Bidaai to end on Nov 13th:TB Article:Discuss Here - Page 18

Originally posted by: *Eva*

Wow, I left Bidaai almost 5 months ago...but this news definitely shook me up. 😳

Bidaai, Bidaai, Bidaai...what do I really say about this show? I haven't written an essay in a while...but lets do it one last time...for old time sake. 🤣

My journey with this show started in the first quarter of 2008. When it first launched in October 2007, I honestly could not STAND this show. I thought that Sadhna & Ragini were just two weak individuals who only knew how to apply glycerin in their eyes. 🤣

And then...I kept seeing SADHNA WEDS ALEKH promos everywhere...and then I decided to give this show ONE chance to prove itself...only one chance, being so kanjoos. 🤣

Sagini...I think the majority of this place knows how mental I get whenever I describe Sagini. The same ol' boring gushing repeated over & over again. 🤣

When I actually saw the Salekh wedding...I felt anxious. I already started feeling for Salekh...they were adorable...but Sagini were intriguing. I knew I claimed that they were irritating before...but I found them very...different this time. The way they interacted with each other...how their eyes spoke volumes...unique kind of a feeling. 😍 ☺️

Then SONIA came online...and I left...🤪 🤣

And shortly after...I read that Ranvir & Ragini were going to have a love track...and that caught my attention. Ever since their first meeting...Sadhna & Alekh's reception...they had a spark. And now...this spark could finally develop into a beautiful relationship. 😍 ☺️

The Anmol-Anamika track was what got me obsessed with this show...RagVir, Salekh, AleVir, RagLekh, SadVir and of course, Sagini...I loved all of them to pieces. The beautiful dupatta scene, the dandiya sequence, Ishq Hua, Teri Ore, the Taj Mahotsav, Mere Dholna, O Re Piya, Pehle Pyar Ka Pehle Gham...I still cant get enough of this whole track. 😍 ☺️

I joined the forum around August 2008...and started posting. Met some amazing people who are not fans of the show anymore...but man, I just want to thank all of them for making my experience here absolutely beautiful. 😍 🤗

Following the Taj Mahotsav, the Sagini misunderstanding, the whole Shishir & Ranvir going to Switzerland thing and of course the very beautiful RagVir confession with the RagVir & Salekh forehead kisses. 😍 ☺️ 🥳

I thought I couldnt love this show more...till scenes like the December 15th, 2008 one...and the Lo Chali Mein dance came along. Bidaai was at its best...the happiness, the positivity...it was just an ethereal experience. 😍 ☺️ 🥳

RagVir got engaged...the cricket match...the beautiful terrace scene...the haldi ceremony...the sangeet ceremony...and then finally, the wedding. The moment we all had been waiting for...the foursome...in one house. Sagini back together...AleVir together...Salekh & RagVir under one roof. 😍 ☺️ 🥳

The absolutely magical mu dikhaye...the golden honeymoon...the peak of Bidaai. Tujh Mein Rab Dikhta Hai & Bol Na Halke Halke...the essence of the honeymoon still has not left me after more than a year & a half. 👏 👍🏼 😍

After this point, Bidaai's quality was lacking, in my eyes. Sadhna's hospital track (other than the beautiful Salekh scenes), the Shlok track, Alekh's insecurity...it was getting harder to tolerate the show BUT I still ended up watching every episode for the foursome. TRPs were dropping and I could see why...but I just could not stop watching, no matter what. 🤣 😭

Salekh's second sangeet...the Mujhse Dosti Karogi melody...Alekh's Kuch Kuch Hota Hai to Sadhna...Ragini's heartbreaking Ajeeb Dastaan Hai Yeh...the foursome were looking DAMN hot. But because of the gloomy atmosphere in the show, it wasnt as easy to enjoy this one. 😭

Salekh's second wedding was beautiful...Alekh's I LOVE YOU SADHNA...Sadhna's PHIR SE EK BAAR BOLIYE...I was drenched in tears. It was a rocky track...but it had a beautiful ending. The dialogues written in the scene...hats off to the scriptwriters! 😍 ☺️ 👍🏼

Then came the CM track...I honestly didnt like this track very much because I felt that CM was an integral part of Bidaai. She helped RagVir a lot...same with Salekh...I just didnt feel that it was the right end for her character. And Chachu? What did he do? The whole BADHUA she gave to the RV parivaar...it just didnt seem like the CM we all knew. 🤔

And of course...the CM track paved way for the horrific DADI-BUA track. Oh GOD...as much as I loved Sagini's October 22nd scene...NO. This track just didnt work for me...Sadhna's slap, Ragini's anger...it was just HORRIFIC. Although the November 1st apology scene was just MAGICAL followed by the other November scenes...I knew what was coming. 😡 🤔 🤣

The...🤔

OMG. 😳

*Paranormal Activity 2 music*

THE RIFT. 😲 👎🏼 😳 🤣 😡 🤪

Ranvir went to jail...a shattered Ragini...a disturbed Alekh...and a heartbroken Sadhna. NOT A GOOD MIX. 😲 👎🏼 😭

Ragini miscarried...the blame fell upon Sadhna...she was kicked out...treated like dirt in her maayka and sasural...my heart cried buckets for her. Even though I was such a big Saginian...I needed Sadhna to brush Ragini off...and Ragini to repent, repent and repent. That track had some beautiful moments...but it was just too painful for me to endure. 😡 😭
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Although this track was excruciating, MARCH 12TH WAS JUST BEAUTIFUL. The Sagini reunion...no words. I was just appalled...by every second of that scene. I really must have seen it like 200 times...maybe even more. Everytime I see it...it just feels like I'm watching it for the first time. My favourite scene of Bidaai probably...it blows me over each time. 😍 😭

The Salekh reunion, the foursome moving into their new house, the RagVir ched chaad, the Sagini teasing, the Salekh suhaag raat...MESMERIZING. March & April...FANTASTIC in terms of quality. Our old Bidaai was back...with a bang. Everything was perfect...until the Karan track. But I wont go into details of what happened after...let's just pretend that never happened. 😍 👎🏼 🤔 🤣

Yes, I was heartbroken in June...and still am from what happened...I did feel disconnected from the show when I heard the news about Sadhna's & Ranvir's demise. But my journey with the show, the members, the characters, the couples and the actors has been too beautiful to forget...why would I even want to forget them when they gave me so many memories? 😳

I know that Apurva and Sulagna are doing a fab job...I know how fab Appu is as an actor. JJKN, Kajaal, Radha Ki Betiyaan...he was absolutely FANTASTIC in these ones...along with of course, Pardes. I wish them both all the very best in life...and hope to catch them again very soon. 😳

As for my foursome AKA KAPS...I love all four of them. Always have...and always will. Hope they keep shining...and keep entertaining us. I pray that they come back together someday soon...because I will always be waiting, no matter what. Thank you for all the memories...and I will keep fighting for all four of you. 😍 😳

To the forum members, I love you all. I know that we've had our quarrels...but we're a family na? These things are bound to happen...I know that some of you have not always agreed with me but I just tried to enforce the rules. I apologize if I have hurt anyone...no intention too and nothing personal. I've made many close friends here...some who I need to talk to every day...others whom I cherish every moment with...and of course the regular acquaintances at the forum. Be it any fangroup, I need you all to keep smiling through the hard times...because no matter how bad it gets...light will always come. Thank you for all the love and respect you've given me throughout the years. God bless you all...and I hope that I'll always be in touch with all of you. 😳 🤗

To Jyots and Kiran, you both are beautiful human beings. Thank you for everything...this 9 month experience has been beautiful. i would have never thought in a gazillion years that I'd be part of the DT...and that too the BIDAAI DT. You both have taught me a lot...and working with both of you has been a distinct pleasure. I love you both...and your cheerful attitude has always boosted my morale. Thank you for everything. God bless you both...I'll always be in touch with both of you. 😳🤗

Alrighty, because I'm off to India tomorrow...I may not be as active for a few days BUT I hope to get some connection there BEFORE Bidaai ends just to close things off. Hopefully, I'll be able to...so if you have any urgent issues and if you PM me, replies will be late as I will not have proper connection. Please PM either Jyoti or Kiran for the time-being, if you want a quick reply...I still have like 3 pages of PMs to reply to so I apologize if I havent replied to yours yet. My time management is seriously something I needa work on...so really sorry about that. LOVE YOU ALL...hope to get some connection in India before Bidaai ends. Let's hope for the best...will miss you all! 😳 😭 🤗

Originally posted by: sami01

rekha push for his track was i feel our biggest victory we got it in end,itna keh keh ke aur respectfully logically aakhir they realized apu's worth and his talent.his past has made me very happy,so he was snot from mars,he had a family and he had a life before he became rajwansh family's personal servant oopps i mean caretaker...

i would also request apu please don't get into shoes of a character which is especially popular with young college going crowd as it can lead to disasters and grief for fans too

Originally posted by: sami01

OK let me say good analysis Eva seems very impressive,but since you have written 2-3 lines about lets live in peace ,and you have already apologized if you hurt some one,I agree you are very sweet person,but in last 5 months in my journey in this forum,you were least available person,despite being viewbie you were not around for people like us.

I agree you are medicine student and i have been in that boat before,i know how hard it is,so my concern is you should have stepped down as viewbie and get some one else do the job,because it was hard with your busy life.I personally felt neglected ,ignored and disrespected in this forum and Mods action was insufficient.

I am so unhappy ke despite giving technical flaws about banner ,one character which jyoti posted as compulsory was missing you guys did not Even bother to reply to my query in that thread.

I think post leap i had my contribution to this forum and its peace, i had welcomed people,ignored their insulting remarks for as long as i could ,but today i am sorry to say this all to you but i feel your contribution as mod was not put forward at time of critical need.

Jyoti was only one available ,except her genuine crisis with computer,she at least took care of reports if nothing else.Kiran is busy person being channel mod but i found her more here than you,as viewbie you should have been one doing that job,am sorry if i am rude but i had to say it as this forum has hurt me lot, I always had amazing time at IF ,i made mistakes,interactions with DT teams was always good and positive,so is with you as i said you are very sweet person but....

anyways bidaai is ending so hopefully i wont feel obliged to stay here for sake of my love for apu and my fellow friends.

Originally posted by: sami01

rekha push for his track was i feel our biggest victory we got it in end,itna keh keh ke aur respectfully logically aakhir they realized apu's worth and his talent.his past has made me very happy,so he was snot from mars,he had a family and he had a life before he became rajwansh family's personal servant oopps i mean caretaker...

i would also request apu please don't get into shoes of a character which is especially popular with young college going crowd as it can lead to disasters and grief for fans too