She is not an ideal bahu - Page 4

Originally posted by: reguser

@Bani

Seems there is good discussion going on here about the new girl. Havent read in detail.

But, as Suchitra has mentioned, I too have no interest in this new track 🤢

I like this actress. I have seen her in Amber-Dhara. She is a good actress. But, somehow I dont find logic in a totally new story of Sakshi-Alekh. May be my perceptions will change later after the story unfolds, but now a big 👎🏼 from my side.

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

I understand Pallavi..its really difficult to see Alekh and Ragini with someone else, we have sort of got used to seeing Ragini-Ranveer and Alekh-Sadhna together. But if you leave aside Bidaai as a show and think of real-life situations, then Ragini and Alekh need to lead a complete life, at least for the sake of the children. Alekh is reduced to square one, but for Khushi at least, he needs to get normal and if Sakshi can do that, and also be a mother to Khushi, it will be really good for all three of them. I think the soul of Sadhna is alo not happy to see Alekh like this and Khushi living with an emptiness. How many questions might be raised against Sadhna's character, but its undeniable that she had nothing except good wishes for Alekh and she would never like to see Alekh unhappy. Sadhna was the girl who was like a shadow to Alekh, when he needed her the most. She never left him, till he told her to leave the house.

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

I understand Pallavi..its really difficult to see Alekh and Ragini with someone else, we have sort of got used to seeing Ragini-Ranveer and Alekh-Sadhna together. But if you leave aside Bidaai as a show and think of real-life situations, then Ragini and Alekh need to lead a complete life, at least for the sake of the children. Alekh is reduced to square one, but for Khushi at least, he needs to get normal and if Sakshi can do that, and also be a mother to Khushi, it will be really good for all three of them. I think the soul of Sadhna is alo not happy to see Alekh like this and Khushi living with an emptiness. How many questions might be raised against Sadhna's character, but its undeniable that she had nothing except good wishes for Alekh and she would never like to see Alekh unhappy. Sadhna was the girl who was like a shadow to Alekh, when he needed her the most. She never left him, till he told her to leave the house.

Originally posted by: Lennie

I agree here It depends how your vunerability is, and how you have been brought up, and Sakshi seems like a alone girl, hasnt been brought up in a family, or feel a family's love and one doesnt know what it feels like - so Sakshi will be learning and seeing this, and love can change ppl

Originally posted by: Seebz

Exactly, Love can change ppl....If it is something one never got! This is exactly Sakshi's case..I have a feeling that Ragini will play a crucial role. Initially, She won't accept it but seeing the improvment in Alekh's life she will. She will Help Sakshi and Sakshi will see Ragini as an older sister she never had.

Originally posted by: reguser

@Bold - It is due to Sadhna's existence, Alekh became normal and gained confidence. Though, immediately after becoming normal, he started to ignore Sadhna (even before rift track), it is due to Sadhna, he has learnt to make a living for himself without Rajvansh's name. The "Dil jaaniya" song was apt for them (both happy and sad versions). The meaning of each and every line portrayed their unique love story. We get to see many love stories on TV. So there is nothing great in seeing one more love story with usual fight from elders and all those purana stuff. But Sadhna and Alekh's love story was something different. It was spiritual and unique. I still remember those days when Sadhna used to take care of mentally unstable Alekh and that really was the cutest phase of the serial.

By showing a new girl, I feel they are doing injustice to old love story. I read somewhere about some people discussing about "kuch kuch hota hai " and this coming new track between Alekh and Sakshi. I feel, KKHH was a totally different story where Rahul and Anjali were best of buddies even before Tina came into Rahul's life.

Anyhow, Bidai is setting a trend in taking ideas from many movies....😆

Originally posted by: Lennie

Vasu is very right, there is a big difference to what a nurse can do and what a wife can do

Just like Ragini, she can do all for Alekh as a sister in law and his guardian in a way, but it cant come close to what a wife can do for Alekh - i hope i made sense

As for the whole story and love story, from Sakshi pov, its will be hard coz Alekh is unstable (which Sadhna had) but along with a 8yr old daughter and his Sadhna talks and where is she and she will come back - this is what Sakshi will have to deal with, there is a difference to what Sadhna had to deal with and now Sakshi and also Sadhna is everywhere in that house and she has to deal with that and honour that as well - that will be interesting

Sadhan has other baggage as well - like Ragini and her shaadi, the deal with Vasu, the house etc

With Sakshi it will all those things mentioned above,and being and trying to fit in amongst all in the family and that crave of love and not having that upbringing

Like Alekh she is also adhoori in a way

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

well said. Sadhna had totally many other things to worry about. She had altogether different issues to deal with. Actually, I am happy that Vasu can realise the difference between a nurse and a wife, because previously she had addressed Sadhna as Alekh's nurse instead of Alekh's wife. But then again, she was a completely different person.

Sakshi's test is something different. As Mrs. Alekh rajvansh, she will be intentionally or unintentionally compared to Sadhna always. This can create a lot of pressure on her, as her love, concern everything will be measured keeping Sdahna as a standard.