it in them and kudos to Parul who matched Apurva's skill set and rose to that level
She worked very hard and all my applauds to her !!
And her dressing style her change in the attitude for ragini who has changed over the 7 years time is fantastic ..
I am so glad RS made the right decision to cast Apurva opposite Parul she matched him totally Anmol and Ragini have been liked by many and its a positive feel that jodi can be made with any couple who make their mark well and Angini did it !!
Another highlight of teh show is Anmol's love for his daughter.. So true and beautiful..His love for his daughter melts your heart.. The most touching scene for me was when she asked him to leave and he walked out but Tammy stopped him and the satisfaction on his face was excellent..
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Who was your most favorite couple in this show
Anmol and Ragini tops my list
I liked Alkeh character from the begining of the show and more seeing is development towards a positive way post leap and later now with Saakshi's bonding as they were more like trying to amend with life
I liked the way ragini moved on in her life and gave second chances to being happy again
The main emphasis is on how people move on
For me how people make their life happier and the way it is conveyed in the show makes more touching and Anmol but all teh efforts here to make his and ragini's life as a couple so i will give all the credits to Anmol
Ragini has finally moved on and now they seem to show themselves as a couple which becomes a favourite to me 😊
* Your overall journey in this Bidaai forum
My Journey started only 5 months back😆 I am still in my journey !!!
I see that the forums are made to have people shar views and enjoy themselves, but it did'nt happen so well here😆 Most of my observations have been complainants and displeasure for the name of entertainment!!!👍🏼
I mean really I find it beyond my understanding that why this forum needs to be so cold to accept changes and move on..
Life tragedy deaths rebirth and all types of calamities is a part of life and thats what is shown in serials and movies,, Sometime somewhere one will face it and has to accept the changes which happen, but its too hard for people to see these changes and most of the time there is major cribbing seen with topics on the forum..
And also complaints 😆 one can write a book on the whole set of complaints why this happened why didn't they all die altogether, there needs to be answers for so many things , I totally had a laughter riot reading such topics and was annoyed too since reality doesn't seem to strike some sections of crowd.
And wow jodis fighting that was another thing beyond my understanding ..
Jodis happen and they are changing depending on the need of certain requirements and one should just treasure them and enjoy what was offered and give a chance to appreciate new ones..
I am glad many have been an open book and think outside the box and understand why we can give chances to appreciate which wouldn't be expected to happen.
I tried to amend peace among the different phases of the show But and many did and I liked it I am glad , but many hmm may never want to....
* Your Views on Bidaai Dev team and their decisions..(we r not epxecting any praises here..but plss don't throw joota-chappals eitherLOL..ok kiddingLOLLOL)
No comments 😆 No Way loads of it !!🤣
Frankly I am quite dissatisfied at all by the mods of this forum.. Usually I don't comment abt the Mods in any forum but off late given an opportunity would love to give my two cents
#Firstly when I entered the forum I saw a petition to have main characters back but never a petition to encourage someone new coming into the show. Why not being a Mod encourage such things, since obviously there will be people who would like change and give them room to feel comfortable in the forum..
#secondly i feel that the three Mods who were dedicated to this forum pre leap since they loved the stoyrline or their favouertire gave so much to the show, never bothered to be a part of the post leap.
If that was the scenario then may be they could have opted to step down and allow someone who truly was happy and enlighted for the change in the show and encourage more for people who are liking the post leap.
None among the three Mods stated have been active post leap or adhered to looking at posts which were ridiculous disgusting and they ran 20-25 pages having unnecessary arguments and silly propositions.
There were amends made for such post but after a long time when many members were quite disgusted that the action was not taken at the nick of time after repeated requests.
#The biased unanimous decision taken for the banner was really quite unfair...
It should have been a voting system where rockerz or people who have been on the forum at least two years get a chance top vote..
Also I feel that the first runner up banner made more sense to be out than the existing banner which is too cluttered.. Even for the banner maker its small twicks which could have been done and our requirements could have been fulfilled, but the way the talent and creativity is shown is not to my satisfaction. It dose'nt take a lot of changes which a request is made but you people did never adhere to it and it really hurts many of us which have wanted some change.
Members started accusing that we felt that Anmol should be all over the place on the banner , which was a very rude remark made and quite promptly changed😭😭😭(ab hum kya bole ...yeh bhi unlogo ko galat lagega)
Overall I wanted to share my experiences and the people like me who joined here post leap did'nt get a share of justice on many issues..
But with the show at its present stage I know it will never be completely addressed.
Thats all I have to say 😊 Finally wishes will be the only way i can give my thought. Maybe next time experiences would be different in certain areas !!🤗
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